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Find Tom Morgan here:

• https://www.theleading-edge.org/
• Substack: https://newsletter.theleading-edge.org/
• 11 Wisdom Tools: https://newsletter.theleading-edge.org/p/eleven-wisdom-tools

Resources:

• Dr. Ian Stevenson, near death experiences: https://near-death.com/ian-stevenson/
• Bruce Greyson MD, near death experiences: https://www.brucegreyson.com/
• The Rainbow Onion explained: https://newsletter.theleading-edge.org/p/rainbow-onions-and-turquoise-gardeners
• Tim Freke: https://timfreke.com/
• Anne-Laure Le Cunff, become an anthropologist of your own life: https://anne-laure.net/
• Brian Whetten, coaching: https://www.corecoaching.org/about-us/
• River Kenna: https://substack.com/@riverkenna @RiverKenna

In this episode, we dive deep into the intriguing concepts of consciousness and reality with Tom Morgan, a former financial analyst turned wisdom explorer. Tom balances fringe ideas with practicality, rating his theories on a 'woo scale' to keep his audience engaged and discerning. We discuss his podcast and newsletter 'The Leading Edge,' the transformative idea of non-local consciousness, and how his life changed when he perceived reality as responsive and benevolent. Tom shares his thoughts on overcoming fears, testing unconventional ideas, and the importance of an evolutionary trajectory in consciousness. We also touch on practical steps to navigate life, including paying attention to synchronicities and conducting tiny experiments to find one's true path. Join us for an insightful conversation that bridges ancient wisdom with modern discernment.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

02:18 Should You Believe in Woo Woo?

04:28 The Most Important Idea in the World

06:34 What is Non-Local Consciousness

08:21 The Unividual

09:59 Ego Death is Overrated

10:31 What Does All This Mean for Me?

16:22 If We Reincarnate, This is Why

20:07 Paradigms Don't Shift Because of Evidence

21:11 Forgetting Is Important

23:40 The Rise of Post-Rationalists

27:48 Lateral Moves vs. Real Growth

31:09 Which Part of the Baloon Are You In?

33:23 The AI Mirror

36:29 Life is More Like a Video Game than You Think

37:34 Reality is Signalling Back

41:24 Live in a Less Harsh Reality

45:53 A New Way to Navigate Life

48:15 How to Test This Out for Yourself

51:57 Fear as a Valuable Signal

54:07 It All Comes Down to Connection

56:41 Is Spirituality a Rejection of Material Success?

58:45 Differentiation and Integration

01:01:22 The Thing About Manifestation

01:03:15 The World Wise Web

01:07:09 The Coming Wisdom Community Boom

This is the shortcut to bring your life into alignment: https://shanemelaugh.com/integrity/

Why being an influencer can be a hellish experience (mentioned at 35:54): https://fairytalesbycaroline.substack.com/p/confessions-of-a-reformed-influencer

Tom Morgan's "Energy Journal" and other useful tools: https://newsletter.theleading-edge.org/p/eleven-wisdom-tools

Are you being honest with yourself? https://youtu.be/LnQFrABmHms?si=jhb0G_5Buvs6hSFg

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of living in alignment and why it surpasses traditional ideas of success like productivity, grit, and discipline.

Shane is interviewed by his longtime friend and business partner, Paul, who helps uncover the practical aspects and personal experiences of following an 'inner compass.' They discuss how aligning with one's true self can lead to more fulfilling success, overcome obstacles, and provide greater satisfaction.

Shane shares transformative stories from his life, including business ventures, personal relationships, and conquering addiction, to illustrate the power of alignment. The episode concludes with actionable steps for anyone looking to bring more alignment into their life, even amidst busy schedules and ingrained habits.

Don't miss this insightful conversation about finding your true path and living a life of ease and fulfillment.

00:00 Intro

01:06 What Does Aligning Your Life Mean?

04:23 What Are You Meant to Do?

06:04 When COVID Killed My Business

13:19 Forcing Yourself to Do Misaligned Work

16:36 Does Shane Have a Learning Disability?

19:04 Is Alignment About Finding Your Life's Purpose?

23:19 Why I Retired from My Own Business

26:10 Being in Alignment = Everything is Easy?

30:11 The Creator's Struggle

32:56 Aligning Your Life Can Feel Scary

38:16 The Safe Option is not Actually Safe

42:16 Alignment is Incompatible With People Pleasing

43:15 How to Actually Do This

44:00 Sinals of Alignment

46:58 Following the Signal

49:47 Post Success Blues

55:19 None of This Works Without Honesty

57:17 The Self-Honesty Breakthrough

01:00:50 Escaping Your Suffering Loops

01:06:30 Message to My Younger Self

01:07:39 Let's Talk Addictions

01:15:05 When You Don't Actually Want to Solve Your

Problems

01:22:30 Conclusion

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This is just a quick message to announce the rebranding from the previous "ikario Podcast" to the new podcast name.

Tune in to the next episode to learn how you can quickly and radically upgrade your life (without having to figure out your life purpose first).

Learn more about my upcoming retreat: https://shanemelaugh.com/powercouple/

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Learn more about Eri: https://www.relearnlove.com/

In this episode, we dive deep into the challenges of standing out as a creator in a world driven by algorithms. Join Shane Melaugh and Diana Rogo as they explore balancing the desire for perfection with the need for authentic, sometimes messy creation. Discover practical and spiritual insights into avoiding burnout, navigating the pressure for aesthetically polished content, and the significance of metaphor in understanding life’s journey. Diana shares her experiences as a successful online creator and discusses the powerful impact of staying true to oneself. If you're interested in enhancing your creative process without losing your sense of self, this conversation is for you.

00:00 Intro

01:35 Aesthetics vs. Substance?

03:24 Overcoming Procrastination and Self-Doubt

05:12 Finding Flow in Content Creation

15:30 Authenticity in the Age of AI

21:53 Fun is More Productive

44:03 Embracing Imposter Syndrome

49:28 What Are You Meant to Do?

55:09 Do You Dare Follow Your Heart?

01:08:38 The Struggle with Perfectionism

01:16:07 Balancing Money and Passion

01:24:47 Embracing Authenticity

01:41:40 Conclusion

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Confronting the Shadows to Experience Deep Healing & Rapid Growth

In this episode, we delve into three inescapable aspects of human life: sex, death, and money. These topics often reside in the shadows of our culture, bringing up feelings of shame, resistance, and uncertainty. By addressing these areas, personal growth and healing can occur. I share my own experiences confronting these shadows, revealing how transforming my relationship with sex, death, and money has led to positive changes in my life. From overcoming pornography addiction to embracing mortality and building a healthier financial outlook, I explore how tackling our deepest fears and insecurities can lead to unexpected and profound transformations. Join me as I discuss practical steps and personal anecdotes on this journey to self-improvement.

Access the free shadow work course: https://shanemelaugh.circle.so/c/exclusive-content/shadow-workshop-1-turn-towards-the-dark-side

Heal your relationship with money: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvxEMXmRA0c&list=PLhUz5wPpO7vr9JCN9-rGsSgvt2zKWW_zi&index=4

The Memento Mori Experiment: https://youtu.be/eDRNqSO8imU

Dealing with failure: https://youtu.be/TPfx61XBlsc

Gratitude and appreciation (the easiest life hack?): https://youtu.be/vcMUYKJAy5g

00:00 Intro

01:29 The Cultural Shadow Looms

03:24 Tension Around Money

06:51 The Healing Potential

10:28 Befriending Death

12:52 Mortality, Gratitude and Presence

15:20 How to Make Money Love You

20:46 Your Next Steps

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What if most advice on how to be more charismatic and be a better communicator... is actually just making you a better manipulator?

In this episode, I explore the depths of communication skills, distinguishing between common manipulation tactics and authentic methods for connecting with others. I present the flaws of traditional people-pleasing and Machiavellian strategies, revealing how they often stem from deep-seated fears and fail to deliver true fulfillment. Instead, I introduce a third way, which I currently call 'integrity-based communication.' This approach emphasizes truth and authenticity in interactions, leading to more genuine and trustworthy relationships. I discuss practical examples in both personal and business contexts, showcasing how this method promotes better outcomes for everyone involved. Join me as I delve into what it means to communicate with integrity and how this can transform our connections and overall well-being.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

00:42 Better People Pleaser

01:32 Machiavellian Manipulator

02:56 Two Losing Games

04:39 Dog Eat Dog World?

05:34 We don't like to call it manipulation...

06:24 The Secret 3rd Game

08:10 High Integrity Communication in Relationship

12:16 Finding the Deeper Truth (better than compromise)

14:24 High Integrity in the Business Context

17:28 The World is Ready for the 3rd Game

18:18 A New Framework

Do you want more success, more happiness, better relationships, more growth for your business? Whatever your goal is, there is one universal truth about how to get from where you are to where you want to go.

In this video, we explore how obstacles are not hindrances to success but essential stepping stones on the path to achieving your goals. From entrepreneurship to personal relationships, overcoming three types of obstacles—information gaps, skill deficits, and emotional challenges—paves the way for growth. Learn strategies for identifying and tackling these obstacles head-on to unlock your full potential. Join the conversation and apply these principles to transform your life.

• My deep dive into how to unpack and process emotionally difficult obstacles: https://youtu.be/r5sAC67ij-8
• Learn the Introspective Writing Technique: https://shanemelaugh.com/iw/
• A primer on Introspective Writing: https://youtu.be/XRzGthevzTs

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:14 Entrepreneurship Example

02:31 Information Obstacles (Easy)

03:50 Skill Problems

05:17 Emotional Obstacles (this is where you get stuck)

06:57 How to Turn Obstacles Into Stepping Stones

09:33 What to Do When it Feels Overwhelming

11:33 More Resources

12:37 There's Always a Next Rung on the Ladder

13:48 How I made 10 years of progress in 1 year

16:06 The Principle is Always the Same

In terms of attachment styles, I used to be a textbook avoidant. If you've ever wondered if it's possible to heal your attachment style and go from wounded to securely attached, today's episode is for you.

Spirituality is secure attachment to reality: https://open.substack.com/pub/intimatemirror/p/spirituality-is-secure-attachment

What it's like to be securely attached: https://youtu.be/hYMVbL-JkQE

The most powerful tool for shifting your mindset: https://youtu.be/XRzGthevzTs

In this video, I share my transformative journey from being deeply avoidant to securely attached. Discover the pivotal idea that allowed me to heal: 'failure is permitted.' Learn about my three-layer approach, addressing my relationship with myself, others, and life itself. Dive into the profound shifts this mindset brought in managing personal, relational, and global scopes of life. Letting go of the fear of failure has brought immense peace and growth.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:02 It's not just relationships

02:06 The Big Idea

02:48 Many Layers of Fear & Resistance

03:45 Healing is Letting Go

04:12 The Ideal Life is an Illusion

06:25 Why We Hold on To Judgements

07:36 I am also people

08:34 Finding Safety in Relationships

09:50 How I Reframed Relationship Failure

11:31 Stop Trying to Save the World

13:44 Be the Starfish Guy

15:34 It's all the same insecurity

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