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Black and White and Gold

Black and White and Gold

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Deep conversations are a whole love language, and we're going there! Talking about many different topics, from the mundane to the taboo--we'll make it complicated, we'll hopefully create a little empathy and decrease judgment of others along the way.

blackandwhiteandgold.substack.comCarly Allred
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  • Episode 43 - Where Personal and Family Spirituality Intersect
    Jul 17 2025

    In this episode, we dive into the intricate tapestry of family dynamics and religious expectations with Carly’s cousin-in-law (that’s a thing…promise), Abbie. Abbie shares her personal journey of navigating her upbringing within the church, the challenges of balancing personal beliefs with familial expectations, and the profound impact these experiences have had on her family life. Join us as we explore the complexities of faith, identity, and the courage it takes to forge one's own path. This episode is a testament to the power of storytelling and the resilience found in embracing one's truth.

    Through the conversation, Carly, Rob, and Abbie discuss Abbie's journey through faith, family, and personal growth. They explore the complexities of growing up in the church, the challenges of navigating expectations in marriage, integrating expectations when starting and joining a family, and the importance of storytelling in healing. Abbie shares her experiences of questioning experiences related to church during her teenage years, the impact of her mother's illness on their church attendance, and the beauty found in both pain and joy. The conversation highlights the gray areas of belief and the significance of finding one's own path in spirituality.

    In this conversation, Abbie, Rob, and Carly explore the complexities of navigating faith transitions, particularly within the context of Mormonism (specifically as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints). They discuss the challenges of having difficult conversations with loved ones, the importance of creating support systems, and the healing that can come from open dialogue.

    Abbie shares her personal journey of investigation and the emotional turmoil that often accompanies leaving a faith. They emphasize the need for compassion and understanding in conversations about spirituality and the diverse paths individuals take in their spiritual journeys.

    Season two starts in August, and we are so excited to share these new topics with you! Please like, share, comment, rate, and review wherever you end up listening.

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Episode 42 - Stages of Faith Crisis and the Cycle of Disaffection
    Jun 26 2025

    Our last episode of the official Season 2! We will be back again with weekly episodes starting on August 7.

    We are looking to interview experts in the different aspects of patriarchal systems…know someone? Send them our info. We’d love to chat!

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    LDS Faith Crisis Report PDF (complete)

    Includes the graphs we reference throughout:

    * GRAPH 1: Faith Crisis Stages (from the report linked above):

    * GRAPH 2: Cycle of Disaffection (from report linked above)

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    57 mins
  • Episode 41 - When Mental Health is Intertwined with Religion
    Jun 19 2025



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