For two decades, the United States was home. Then one day, it wasn't.I had built a life on American soil—a career in tech, friendships that spanned cultures, and a sense of belonging I thought was permanent. I paid taxes, chased promotions, and planned a future, believing that my contributions mattered more than a stamp in a passport.But for millions of immigrants, "home" is a fragile concept, resting not on lived experience but on the shifting sands of immigration policy. My "pothole moment" wasn't just a job loss; it was the sudden, jarring realization that my entire identity could be unraveled by a single visa denial. The years of hard work, the community I had built, the very person I had become—all reduced to a bureaucratic decision.*About Life Choices & Potholes* is the story of what happens when the life you've meticulously built is taken away, leaving you with just two suitcases and a one-way ticket to a country the system calls "home"—a place you haven't truly known for twenty years.This is a raw, unflinching look at the human cost of visa instability—the sleepless nights, the constant anxiety, and the disorienting experience of "reverse culture shock" when you become a foreigner in your own land. It’s about the absurdity of having to prove your worth all over again, captured in the skeptical interview question: **"So you lived abroad? Now what?"**.My journey back to India was a bureaucratic odyssey, from a frantic, cross-country visa application sprint just to be able to fly back to the U.S. in an emergency, to the logistical nightmare of transporting my dog, Sauli, across continents. It’s a story of navigating not just Mumbai’s chaotic streets but also the emotional labyrinth of starting over when you feel you belong nowhere—too American for India, too Indian for America.This memoir goes beyond policy debates to explore the real, human toll of a system that can halt careers, defer dreams, and challenge your very identity and dignity. It's for anyone who has ever lived in the limbo between visas, who has felt the ground shift beneath their feet, or who understands that "home" is not just a place on a map, but a life you build.Because when your right to belong is questioned, the biggest pothole you face isn't on the road—it’s the one that forms in your heart.👉 About Life Choices & Potholes is my memoir of resilience, identity, and starting over. You can find it here: https://amzn.to/45QpjNe