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22. Why you feel like everyone is watching you (and how to stop)

22. Why you feel like everyone is watching you (and how to stop)

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Ever walked into a networking event convinced everyone is judging your outfit, your presence or your every move?

You're experiencing the "spotlight effect" and you're definitely not alone. In this episode, Clare explores this fascinating psychological phenomenon that makes us overestimate how much others notice our mistakes and awkward moments.

Discover the science behind why we feel constantly scrutinised, plus five practical strategies for managing self-consciousness in business settings. Clare also introduces "micro-styling for macro-confidence", how small, intentional choices in your appearance can become powerful confidence anchors when that spotlight feeling strikes.

You'll learn how to shift your perspective, reframe mistakes as connection opportunities and build your own toolkit of meaningful "power pieces" that ground you in challenging situations. The truth? Most people are too busy worrying about themselves to scrutinise you the way you think they are.

What You'll Learn:

  • The psychology behind the spotlight effect and why it happens
  • Five mental strategies to manage self-consciousness
  • How to use meaningful accessories and clothing as confidence anchors
  • Real world applications for meetings, presentations and networking events
  • Why authenticity trumps perfection every time


Perfect for anyone who wants to show up confidently in business situations without the constant worry about being judged.

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