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#14 - Emotional Fitness with Brian Coones

#14 - Emotional Fitness with Brian Coones

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 Topic Overview: In this episode of Quiet the Noise, Gary LeBlanc and Brian Coones discuss emotional fitness, the intentional development of emotional resilience, similar to how physical fitness builds physical strength. Emotional fitness involves consistent practices like meditation and breathwork to improve emotional balance and stress management. Chapter List 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Fitness02:48 Understanding Emotional Fitness06:07 The Importance of Resilience08:57 Navigating Noise in Modern Life11:57 Parenting and Emotional Fitness14:53 The Impact of Social Media on Youth18:09 Judgment and Self-Reflection21:01 Mindfulness Practices for Judgment24:03 The Power of Journaling26:56 Creating Space for Insight29:57 Rituals and Habits for Emotional Well-being33:02 The Victim Mentality and Ownership35:59 Finding Equanimity in Life38:49 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors Detailed Insights: 1. Emotional Fitness as Training: Emotional fitness is like going to the gym but for your mind. It involves practices like meditation that build resilience to emotional stress. 2. Building Resilience: Resilience is the ability to quickly return to emotional balance after challenges. This skill is developed through consistent emotional practices. 3. Managing Triggers: The STOP method—Stop, Take a breath, Observe, Proceed—helps break negative thought patterns and create space for mindful responses. 4. Creating Space: Modern life is full of distractions and “noise.” Practices like meditation and nature walks help create essential moments of calm. 5. Modeling Emotional Fitness for Kids: Brian shares how his children learn emotional practices by watching him meditate and engage in wellness routines. Limiting screen time and encouraging nature play are also critical. 6. Judgment Awareness: Judgment often comes from fear or discomfort. Mindfulness helps recognize these judgments and replace them with curiosity. 7. Journaling: Journaling daily helps track what gives or drains energy, bringing awareness to patterns that affect well-being. Brian suggests asking, “What filled me today? What depleted me today? What did I learn today?” 8. Leaning into Discomfort: Intentionally facing discomfort (e.g., cold plunges, emotional challenges) helps build resilience. 9. North Star for Guidance: Having a “North Star”—a purpose—anchors behavior and helps during tough times. Brian sees his children as his anchor, motivating him to keep improving. 10. Avoid Victim Mentality: Repeating negative thoughts reinforces helplessness. Instead, face challenges with a mindset focused on what you can control. 11. Group Healing Practices: Brian describes group activities, combining breathwork and music, to help participants achieve emotional release and community connection. Sound Bites & Metaphors: • “Emotional fitness is like building muscle, but for your emotions.” – Emotional resilience is built through consistent practice. • “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” – Emotional fitness helps us handle inevitable challenges. • Cold Plunge for Emotional Resilience: Cold plunges illustrate the value of leaning into discomfort to build resilience. • Mind as Play Dough: The mind, like play dough, is shaped by experiences, and emotional patterns harden over time if not intentionally changed. Quiet the Noise Takeawa...

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