Have you ever achieved something you thought you wanted, only to feel strangely empty? This profound conversation with CBT therapist Ludovica Colella uncovers the hidden cost of living by other people's rules and the liberating journey toward authentic self-expression.

Ludovica shares her personal awakening after realizing her impressive achievements as a therapist in London weren't bringing the fulfillment she expected. The breakthrough came when she recognised she was living according to an inherited timeline and expectations. This revelation sparked her transformation from people-pleaser to empowered coach helping others break free from similar patterns.

We dive deep into what Ludovica calls the "Good Girl Syndrome"—the societal conditioning that teaches women to be accommodating, non-confrontational, and self-sacrificing at the expense of their authentic needs. She explains how people-pleasing is essentially a form of self-abandonment that often begins as a survival mechanism in childhood but continues shaping our adult relationships in harmful ways.

Whether you're struggling with perfectionism, feeling disconnected from your desires, or simply exhausted from trying to make everyone else happy, this conversation offers a compassionate roadmap to reclaiming your authentic voice and living from a place of genuine self-worth.

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