
Ep 11- Defending Your Spoons: Boundaries, Courage, and the Art of Asking for Help
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We established that our energy is a finite resource. Now, we're forging the armor to protect it. This episode dives deep into the uncomfortable truth that for those with chronic illness, boundaries aren't rude—they are non-negotiable acts of survival.
We tackle the biggest barriers to energy management: the guilt that comes with saying "no" and the fear of being a "burden" when you need to ask for help.
In this episode, you will learn:
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The Time and Activity Boundaries: Concrete scripts for saying "no" to loved ones and protecting your physical energy.
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Silencing the Internal Critic: The most vital boundary against the voice that tells you you're "lazy" or "should be able to do more."
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Reframing the Narrative: Why asking for help is an act of courage, not a sign of failure.
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The Specific Ask Strategy: How to use small, manageable requests to make receiving help easy and guilt-free.
I share my personal reflection as a CKD patient (GFR 24-30) on why defending your peace is the most critical element of chronic management.
Bonus: Get a powerful tease for our next episode where we talk to an incredible guest: a working farmer who manages his demanding schedule around his dialysis treatments!
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