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Is It Okay to Fantasize During Sex? A Guide to Helpful vs. Unhelpful Mental Erotica

Is It Okay to Fantasize During Sex? A Guide to Helpful vs. Unhelpful Mental Erotica

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Many people worry that fantasizing during intimacy means something is wrong with their relationship or attraction to their partner. In this episode, we explore why mental wandering during sex is completely normal and can actually enhance your experience. Learn the difference between healthy fantasy that keeps you present and embodied… versus problematic fantasy used for dissociation or avoidance. We'll cover why active minds (especially ADHD brains) benefit from fantasy, when it becomes a red flag, and how to use your imagination as a tool for better sex rather than an escape from it. Plus, we tackle the big question: is fantasizing about others considered cheating?


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