We hear it everywhere in spiritual circles: love unconditionally. But here’s the truth — unconditional love without discernment isn’t safe.

Without boundaries, it can slide into people-pleasing, abuse-tolerating, or parent–child dynamics that erode real intimacy. In this episode, I share why discernment is the key that transforms love from toxic patterns into something safe, balanced, and truly mutual.

You’ll learn how inner child wounds shape our attraction patterns, why we sometimes mistake scraps of attention for love, and how to stop looking for someone to “re-parent” us — so you can choose partners who meet you as an equal.

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What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why “unconditional love” can turn toxic without discernment

• How inner child healing transforms who (and what) we’re drawn to

• The red flags of parent–child dynamics in adult relationships

• Why trying to “parent” a partner never works

• How discernment leads to safe, balanced, adult-to-adult intimacy

Because here’s the truth: you deserve real love. Safe love. Love that uplifts rather than drains. And discernment is the key that unlocks it.

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