In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives into one of the most sought-after skills in dating: consistently getting a blowjob from a woman. This episode isn’t about entitlement—it’s about attraction, sexual tension, and leading with confidence. Mark explains why giving pleasure first, talking about sexual desires, and role-playing scenarios dramatically increase the chances of her wanting to please you.

You’ll learn how to approach women effectively, lead conversations about sex without being pushy, and reward behavior that encourages intimacy. Mark also gives practical tips for giving and receiving oral in a way that creates an unforgettable experience for both partners.

Key Takeaways:

- How sexual tension and reciprocity increase the chances of oral sex.

- Leading conversations about sex confidently and effectively.

- Tips for giving and receiving oral like a pro.

- How to boost approach confidence and become irresistible in the bedroom.

- Exclusive insights into Mark’s upcoming masterclass with Kirsten Trammell.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:05] – Blowjobs are the best!
[00:02:29] – The importance of opening a LOT of women
[00:03:21] – Get her talking about blowjobs & roleplaying
[00:05:09] – The norm of reciprocity
[00:07:48] – How to be explicit
[00:08:53] – Ask her questions to turn things sexual
[00:09:48] – Psychological reinforcement and rewards
[00:12:43] – You must go down on her first!
[00:13:36] – Announcement: Sex Masterclass with Kirsten Trammell
[00:17:13] – Tips on pleasing her and personal cleanliness
[00:21:10] – Episode recap & wrap-up

Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SexTips

In this 700th special episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reflects on what it truly means to be an Unapologetic Man in today’s world. From defending your masculinity to setting unbreakable boundaries, Mark breaks down why standing tall, owning your sexuality, and commanding respect is essential in a time when men are increasingly under attack.

You’ll discover why being a man isn’t about entitlement or aggression—it’s about discipline, integrity, and living with purpose. Learn how to stop taking other people’s abuse, how to act with an unwavering spine, and why teaching people how to treat you is the most powerful tool you have.

Key Takeaways:

- How being unapologetic about your masculinity and sexuality builds respect.

- Why you teach people how to treat you—and how to stop being a victim.

- The difference between discipline-driven masculinity and toxic behavior.

- Why integrity, consistency, and having spine are the core traits of an unapologetic man.

- The importance of setting boundaries and enforcing them without apology.

Key Timestamps:

[00:01:05] – Episode Preview & Listener Appreciation
[00:02:03] – The impact of this podcast on Mark’s life and mission
[00:03:16] – Dealing with hate and criticism online
[00:03:52] – Being unapologetic
[00:05:29] – Why men are under attack and the Gen Z statistic
[00:06:21] – Toxic masculinity explained and debunked
[00:07:46] – The overswung pendulum: Sexuality and the attack on masculinity
[00:09:55] – Discipline, integrity, and acting with spine
[00:10:59] – Setting boundaries: teaching people how to treat you
[00:12:24] – Masculinity within the parameters of morality, a force for good
[00:15:34] – The unapologetic man in relationships and life
[00:18:04] – Closing reflections & next episode teaser

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the truth behind why women sometimes just don’t get attracted — even if you thought you were doing everything right. From frame control to emotional impact, outcome dependence, and even simply “not being her type,” Mark unpacks the hidden blind spots that sabotage attraction.

You’ll discover why attraction has less to do with your resume and more to do with how you make her feel in the moment. As well as the super important four pillars of attraction, you’ll learn both what they are and how to apply them when talking to women.

3 Powerful Episodes to Listen To:

1: 3 Secret “MP Gambits” to Tell Girls to Get Them Attracted to You (POWERFUL STUFF!)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4HLEQrkKzyDGowewH4yYwD?si=05b1d7dc0fa1406d

2: Attraction Building Technique: How to Read a Woman's Mind (SOOOO GOOD!!!!)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4oPEYOOet3FimFe6o7iBI0?si=79642438cd584dcb

3: 3 Attraction Building Conversation Mind Reads to SEDUCE A HOT CHICK FAST

https://open.spotify.com/episode/3oKAnWXSFd7dMW25oCdrHc?si=c3223281d7544042

Key Takeaways:

- Why controlling the frame is the single most important factor in attraction.
- The role of emotions: women don’t care about your resume, they care about how you make them feel.
- How outcome dependence secretly kills attraction.
- The four pillars of attraction and how to leverage them for success.
- Why being too nervous or “nerdy” in your mannerisms makes you lose the masculine role.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:27] – Podcast video upgrades!
[00:02:05] – The #1 reason she didn’t get attracted: lack of frame control
[00:04:37] – You didn’t elicit enough emotions from her
[00:06:37] – Outcome dependence and being too needy
[00:09:17] – Being uncomfortable, nerd mannerisms, and why exposure matters
[00:11:22] – Pre-selection explained
[00:13:19] – The Four Pillars of Attraction: frame control, value, sexual tension, qualifying
[00:17:15] – Sometimes, you’re just not her type
[00:20:28] – Recap & coaching program invitation

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #SeductionStrategy #HighValueMan

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals one of his most powerful attraction “cheat codes”: spirituality. By leveraging the Law of Attraction in a specific 21-day, 9-affirmation routine, you can not only transform your own life but also spark intense attraction in women.

Mark explains how women are magnetized by spiritual conversations and why teaching them this practice makes them emotionally invested in you. He walks you step-by-step through his “I Command, I Am” method — a potent manifestation framework designed to rewire your mindset, amplify confidence, and manifest what you want from life.

Key Takeaways:

- Why spirituality is one of the most powerful (and underrated) attraction triggers.

- How to use Mark’s spiritual “Law of Attraction” routine as a powerful tool for sparking instant chemistry with women.

- The power of using present-tense “I Command, I Am” statements to manifest results.

- The science-backed logic behind why affirmations shift your mindset and results.

- How to leverage spiritual conversations to craft irresistible attraction-building moments.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:57] – Women love spirituality (and why it’s a mega rizz hack)
[00:04:16] – How Mark exponentially improved his life using the Law of Attraction
[00:05:02] – The universe is nothing but a mirror
[00:08:30] – Writing out your 9 intentions
[00:10:32] – Storytime: How Mark got his job as a bouncer
[00:11:53] – The “I Command, I Am” formula and the power of belief
[00:15:00] – Step-by-step process to teach this to women (9-3-21 sequence)
[00:16:58] – Multiples of 3: The Creation Triad explained
[00:18:40] – The logical/science based explanation for why affirmations work
[00:20:50] – Closing challenge: Write your nine “I Command, I Am” intentions today

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #LawOfAttraction #Masculinity #RizzTips #ConfidenceForMen #SeductionHack #SpiritualityAndDating

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing explains why men have such an intrinsic fear of rejection. Mark breaks down how it’s wired into your DNA, a leftover from our tribal past that has no relevance in the modern day.

To help you overcome this obstacle, Mark reveals his strategy called “Rejection Maxing”—a practical method for systematically desensitizing yourself to rejection by going out and deliberately getting rejected in low-stakes situations. Showing how making rejection a game will not only dissolve approach anxiety but also build confidence, outcome independence. It’s time to flip the script and take control of situations that used to intimidate you!

Key Takeaways:

- Why fear of rejection exists in your brain and why it’s completely natural.

- How to systematically desensitize yourself to rejection with “Rejection Maxing.”

- Turning potentially scary situations into playful challenges that build confidence.

- Using persona and avatar techniques to practice approaching women without real-world risk.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:05] – The Reason Why You Have Approach Anxiety
[00:02:11] – You’re SUPPOSED To Fear Rejection
[00:02:46] – Why Rejection Is Not A Big Deal In The Modern Day
[00:05:51] – Rejection Maxing: Turning Rejection Into A Game
[00:07:39] – Mark’s METALLICA Story
[00:08:56] – The Importance Of Pushing Social Norms
[00:13:10] – Julian’s Experience In Mark’s Coaching Program
[00:16:42] – The Avatar Technique: Change Your Persona
[00:20:14] – Wrap-Up & Coaching Invitation

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #OvercomeRejection #ApproachAnxiety #RejectionMaxing #ConfidenceForMen #SocialCourage

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives into how to make a woman feel genuinely appreciated by picking up on unique personality traits and behavioral qualities that 99% of men miss. Because if you only ever focus on being cool and not appearing needy, she’s going to think you’re not interested and leave.

Mark shows the correct way to let her know you like her by highlighting her unique interests and energy in a way NO one else is capable of doing—and does it in a way that ensures you keep your frame and don’t come off as desperate.

Key Takeaways:

- Why complimenting solely on looks is almost always a mistake with attractive women.

- Unique ways in which you can compliment her that make her feel you are different from the other guys.

- Using the 80/100 rule to keep the dynamic in your favor.

- Letting her cues guide your actions with the Barometer Rule.

- How to bank compliments and deploy them at emotional peaks for maximum impact.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:56] – The Balance Between Distance & Interest
[00:03:29] – The 80/100 and Barometer Rules
[00:05:01] – Why Complimenting Only Looks Often Backfires
[00:07:03] – The First Law: Don’t Compliment Before You See Interest
[00:07:53] – How To Compliment The Right Way
[00:10:29] – Real-Life Example: Ice Skating Girl
[00:11:56] – NLP Success Story
[00:14:57] – How to Handle Compliments From Women
[00:18:47] – Wrap-Up & Coaching Invitation

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #AttractionTips #MensSelfImprovement #ConfidenceForMen #UnapologeticMan #RelationshipMastery

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, Mark Sing dives into the subtle ways women give compliments that are actually veiled rejections—and how to recognize when you’re stuck in the friend zone. He decodes the phrases women use to “let you down easy,” why guys often read them the wrong way, and how to turn the tables so YOU end up being the one friendzoning HER.

Mark explains exactly what it means when a girl calls you “sweet,” says “some girl will be lucky to have you,” or insists “you’re too good for me.” More importantly, he lays out a step-by-step plan on how you can get yourself out of the friend zone—or better yet, avoid it altogether. With a mix of tactical advice, hard truths, and laugh-out-loud examples, this episode is your playbook for escaping the nice guy prison.

Key Takeaways:

• The hidden meaning behind compliments like “You’re so sweet” and why they’re really signs of rejection.
• Why phrases like “Some girl will be lucky to have you” or “You’re too good for me” mean you’re deep in the friend zone.
• The critical mistakes men make that put them there in the first place.
• How to flip the frame and friend zone her first to regain control and build attraction.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Introduction: You’ve Been Friendzoned, bro!
[00:01:02] – Mark Sing’s P*nis Reanimation Cream
[00:03:31] – Women Use Compliments to Let You Down Gently
[00:07:34] – How You Got In The Friendzone
[00:08:27] – You Have to Friendzone Her First
[00:10:59] – Date Other Girls!
[00:12:25] – Show Her You Have Other Women Around You
[00:16:00] – Reversals: Use Her Own Tricks Against Her
[00:17:29] – Explanation of Pre-Emptive Friendzoning
[00:18:42] – Summarizing The Signs You’ve Been Friendzoned

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #FriendZone #MensSelfImprovement #AttractionTips #ConfidenceForMen #UnapologeticMan

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives deep into one of the most controversial but critical truths in dating: the importance of playing games to protect your heart. Mark unpacks why men who wear their hearts on their sleeves too soon often get hurt, and how learning to hold back—strategically and intelligently—creates attraction, respect, and emotional safety.

Mark explains how “heart armor” isn’t about being cold or manipulative, but about maintaining control over your emotions and avoiding the trap of neediness. By understanding timing, restraint, and the power of options, men can protect themselves from heartbreak while still creating space for real connection and vulnerability at the right time.

Key Takeaways:

• Why showing vulnerability too early often destroys attraction.

• How playing games is more about gaming yourself than gaming her.

• The 80/100 rule and how it keeps you safe in dating.

• Why having options instantly makes you more attractive.

• How to know when it’s finally safe to be vulnerable.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Introduction to the Episode
[00:01:14] – Why Playing Games Protects Your Heart
[00:02:15] – The Cost of Opening Up Too Soon
[00:04:10] – Learning From Heartbreak and Experience
[00:06:02] – Options, Abundance, and the Power of Not Needing Her
[00:09:26] – The 80/100 Rule Explained
[00:12:30] – Gaming Yourself More Than Gaming Her
[00:17:18] – The Power of Holding Back
[00:19:51] – Final Thoughts and Advice

Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #ProtectYourHeart #Masculinity #MenSelfImprovement #AttractionTips #HeartArmor #ConfidenceForMen #TheUnapologeticMan