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Honestly, We're a mess

Honestly, We're a mess

By: Erin Bumarch
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Honestly, We’re a Mess is where filters go to die, and real talk takes center stage. Hosted by Erin, a single mom figuring it out, Courtney, a newlywed just starting her journey, and Jackie, a happily married queen of 10 years, we bring three totally different perspectives on life, love, and all the messy moments in between.

Think of us as your girlfriends who overshare on purpose, the ones who laugh through the chaos, cry when it gets too real, and tell the truth even when it’s uncomfortable. From the highs of fresh romance to the lows of heartbreak, from marriage milestones to solo struggles, and everything in between...we’ve lived it, and we’re still living it.

Because here’s the truth: messy is the new perfect, and we’re here to pour it all out, uncensored, unfiltered, and unapologetically us.

If you’re looking for relatable stories, belly laughs, and a reminder that none of us really have it all together, you’re in the right place. This isn’t about polished perfection—it’s about being real and finding the beauty in the mess.

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Episodes
  • The Secret Sh*t We Carry

    The Secret Sh*t We Carry
    Sep 25 2025

    In this episode, the ladies let it all hang out...the guilt... the doubts...the “did I really just say that?” moments...and yes, the squirrel-brain detours along the way.

    They dive into the secret shit we carry, things like mom guilt, marriage doubts, and those overshared thoughts that probably should’ve stayed in their heads. It’s real, it’s messy, and it’s funny as hell.

    Between deep truths and chaotic laughter, the trio reminds us that it’s okay not to have it all together and that honesty doesn’t have to come without humor.
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    29 mins
  • The Intro Mess

    The Intro Mess
    Sep 18 2025

    Every story starts somewhere and ours begins with friendship, laughter, and a whole lot of chaos. In this first episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on who we are, how our friendship came to be, and why we decided the world needed one more hot mess…ours.

    Get ready to meet Erin, Courtney, and Jackie...the single mama, the newlywed, and the happily married queen, three women with three very different lives, coming together to spill it all. No filters, no perfection, just the honest (and hilarious) truth about why Honestly, We’re a Mess was born.
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    24 mins
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