Men say “women want too much.” Women say “men won’t step up.” Who’s right? In this Better Than Perfect face-off, John and Nicole pull no punches as they dissect modern dating complaints, the fall of the “gentleman,” and whether standards or self-improvement really decide who wins love.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Intro: Men furious at women—why the outrage never solves anything4:30 – “Become a gentleman, get options” — John’s blunt fix for male misery9:00 – Women’s boundaries vs desperation: Nicole breaks down the fine line14:30 – Nice guy, good man, bad boy: attraction science or social myth?20:00 – Emotional safety vs physical provision—what each gender secretly rates higher25:00 – Dating-app dread: men hate the grind, women hate the ghosting30:00 – “Where are the 30-something men?” shortage or selection bias?35:00 – Masculine self-respect vs entitlement: how standards turn toxic40:00 – Tactical upgrade plan: fashion, fitness, finances, frame45:00 – Wrap-up: two homework challenges that could change your dating life tonight👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.