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Big idea: Ease = absence of unnecessary friction.

Big idea: Ease = absence of unnecessary friction.

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Some of us learned to earn every yes by pre-managing everyone’s moods. We scan the room, measure the weather, then decide if our need is allowed. That is over.
Asking is dignified. It rests on three truths:

  1. My need is valid. Valid needs are not emergencies—they are information.
  2. Your ‘no’ is legal. Consent is sacred. I can stand in my request and also respect your boundary.
  3. Our relationship can hold clarity. If a relationship only survives hints and guesses, it isn’t intimacy. It’s an obstacle course.
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