• Are You the Raccoon or the Architect?

  • Apr 16 2024
  • Length: 41 mins
  • Podcast
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Are You the Raccoon or the Architect?

  • Summary

  • Think equal division of chores guarantees happiness in marriage? Think again. The truth is: it’s not the fighting about chores that’s the problem - it’s the lack of communication. In today’s episode we uncover the myth of 50-50 and explore the real ingredients to a successful marriage. John and I are pulling back the curtain on our own 25+ year relationship as we share our own strategies, including understanding each other's priorities and embracing diverse work styles leading to deeper, more meaningful connections. I’ll also share our five-step approach to divide and conquer household responsibilities, making sure everyone plays to their strengths.

    In this episode you’ll learn:
    How can I improve communication in my marriage?
    What are simple ways to divide household chores with your spouse?
    What is the best way to delegate household tasks in a marriage?
    How can I communicate better with my family?

    Topics Covered:
    - Division of household labor
    - Communication in marriage
    - Gender roles and chores
    - Effective delegation in relationships
    - Keys for stronger marriage
    - Family Meetings
    - Intentional Relationship Building


    Key Moments in the Show:
    [02:13] Appreciating the Differences in Your Marriage
    [08:37] Turning Frustration into Appreciation
    [14:10] Dividing Up Chores and Tasks with Your Spouse
    [19:23] Deciding Which Tasks Are Important
    [21:41] Who's in Charge?
    [25:17] How To Make Sure Tasks Get Done Right
    [33:32] How to Build a Strong Supportive Family

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