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Out of the Shadows
- The Psychology of Gay Men's Lives
- Narrated by: Will Damron
- Length: 12 hrs and 28 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Penguin presents the audiobook edition of Out of the Shadows: Reimagining Gay Men's Lives, by Walt Odets, read by Will Damron.
Even in our modern progressive world, it's not easy to be a gay man. While young men often come out more readily, even those from the most liberal of backgrounds still struggle to accept themselves and experience stigma, shame and difficulties with intimate relationships. They also suffer from ongoing trauma wrought by the AIDS epidemic, something that is all too often relegated to history.
Drawing on a lifetime's work as a clinical psychologist, Walt Odets uses the stories of his patients as well as those of his own deep relationships with other gay men to illuminate how these difficulties may be overcome. From a 74-year-old who felt able to come out only after his wife had died, to the boy raised in a strict religious family who worked his way to San Francisco, to the middle-aged defence lawyer who left everything behind to embrace a new life, the experiences here explore everything from grief to survival, childhood pain to the definition of gay itself.
Out of the Shadows shows us how a new way forward is possible through learning to accept ourselves and others as they are, and independently inventing our own lives.
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- Anonymous User
- 04-01-2020
Essential
Precisely what I needed. This book lucidly and comprehensively enlightens on what many of us are longing to understand. A precious treasure.
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- Anonymous User
- 18-05-2022
The Book I needed to read
Sensational reading, case studies and queer determination. Interesting how a book can consolidate my own subconscious processes and sentiments to therefore have them articulated so eloquently into words and actions. I have recommended this book to my queer family. Some have returned saying omg.
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- Anonymous User
- 18-01-2023
Essential Listening
An essential read for any gay man, especially us younger ones who could do with insight on both our psychology and the oft-unspoken generational trauma we deal with. The narrator has a gorgeous voice too.
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- Alireza
- 20-01-2021
Perfect Book
I believe this book is very useful for both psychologists and gay people. I haven't read a very good book like this for ages, and as a reader you can learn much from this book!
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- Mark
- 24-07-2020
a must read for every gay man
this is a fantastic book filled with helpful information and ideas told through touching stories. I highly recommend this book!
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- jc
- 29-01-2024
The book, I recommend to all of my clients 
The book is a really great insight into the psychology of gay men’s lives and a very useful tool in assisting men to understand how they think and experience stories that many could resonate with. 
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