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A Mother’s Strength: Honoring Lacy Miller’s Life & Legacy

A Mother’s Strength: Honoring Lacy Miller’s Life & Legacy

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Episode Summary:
On January 17, 2003, Lacy Jo Miller vanished.

A 20-year-old college student from Fort Collins, Colorado, Lacy was enjoying a night out with friends. But she never made it home. Ten grueling days later, her body was discovered in a remote canyon outside the city—her life stolen in an act of unthinkable violence.

As investigators uncovered the truth, they learned that her killer had posed as a police officer, pulling her over for what appeared to be a routine traffic stop. Even more chilling, this wasn’t the first time he had used this method to lure victims.

Today, we sit down with Wendy Cohen, Lacy’s mother, to honor her daughter’s life, explore the devastating reality of loss, and learn how Wendy has found the strength to transform grief into gratitude, pain into purpose—all while carrying happiness, empathy, and love in her heart.

Together, We Discuss:

  • Our personal connection to Lacy’s story and why this conversation matters.
  • Who Lacy was—her spirit, her dreams, and the incredible young woman she was becoming.
  • The night she disappeared and the grueling investigation that followed.
  • Wendy’s journey to process unimaginable loss while building an unexpected connection with her daughter’s killer’s family—seeking healing for everyone involved.
  • What we can learn from Lacy’s story—including crucial safety tips for anyone facing a nighttime traffic stop.

This is a deeply emotional and profoundly important conversation about the unbreakable strength of a mother’s love, the long shadow of grief, and the ways we carry forward the legacies of those we’ve lost.

This is an episode that deserves to be heard. If it resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear Lacy’s story.

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