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How to Be Miserable Audiobook

How to Be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use

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Publisher's Summary

In How to Be Miserable, psychologist Randy Paterson outlines 40 specific behaviors and habits which - if followed - are sure to lead to a lifetime of unhappiness. On the other hand, if you do the opposite, you may yet join the ranks of happy people everywhere!

There are stacks upon stacks of self-help books that will promise you love, happiness, and a fabulous life. But how can you pinpoint the exact behaviors that cause you to be miserable in the first place? Sometimes when we're depressed, or just sad or unhappy, our instincts tell us to do the opposite of what we should - such as focusing on the negative, dwelling on what we can't change, isolating ourselves from friends and loved ones, eating junk food, or overindulging in alcohol. Sound familiar?

This tongue-in-cheek guide will help you identify the behaviors that make you unhappy and discover how you - and only you - are holding yourself back from a life of contentment. You'll learn to spot the tried-and-true traps that increase feelings of dissatisfaction, foster a lack of motivation, and detract from our quality of life - as well as ways to avoid them.

So, get ready to live the life you want (or not?). This fun, irreverent guide will light the way.

©2016 Randy J. Patterson (P)2016 Wetware Media

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    "Recommended "

    Loved it, title is true to its word, 40 strategies everyone definitely uses! Great to actively acknowledge and understand certain thoughts, actions and behaviors you unconsciously participate in. Easy and entertaining to listen to, great narrator.

    6 of 6 people found this review helpful
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    Anonymous 03/09/2017
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    "Each lesson is as relevant as the next! diverse!"

    diverse lessons each as important as the next. I've never used audible until I watched this guys video on youtube. I then borrowed this book and do not regret it! Onto the next!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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  • R. T. Whitney
    13/06/17
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    "A Delightful Kick In The Rear"

    I listened to this whole thing pretty much as fast as I could, and not just because of the genuinely charming narrator. The author does an excellent job of pointing out the best strategies for losing at life in a cheerful tongue-in-cheek style and with the backing of years of psychological experience and research.

    There were moments when I cringed as some of the methods described hit a little too close to home, but these were also the best moments. After all, if I am the cause of some of my own misery, I am also the solution.

    If, like me, you're someone who has struggled for years with mood disorders, this book won't cure you of any chemical imbalances or childhood traumas. It will, however, help you figure out how not to exacerbate these unavoidable troubles.

    This book definitely gets my recommendation.

    10 of 10 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    29/06/17
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    "Very worthwhile listen"

    Excellent insight into the ways we inadvertently make ourselves miserable, and how to avoid them (or continue if that's what you want).

    9 of 9 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    12/06/17
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    "Helped me a lot with my mood."

    The book is very easy to listen to. It is smart and funny and very much helpful

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    10/06/17
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    "Interesting"

    A somewhat unsettling look into a lot of the choices I make. Some parts were uncomfortable to listen to because it's like they were describing how I think / act, which I thought was unique to me. I have just listened through the whole book, and if nothing changes, I can say that this helped me be more aware of some of the harmful choices I make.

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    10/06/17
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    "If you are interested, buy it"

    It was exactly what I was looking for. The irony alone sells it, and it has a lot of practical advises. I totally recommend it.

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    8/06/17
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    "absolutely great"

    this book is so good.. smart and funny.. it will make you realize how often you beat yourself up and show you how to avoid them.. I highly recommend it

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Yannick Provencher
    8/06/17
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    "If you are depressed this is 100% for you"

    most of the time our misery is our own fault.
    good tempo easy to understand (i'm french)

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Denzell
    22/08/17
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    "Humorous and Relatable Truths"

    From its beginning this relatble lityle book pokes fun at all the misert inducing behaviors we so often find ourselves doing. I found it both twlling and entertaining.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • M
    31/07/17
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    "Funny and informative"

    In the interest of full disclosure I am generally rather sceptical of self help/ self improvement books. I was pleasantly surprised. This book quickly and with a lot of wit goes through a list of forty ways we tend to sabotage ourselves and make our lives far worse than they have to be. I recommend it both if you want to change and if you just want a laugh.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Renaj K Forbes
    28/07/17
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    "First audio book. Great experience"

    Easy to get into. narrator does awesome job at conveying a lengthy list. Good content

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
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    3/08/17
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    "Really helpful !"

    Loved it !! It really made me think about myself and what I do and made me realise that there are other ways of looking at certain situations.
    It has helped me a lot so with that I would definitely say it's worth a listen !
    In my opinion it is the last self help book you will ever need if understood and internalised correctly

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    9/06/17
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    "Un-apologetic and utterly sarcastic"

    An endeavor towards improvement by means of constant contrasting in all 40 strategies. it is deliberately over-simplified to highlight the universal positions we take in life. It has hit home for me and it deserves further attention, It's so short and to the point I will be revisiting it. Dr. Randy J. Patterson uses a no holds barred and direct narration of his understanding, there is much to learn here.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Aaron Forward
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    5/06/17
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    "Good"

    Nice look at happiness from the other side. Great way to see what to work on next. Will definitely read again.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Francesco De Paoli
    1/06/17
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    "A sarcastic and clever path towards awareness"

    An anti self-help book, or rather a book that cleverly show that rather than showing us how to reach happiness, redirect us towards minimising the ways we actively make our lives harder than they need to be: by sarcastically showing us in detail how to make ourselves miserable. Props to the hilariously serious narrator.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Moh
    8/10/17
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    "eye opening and fun."

    a good book, professional information given in an entertaining style by a dedicated reader, would recommend.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
  • DBT
    15/12/17
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    "Quirky fun and educational. Teaches and entertains"

    Littered with humour and sardonic, tongue in cheek amusing dirversions. It has a big impact both directly, by being entertaining and indirectly, by teaching you about the traps we get caught in.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • dee
    15/02/18
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    "Makes so much sense"

    It turns the pursuit of happiness on its head and helps you to understand how modern life is rarely conducive to happiness and contentment. When you start to look at what you would need to do to be more miserable it’s quite hard to do.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    14/12/17
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    "yes"

    a great insight into the reasons we are truly sad, and the mechanisms we need to combat them

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Daniel
    12/12/17
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    "Love this book"

    Very useful for making yourself depressed, which is what I'm trying to do. Then it'll probably be easier to solve a depressed cubic like me.
    How tf am I supposed to give a rating for story

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Mr. J. Garside
    UK
    11/11/17
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    "An excellent guide on how to miserable!"

    I was amazed at just how many I already do. I've been wondering why I seem to be constantly miserable without much reason. Turns out the reason appears to be that I was treating the elements of this guide like a check list I must complete without even knowing I was doing it. I think I'm going to try and do a few less now.

    This self reflection was made easier by just how well written and narrated the book was. Really kept my attention and interest throughout.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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