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The Problem with Chemistry

The Smart Woman's Guide to Fixing a Broken Picker and Finding Healthy Love

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The Problem with Chemistry

By: Natalie Kita
Narrated by: Natalie Kita, Gregory Hripto
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Have you ever said “The ones I like, don’t like me… and the ones who like me, I don’t like.”

Or, “There are some great guys out there, but I just don’t feel any spark with them?”

Have you ever felt irresistibly drawn to someone who you knew was not a healthy choice for a partner… and yet, you couldn’t seem to stop yourself from chasing after them?

On the other hand… Have you ever met someone who checked every box of what you say you want in a partner… and yet, even though he was objectively attractive… you just couldn’t seem to muster up any of those “attracted” feelings?

If this book sparks your interest, I’m guessing the answer is yes.

The Problem With Chemistry is all about how to change what you’re choosing — not by forcing yourself to date people you don’t find attractive — but by changing what causes you to feel that attraction in the first place. It’s about rejecting wound-based attraction signals that are programmed into us at a very early age, and redefining what true connection feels like.

This re-wiring of our brains’ attraction triggers allows us to experience healthy chemistry, often for the first time. So love and pain are no longer synonymous, and you discover that love can actually be easy.

By embracing and practicing the ideas, exercises, and advice in this book, you can finally get off the emotional roller coaster, and break your addiction to relational trauma and enjoy the peaceful, harmonious, reciprocal love with a healthy partner.

This book offers understanding of why you've been choosing what you've been choosing in love... along with practical tools to change it, including bonus worksheets and audio sessions to solidify your changes on a deeper level, and ensure that your transformation "sticks" for the long term.

Break painful love patterns and discover what it feels like to enjoy peaceful, deeply fulfilling, loving partnership.

©2023 Natalie Kita (P)2025 Natalie Kita
Communication & Social Skills Emotions Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Personal Development Personal Success Relationships
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