Fear can train a nervous system to chase shadows. We’ve all felt it: the mind spins, the body tightens, and suddenly a harmless cue feels like danger. In this episode of You Are the Answer, Naomi Mills shares a vivid parable about “snakes” that don’t exist and a surprising embodiment practice—the guided glass walk—that reveals how sensation tells a truer story than anxious thoughts.

We dig into how the brain’s comparison engine amplifies threat, why cultural scripts make broken glass feel terrifying, and how controlled, safe practices restore trust in your body. Naomi explains why you can’t think your way across a bed of glass; you have to feel each micro-step, distribute pressure, commit, and listen. That slow, deliberate attention becomes a template for daily life: moving from rumination to presence, one safe step at a time. Along the way we explore interoception, breath mechanics, and grounded movement as tools to downshift from fight-or-flight into calm.

You’ll also hear how present-moment embodiment pairs with a clear vision of your future self. Visualisation primes the brain, but only embodied actions change your wiring. Naomi offers practical invitations you can use today: barefoot time on natural ground, slower exhales, walking with attention to footfall, and a 31‑day nervous system reset journal for steady structure. If you’re near Edinburgh, you can even join a guided glass walk to experience the paradox yourself—how something that looks dangerous can feel stable and meditative when approached with skill and care.

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Your body isn’t the obstacle—your state is the key. We take you into the fiery heart of resilience, exploring how a few focused steps across hot coals can reset what you believe is possible and mirror the same nervous system shifts Naomi creates on the chiropractic table. When fear drives, adaptability shrinks. When joy, purpose, and connection lead, the parasympathetic system wakes up—and the “impossible” becomes a measured step.

We unpack why firewalking can be safe when facilitated well, touch on the limited research and theories about heat transfer, and put most of the weight on what consistently matters: your internal state. You’ll hear how intention, music, breath, and ritual help people walk without injury, and why “kisses” often teach that ego, pressure, or anxiety had the wheel. The conversation moves from spectacle to science-informed practice, connecting the dots between stress physiology, the prefrontal cortex, and real-world behaviour change.

This isn’t just about coals. It’s about building self-trust through achievable commitments that reinforce “I am consistent.” We contrast the damage of overpromising with the quiet power of small wins, and offer a grounded path to resilience that anyone can follow—whether your next step is a glass of water, a brave phone call, or a carefully guided firewalk. Naomi shares her journey from participant to instructor, why she treats every fire with fresh respect, and how chiropractic, breathwork, firewalking, and sweat lodges serve one mission: helping you access your body’s natural intelligence.

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For opportunities for you to take part in a self-empowerment event, including Firewalks with Naomi at her business in Edinburgh, Scotland, check out the list of upcoming events.

What if your body already holds the map to the healing you’ve been chasing? We dive into the living dialogue between physiology and perception—how tight muscles, busy thoughts, and broken sleep are not flaws to fix but signals pointing toward completion. Naomi opens up about a breathwork session that sparked a life reorientation, then unpacks the science and soul of holotropic breathing: a structured, drug‑free method for accessing non‑ordinary states, releasing stored stress, and restoring nervous system safety.

Across this conversation we connect the dots between stress responses and the stories we tell ourselves. You’ll learn why the brain hunts for reasons when the body is tense, how emotions live in muscles and breath, and what it looks like when unfinished survival energy finally moves. We break down the essentials of holotropic breathwork—rhythmic breathing, evocative music, and a held container—and why minimal facilitation honours your inner intelligence. Naomi shares the “spider imprint” example to show how tiny shocks become big patterns, then explains how movement, shaking, and sound are healthy signs that the system is closing loops rather than reliving harm.

If your healthy routines are solid but you still feel stuck, this episode points to what might be missing: completion. We explore practical steps to build safety, from lengthening the exhale to finding trained, ethical facilitators and supportive groups that enable co‑regulation. Expect clear guidance, grounded stories, and a reminder that you are not broken—your body is protecting you, and with the right conditions, it can let go. Listen, breathe, and consider a gentler path to change that begins with sensing rather than forcing.

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The world doesn’t need another quick fix; it needs a clearer path back to the body’s own wisdom. In this round-up episode, we take a candid look at the gap between sick care and true health care, and why so many of us have been taught to outsource our wellbeing instead of learning how to read our own signals. From Christmas prescriptions to the hidden messages in children’s shows, we trace how culture normalises the pill-first reflex and what it costs us in confidence and clarity.

We unpack the nervous system as the control centre for stress, sleep, digestion, immunity, and mood, and show how early awareness prevents overwhelm before it spirals. Rather than pitting medicine against lifestyle, we build a both-and approach: doctors as partners and teachers, medicine as a powerful tool, and you as the expert in your own experience. Expect practical, grounded strategies that prioritise basics over secrets: consistent sleep, whole foods, daily movement, breath, light, and connection. We also spotlight evidence that movement during treatment can improve outcomes, reframing exercise as an ally to clinical care.

Looking ahead, we preview our embodiment arc: holotropic breathwork, fire walking, walking on glass, and even arrow-breaking as carefully held rites of passage that shift stuck emotion through the body. These are not stunts; they are structured challenges that rebuild trust in your own physiology and expand your capacity for life’s stressors. You’ll leave with simple self-audit questions to help you respond to your body first, then collaborate with your GP from a place of balance and agency.

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What if the fastest way to feel better isn’t more mindset hacks, but learning how safety actually feels in your body? We dig into embodiment and a clear, plain‑English take on polyvagal theory to show how your nervous system shapes your choices, your mood, and your health. Instead of piling on fixes, we focus on the three core states—ventral (safe and social), sympathetic (fight or flight), and dorsal (shutdown)—and how each one colours your day, from your breath and digestion to your relationships and boundaries.

We share simple practices that work in real life: naming sensations with nuance so your brain can hear your body, lengthening the exhale to signal calm, using orienting and gentle voice to cue safety, and creating tiny rituals that fit into minutes, not hours. You’ll learn why you cannot think your way out of stress, how safety unlocks clear thinking and healing, and how consistency turns micro‑moments into resilience. We also introduce a 30‑day nervous system reset journal designed to build awareness, regulation, reflection, and integration—plus a children’s version to help young people grow up fluent in the language of their bodies.

If you’ve felt anxious, flat, or stuck in overdrive, this conversation offers a map and the smallest next steps to move toward calm. Expect clarity about the vagus nerve, practical embodiment tools, and an empowering reminder that every small shift today is a gift to your future self. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a gentle nudge toward safety, and leave a review to help others find their way back to their bodies.

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What if the easiest way to make better health choices today is to meet the person you’ll be decades from now? We explore how training your brain to recognise your future self turns willpower into identity, making consistent habits feel natural rather than forced.

Across this conversation, we rethink January’s pressure to overhaul everything and lean into the truth that healing is slow, cellular work. We unpack the neuroscience showing that many of us process “future me” like a stranger, and how vivid, regular visioning rewires those circuits so your older self feels like you. From there, we connect the dots to epigenetics: daily behaviours and environments that nudge gene expression toward resilience, better recovery, and healthy ageing. Naomi shares the personal story that once shaped a fear of early decline and how a clear image of running strong in her seventies now guides choices around strength, sleep, nourishment, and nervous system care.

You’ll get practical, simple actions that compound over time: two strength sessions a week, daily walking and sunlight, steady hydration, protein-forward meals, massage and micro-rest for regulation, plus journaling and meditation to anchor intention. We also offer a provocative lens—cruise ship or care home—that brings long-term consequences into crisp focus without shame. Instead of chasing quick fixes, we align with habits that build capacity so the body can do what it’s designed to do: adapt, repair, and thrive. Role models who are breaking records in their seventies are not outliers; they are blueprints for a life built on small, repeated votes for health.

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Your body is not a puzzle to solve—it’s a guide you can learn to trust. We dive into the “three brains” model and show how the head, heart, and gut each carry a vital piece of your decision-making. The head compares options, the heart aligns with values and relationships, and the gut protects life and energy. When these centres work together, anxiety eases, choices feel simpler, and you move with conviction instead of second-guessing.

We unpack why the gut matters so much for mood and motivation, from its role in the stress response to emerging links between microbiome balance and mental health. Then we zoom out to a whole-system view: how emotional strain, mental habits, and physical symptoms form one loop, and why listening to your body can change the course of healing. Think of a touch tree in a forest—the reliable spot you return to when you feel lost. You can build your own through a short, practical muscle test that helps you access a clear yes or no from your body before the mind starts to spin.

You’ll learn how to calibrate the test, apply it to everyday choices, and pair it with reflective questions so you honour all three centres of knowing. Along the way, we share reading paths for both scientific and spiritual explorers and reframe self-trust as a skill you can train. If you’ve been craving a grounded way to connect with intuition without abandoning reason, this conversation shows you how to blend insight and embodiment.

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What if your nervous system doesn’t need another heroic overhaul, just a kinder plan? We explore how to grow your capacity for stress with small, steady additions that your body can trust. Instead of chasing quick fixes, we look at habits that reliably shift you into a healing state and keep you there more often.

We start by reframing winter as a season for reflection rather than force. That mindset change makes room for one practical rule: choose a tiny 30-day habit that proves to your subconscious you’re consistent. From there, we unpack the “plate of stress” and why two people with the same symptom can heal at very different speeds. History, inputs, and daily rhythms shape recovery, so the goal becomes simple: increase stress releasers until they outnumber your stressors.

You’ll hear concrete ways to do that right away. Joyful, rotational movement that feels like play rather than punishment. Creative hobbies that make you lose track of time and create a felt sense of safety. Nature rituals that downshift your system fast—barefoot moments, tree touch, sky checks, and slow walks under green canopies. We also talk about stacking benefits: move with a friend outdoors to combine social safety, motion, and light for a bigger effect.

Skilled support can accelerate progress, so we highlight options like chiropractic, osteopathy, cranial sacral therapy, massage, acupuncture, and thoughtful strength or yoga guidance. Concerts, retreats, and family activities count too when they spark awe, connection, and joy. Throughout, we return to a powerful reframe: pain is a message, not a verdict. Listen for the lesson, then act small and steady until your baseline changes.

If this resonates, share the episode with someone you care about, subscribe for more body-led tools, and leave a review so others can find their way back to themselves. Your nervous system can learn to expect relief, play, and presence—and that changes everything.