Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply.

They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can be desirable and WHY dating younger/the same age range can also be desirable so you have a better idea of what make you and your age-range appealing.

It’s honest, insightful, and full of practical tips to help you show up with more confidence and connection in your dating life.

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What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self.

Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to eliminate approach anxiety using easy, practical shifts you can apply today.

This isn't just theory—it's transformation you can hear. If you've ever struggled with self-talk that kills your vibe before you even say hello, you need this episode in your ears.

🔥 Tune in to learn:

• The secret power of precise language

• How to eliminate approach anxiety through word choice

• Real-time mindset rewiring in action

This one’s a game changer.

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Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize.

In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks down exactly how to uncover the hidden traumas holding you back — and more importantly, how to release them so they stop running the show. From small emotional wounds to deep-rooted pain, we explore how trauma affects everything from your confidence to your dating life to your sense of self.

Tori shares real, practical tools for identifying and healing unresolved issues — so you can finally start living freely and fully.

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In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences.

We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on what a woman likes, what she doesn’t, and how to test the waters in a way that feels confident, playful, and deeply attuned. Celeste shares actionable tips on how to explore and communicate desire without killing the mood, how to bring more sensuality into your touch, and how to come across as the sexy, grounded man women crave—without second-guessing yourself.

Whether you're just starting to explore intimacy or want to take your bedroom confidence to the next level, this episode will give you a new perspective on pleasure, connection, and what women actually want.

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What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?

In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.

We dive into:

• What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychology

• How to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to create polarity and deeper emotional connection

• Personal stories from our own relationships where embracing shadow energy created surprising breakthroughs

• A grounded, practical guide to shadow work — and how to do it without spiraling or getting stuck in shame

If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of you you’ve been told to hide — this episode is your permission slip to bring it into the light (and use it well).

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This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want.

Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it.

We also dive into:

• How to find and pursue the right woman for you

• How to build a strategy for attracting a specific girl

• How to get different types of women based on what you want

• How to mentally overcome obstacles without ever stepping into therapy

...and so much more.

Don’t miss this one — it’s packed with fresh insights that could change the way you see yourself (and how women see you).

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We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women.

Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it till you make it' is real, and she’ll show you how.)

Whether you’re a man ready to level up or a woman curious about the inner workings of confidence and attraction, this episode has something for you.

We also break down and (over)analyze:

1. What makes someone truly charismatic

2. How to give your woman what she wants without losing yourself

3. Simple, powerful things you can say that instantly make you more lovable

…and so much more. This one’s packed.

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In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.

Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected.

We also unpack the common myths about arousal, the options we didn’t even know were on the table, and why pleasure is never one-size-fits-all.

This one is equal parts educational, liberating, and empowering. You might never approach sex the same way again.

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