Joey, Paul, and Amber get real about marriage — the challenges, the beauty, and the impact it has on generations. They share lessons from nearly 33 years of marriage, parenting through faith, and why God must be at the center of it all.

This episode is part encouragement, part letter to their children, and 100% grounded in truth, love, and real-life experiences. If you’re married, preparing to be, or need hope for your relationship, listen in.

📖 Bible Focus: 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 🎙️ Hosts: Joey Koontz, Paul Bengel 👩 Guest: Amber Bengel

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We’re kicking off a raw 3-part series on mindset. In this episode, Joey and Paul talk about how mindset affects every part of your life—your faith, relationships, leadership, and future.

We unpack:

• What shaped our mindset growing up

• When fear held us back

• The difference between growth and fixed mindset (Carol Dweck)

• Why encouragement from a parent can shape a lifetime

• Why faith, identity, and daily renewal matter

• Mindset by Carol S. Dweck: https://amzn.to/3VvC5hB

• Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins (audio recommended): https://amzn.to/3Wg6fLv

• The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz: https://amzn.to/3W9uFyQ

• Romans 12:2 – “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

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🌐 More from Joey: joeykoontz.com

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In Episode 3 of Brotherhood Forged, Joey and Paul get real about the ups and downs of marriage — what they’ve learned, what they’ve done wrong, and how God’s design continues to shape their relationships.

From overcoming bad habits to learning how to lead with love, they unpack key misconceptions and offer Biblical encouragement rooted in Ephesians 5:25 — “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church.”

If you’re a husband striving to be better, this one’s for you.

• Common marriage misconceptions that hold men back

• Why “50/50” is a myth — and what it should be instead

• How to communicate without assumptions or resentment

• Building a vision for your marriage

• What sacrificial love really looks like as a husband

• Practical shifts that help marriages thrive

• When to lead, when to support, and how to show up with humility

• Real talk about commitment, keeping score, and selfishness

Ephesians 5:25

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

➡️ Ask your wife:

“What makes you feel the most loved right now?”

Then follow through — without expecting anything in return.

➡️ Bonus Challenge:

Go over your love languages together and commit to one action that speaks to hers this week.

• Am I loving my wife sacrificially… or selfishly?

• Do I assume things about my wife without asking her directly?

• What’s one area I need to stop keeping score in?

• What are my spouse’s strengths that I often overlook?

• How can I show up as the thermostat, not the thermometer, in my home?

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Behind every man are battles nobody sees.

In this episode, Paul and Joey open up about painful experiences that shaped them into the men they are today. From family struggles to tragic loss, they talk about real growth, real lessons, and the power of brotherhood, faith, and perseverance.

You’ll hear about:

• How silent battles can define your leadership and character

• Why relationships are too precious to take for granted

• How faith and brotherhood helped them rise above adversity

• Core lessons that helped shape their lives

• Action steps you can take to grow from your own challenges

Mentioned Links:

• Learn more about The Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/dad-edge-alliance/

• Check out The Dad Edge Podcast: https://thedadedge.com/podcast/

• Visit Joey’s YouTube Channel (Joey’s Pain Cave): https://youtube.com/@joeyspaincave

• Book Recommendation – The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz: Get it here on Amazon

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Keep showing up. Keep leading with heart. Keep trusting Jesus.

Brotherhood Forged — Where truth meets grit.

In our very first episode, we go back to where it all began—two strangers on a bus in St. Louis who became brothers through faith, fatherhood, and a shared mission to serve.

We talk about:

• Why this podcast exists

• What brotherhood means to us

• The power of stepping out of your comfort zone

• Our backgrounds, our families, and our faith

• How mentorship and community changed our lives

This episode is raw, unscripted, and honest—just two guys chasing growth, learning out loud, and showing up for the men God has called us to be.

New episodes drop every Wednesday at 5AM (this we are dropping a couple of days early)

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Proverbs 27:17 — “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.”

Welcome to Brotherhood Forged

A faith-driven podcast hosted by Joey Koontz and Paul Bengel.

We talk real life—marriage, faith, leadership, addiction, purpose—and what it takes to lead as men of God in today’s world.

Expect raw conversations, biblical truth, and a brotherhood that sharpens and strengthens.

We’re not perfect. But we’re committed.

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