This is Episode 2 of our special And Just Like That, Joe Pressed Play series—where we rewatch, unpack, and argue our way through the most iconic and chaotic moments from Sex and the City and beyond.This week, it’s the ultimate emotional tug-of-war: Big + chaos vs Aidan + stability. We dive deep into what draws us to dysfunction, how our dating history shapes our preferences, and why emotional safety is often mistaken for boredom. Plus, real talk about passion vs peace, the lessons we learn from our “Bigs,” and why most of us secretly want an Aidan.If you’ve ever had to choose between the spark and the safe choice… this one’s for you.💬 Drop your take in the comments: #TeamAidan or #TeamBig?👉 Subscribe + hit the 🔔 for new episodes every Monday!0:00 – Part 2 Begins0:57 – Drawn to Chaos3:07 – Big Love or Red Flag?5:08 – Safe vs Passionate7:08 – Wedding Fiasco10:26 – Timing vs Compatibility13:07 – Big Lessons15:30 – Passion ≠ Partnership17:48 – Dating in Your 20s19:09 – Safe is Sexy21:33 – Big or Aidan on FROM?22:16 – Final ThoughtsIf you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me!Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.coInstagram: / firstroundsonmeTikTok: / firstroundsonmeappJoe:https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah :https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Exclusive Offer - Transform Your Dating Life Today!Say goodbye to swiping left and hello to real connections! First Round’s On Me helps you skip the awkward stages and find meaningful matches. Get a FREE month of FROM’s premium subscription—all you have to do is use our code DATING!