Ep 32| CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE cover art

Ep 32| CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE

Ep 32| CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE

Listen for free

View show details

About this listen

 You can binge every dating podcast or you tube video. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing. I hope this episode blesses you! Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my Live Workshop: LUMINOUS, YOUR ULTIMATE LOVE LIFE GLOW UP⁠⁠ What You’ll Get Inside This Workshop: The Real Tea 🍵 — Why you keep being drawn to emotionally unavailable people (and how to break that cycle for good).Stop Guessing — Get clear on the stages of a romantic relationship so you know where you stand, every time.Faith-Led Roadmap 🙏🏽 — A simple, biblical framework that actually makes sense for modern dating.Master the Vibe Check — How to spot 🚩 red flags and 💚 green flags with clarity and confidence.Your Action Plan — A step-by-step, faith-led roadmap to your love life glow-up. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get Instant Coaching for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT 🎙️ Podcast Episode 35: CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE Intro (0:00 – 1:00) “You can binge every dating podcast or you tube video. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing. Real healing isn’t just in your head — it’s in your body, your heart, your nervous system. It’s learning how to calm your anxiety, regulate your emotions, and actually sit with your pain without numbing it away with busyness, food, or even ministry. When you start doing this deeper work, love gets less confusing. Friendships feel lighter. Dating feels less like survival and more like discovery. That’s when you know you’re healing Let’s be real — dating is hard. Like, really hard. And if you’ve ever experienced abuse, neglect, or even just grown up in a home where relationships weren’t healthy, dating becomes more than just hard — it feels like warfare. Friendships are harder. Loneliness hits deeper. You might feel like everyone else is moving forward socially — they’re in relationships, they’re making friends, they’re getting married — and you’re still stuck repeating patterns that go nowhere. And if that’s you, I just want you to know: nothing is wrong with you. You’re not broken. But there may be emotional gaps that need healing. And today, we’re going to talk about why that happens — and more importantly, what you can actually do about it.” Segment 1 – Why Love Feels Hard After Wounds (1:00 – 3:00) “When you’ve grown up with trauma, rejection, or neglect, here’s the truth: you didn’t get a model for healthy love. So your nervous system — your whole emotional map — doesn’t know what safe love looks like. Instead, it looks for what’s familiar. And sometimes familiar means unsafe. That’s why you might notice patterns like: 👉 Constantly ending up with emotionally unavailable people. 👉 Struggling to keep friendships alive. 👉 Feeling anxious, always waiting for someone to leave. 👉 Or being so guarded that nobody ever really gets close. And if you’ve been asking yourself: ‘Why can’t I make this work? Why do I keep choosing the wrong people?’ The answer is simple but deep — emotional wounds shape attraction.” Segment 2 – Knowing Isn’t Healing (3:00 – 5:00) “You can binge every dating podcast. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing. Real healing isn’t just in your head — it’s in your body, your heart, your nervous system. It’s learning how to calm your anxiety, regulate your emotions, and actually sit with your pain without numbing it away with busyness, food, or even ministry. When you start doing this deeper work, love gets less confusing. Friendships feel lighter. Dating feels less like survival and more like discovery. That’s when you know you’re healing.” Segment 3 – The Process That Changes Everything (5:00 – 7:30) “So what does it actually take? Here are three things I teach my clients all the time: 💡 Courage to feel. Healing means letting yourself grieve the rejection or neglect you buried....
No reviews yet
In the spirit of reconciliation, Audible acknowledges the Traditional Custodians of country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today.