Your belief system was formed by age 15 - but as an adult, you get to rewrite the script. In this episode, we explore how childhood programming shapes your parenting and what you can do to break negative cycles.

What We Cover:

• How belief systems form (most are set by ages 2-3, nearly complete by 15)
• Why you might be "living someone else's script" without realizing it
• The difference between awareness and emotional completion
• Practical exercises: relationship graphs, family vision statements, trigger identification
• How unresolved pain creates overreactions in parenting situations

Key Insight: You're not just a product of your environment anymore. At 30, 40, or 50, you have the power to consciously choose what beliefs to keep from your childhood and what to give back.

Real Examples:

• Cole's story about his father's aggressive car-buying behavior and choosing to break that cycle
• Sam's journey from "I'm just a creative/music guy" to confidently leading in corporate settings
• How Vietnam trauma shaped one generation's parenting style

The Challenge: Stop spending mental energy on fantasy football and start doing the real work - assessing your triggers, writing family vision statements, and getting emotionally complete with your past.

Actionable Steps:

1. List situations where you overreact (your triggers)
2. Ask why those buttons are so easily pressed
3. Consider doing grief recovery work to get emotionally complete
4. Write down what kind of family life you want to create

This isn't therapy - it's taking ownership of who you choose to be as a father.

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