In this thought-provoking episode, Kristin and Laura ask why women’s joy so often gets dismissed as “basic.” From Taylor Swift fandoms to fantasy novels, they unpack the deep psychological roots of how gendered taste is constructed—and why we feel guilty for what we love.

They dive into:
• Why "guilty pleasures" are a feminist issue
• The Enlightenment origins of the gender binary
• How cultural legitimacy is shaped by patriarchy
• The impact of internalized misogyny on hobbies and identity
• Personal stories of navigating shame, taste, and authenticity

This episode is a celebration of reclaiming joy, challenging cultural scripts, and asking: what if liking what we like was radical?

In this episode, we delve into the themes of Netflix's limited series 'Adolescence' from our perspectives as psychologists who often work with boys and young men in sports. We discuss the psychological implications of incel culture and the manosphere, the societal pressures faced by young men, and explore broader cultural narratives surrounding masculinity and relationships. We touch on the impact of parental influence on adolescent behavior, and the role of social media in shaping perceptions of masculinity. The conversation also touches on the importance of recognizing positive aspects of masculinity and the need for a shift in how society views and supports both men and women. Throughout, we emphasise shifting the burden of societal change from women.

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In this episode, we delve into the complexities surrounding women's sports. We explore the historical barriers that have hindered women's participation in sports and the ongoing challenges in achieving equity and visibility for women's sports, emphasising how sports are often a tool of patriarchy in preventing women's progress. We end by reflecting on the importance of questioning assumptions and exploring the nuances of women's rights in sports and beyond.

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