Extreme dieting and contest prep might look glamorous on stage, but the reality is often very different. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m breaking down the truth about restrictive diets, binge eating, and why so many women struggle with food during prep and after the show.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the all-or-nothing fitness cycle, battled food guilt, or wondered if sustainable fat loss is even possible, this conversation is for you. I’ll share what I’ve seen coaching thousands of women, the red flags to look out for, and how to build a healthier relationship with food without going to extremes.

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#ExtremeDieting #ContestPrep #BingeEatingRecovery

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Kicking things off – what really happens with long-term dieting

00:27 The truth about contest prep

01:00 Why food always becomes an issue with extreme dieting

01:19 Coaching the right way – sustainability over restriction

08:47 The diet cycle explained (and why it messes with you)

11:16 How to actually find balance with fitness and food

19:56 A peek at the Healthy and Hot Challenge

25:44 Wrapping up and how you can join in

Links Mentioned:

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Jack’s in the hot seat with me today for a fun and totally unscripted couple’s Q&A! We’re going through 11 relationship questions (plus one surprise bonus question he didn’t see coming) to see where the conversation takes us. From hilarious moments to deeper, more vulnerable answers, we cover everything from the little habits we’ve picked up since dating to the surprising things we’ve learned about each other.

If you’re looking for fun relationship questions, conversation starters for couples, or just want to hear a real, unfiltered boyfriend-girlfriend chat, this episode is for you. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, you can steal these questions for your next date night and see what fun and maybe unexpected - answers you get!

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 – Kicking things off

00:19 – 11 fun questions to ask your partner

00:36 – Looking at how our relationship works

01:37 – Funny and unexpected things we’ve learned

05:12 – Moments that had us laughing hard

06:04 – Understanding each other better

10:19 – Predictable outfits and other quirks

12:27 – What we’re excited about in the future

13:40 – Imitating each other’s reactions

14:33 – Keeping things positive

15:49 – How things have changed over the past year

16:53 – Reflecting on where we are now

20:50 – Throwback to our teenage years

24:20 – Little phrases we’ve picked up from each other

26:19 – Adventures we want to have and our goals as a couple

29:30 – Getting a bit emotional

32:18 – Wrapping up and talking about what’s next

Links Mentioned:

Sign up to our Healthy & Hot Challenge kicking off this September 22! Learn more here: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-hot-challenge

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Credits to Carleigh Ferrante @mostlydating on IG for these intimate couple questions https://www.instagram.com/mostlydating

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Ever wonder what happens after extreme diets, bodybuilding shows, or intense fitness challenges? I’m sharing my personal post-show struggles, from body image and food obsession to social anxiety, and how to recover without shame. This episode is perfect for women over 40, athletes, or anyone navigating life after big fitness goals. Learn practical tips to balance your body, mind, and health after extreme training or dieting!

#WomenOver40Fitness #WomenEmpowerment #BodybuildingRecovery

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Intro - Keeping Your Routine Real After 40

00:28 Hey! Welcome Back to Boss Bitch Radio

01:40 The Mental Rollercoaster After Diets and Competitions

02:52 My Story and Why You Can Trust Me

03:43 The Struggle of Sticking to Extreme Diets

06:35 Why Realistic Health Goals Matter

13:31 How Coaching and Support Make a Difference

21:26 Actionable Steps for Lasting Health

22:13 Healthy and Hot Challenge – Here’s What’s Coming

27:31 Wrap-Up – Come Join the Challenge

Links Mentioned:

Sign up to our Healthy & Hot Challenge kicking off this September 22nd! Learn more here: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-hot-challenge

Become a member of our Facebook group - The Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community w/Diane Flores IFBB Pro: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro/

I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here!

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In this episode, I’m handing the mic over to the one and only Boston Jack - aka the guy behind The Boston Jack Show and also, yes, the man in my life. We’re talking growing up with sports, the culture shock of moving from Boston to California, what makes Boston people Boston, and how he went from kicking soccer balls for cash to becoming the social lube in our relationship (his words, not mine). It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s hilarious. You're gonna love him!

#BostonCulture #MotivationForMen #SportsPodcast

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Kicking things off and finding that spark

00:15 Meet Jack - yes, the guy behind the mic

00:49 Growing up Boston-style and what makes him, him

02:33 East Coast vs. West Coast vibes

09:14 How sports shaped Boston Jack’s life

11:46 Pushing through the tough moments in athletics

17:33 Big emotions, bigger role models

20:21 Why he chose to stay close to home for college

20:53 Friends, college, and playing sports

21:17 Sports and school - how it all connects

21:53 Hot takes on sports teams

23:53 Keeping up with health and fitness

25:06 How relationships can impact your fitness game

27:52 Staying strong as you get older

34:14 Behind the scenes: starting the Boston Jack Show

35:20 Rapid-fire round and closing thoughts

Links Mentioned:

Ready to feel healthy and hot?! Sign up to the Healthy & Hot Challenge waitlist here: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-hot-challenge

Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching

Don’t miss out - follow The Boston Jack Show, coming soon!

Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30

Struggling to stay consistent with your workouts, nutrition, or daily habits? You’re not lazy - you’re likely just overwhelmed or overextended! In this episode, I’m walking you through 8 journaling questions that will help you figure out why you keep falling off track. These prompts are designed to peel back the layers and get honest about what’s really in the wa - whether it’s lack of support, burnout, perfectionism, or just trying to do too much.

If you’re constantly starting over or telling yourself “I just need to get back on it,” this is for you. It’s not about finding the perfect plan. It’s about getting clear, taking ownership, and creating routines that actually fit your real life!

#Journaling #SelfReflection #ProductivityTips

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Kicking things off with some real talk

00:15 What healthy habits actually help you feel hot

00:24 Why staying consistent is hard (especially in summer)

02:33 The stuff that keeps throwing you off track

03:56 Why asking for help matters more than you think

05:42 Let’s ditch the all-or-nothing mindset

07:16 Journaling prompts to figure out what’s really going on

15:43 Who’s in your circle and are they helping or hurting?

17:20 Visualizing the version of you you’re working toward

25:04 Making time for you without guilt

28:01 Wrapping it up with some tough love and next steps

Links Mentioned:

Listen to this podcast episode “How To Do An Energy Audit So You Can Get Your Spark Back” I where I share my do, delegate, delete method to help you clear the clutter and reset! https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/how-to-do-an-energy-audit-so-you-can-get-your-spark-back

Ready to feel healthy and hot?! Join the waitlist for the Healthy & Hot Challenge kicking off this September! Sign up: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-hot-challenge

Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching

I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q

Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30

Connect with Diane:

Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro

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Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro

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Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide

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If you’ve ever felt like you had to shrink yourself to fit in, this episode is for you! We’re getting real about imposter syndrome, self-abandonment, confidence, and what it actually means to like yourself. I’m sharing stories, raw reflections, and some serious truth bombs because it’s not your job to make them like you. It’s your job to like yourself. So let’s talk about what that really looks like.

#SelfLove #ConfidenceTips #ImposterSyndrome

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Kicking things off with some real talk on self-love

00:21 Feeling all the feels this week (thanks, hormones)

01:00 Confidence wobbles and that imposter voice in your head

01:59 Showing up messy and connecting with you all

04:01 Why being yourself actually matters

12:03 Some dating tea and being true to you

21:20 How we lose ourselves and how to get back

24:23 Wrapping it up with love — you get to be you

Links Mentioned:

Ready to feel healthy and hot?! Sign up to the Healthy & Hot Challenge waitlist here: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-hot-challenge

Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching

I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here!

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Connect with Diane:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro

Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro

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Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide

Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program

Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide

My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements

Feeling tired all the time? You're not alone AND you’re not broken! In this episode, we’re chatting all about energy management, burnout, hormones, gut health, and why your go-go-go mindset might be making things worse. I’m spilling updates from life and diving deep into the small shifts that’ll help you feel less wired and tired. Whether you're over 40, running a business, juggling all the things, or just want to wake up not needing 3 cups of coffee, this one's for you!

#EnergyManagement #WomensHealthOver40 #BurnoutRecovery

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Kicking things off with life updates and what’s new

01:17 Real talk on managing your energy without burning out

04:46 Simple, doable ways to boost your energy

09:21 Are you living on caffeine? Let’s chat about it

15:27 Sleep struggles? Here’s why it matters more than you think

18:07 Why rest and self-care aren’t just “nice to have”

18:38 Gut stuff, hormones, and why they affect how you feel

19:14 What to know about food and energy, especially over 40

20:05 Eating well without going all or nothing

21:04 Finding that sweet spot with your food and mindset

23:11 How to act like the version of you who already feels amazing

24:45 The mental load is real—and what to do about it

28:54 Why asking for help matters more than you think

31:07 Final thoughts and a sneak peek of what’s coming next

Links Mentioned:

Ready to feel healthy and hot?! Sign up to the Healthy & Hot Challenge waitlist here: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-hot-challenge

Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching

I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here!

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Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30

Connect with Diane:

Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro

Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro

Freebies:

Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint

Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide

Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program

Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide

My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements