• How To Make Resolutions That Actually Stick
    Dec 23 2025

    Our team thought it was a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

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    Headlines have been loud, messy, and heavy—and that’s exactly why we open with clarity about what’s harmful, what’s not reflective of authentic faith, and why naming truth matters for our personal growth. From there, we shift the lens to the battles closer to home: the tug-of-war between who we were, who we say we want to be, and the choices that actually move us forward.

    We also ask the harder questions: Are your goals truly yours, or are they auditions for other people’s approval? If you’re an orange, why submit to apples-to-apples comparisons? We talk boundaries, unique standards, and the courage to avoid crab-bucket traps that pull you back into comfort and conformity. Mindset sits at the core. Most people change desires and even values before they change behavior; flipping that script requires a renewed mind, tighter inputs, and proof through daily practice. Purpose sharpens when your actions align with identity, not applause.

    If you’re ready to trade vague hopes for clear steps—and to choose the narrow path that leads to real life—this one’s for you. Listen, share with a friend who needs a reset, and tell us the one specific

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    Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!


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    47 mins
  • The World's Noisy - Embrace The Silence!
    Dec 21 2025

    Our team thought it was a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

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    Purpose shouldn’t be a whisper under the noise—it should be the compass that sets your direction. We open with a quick update and gratitude for our community, then get straight to the heart of the matter: why the world keeps de‑emphasizing purpose and how that quiet drift costs us our time, freedom, and joy. Together we challenge the shallow questions—Is this worth it? Should I be doing this?—and replace them with a better one: does this move me closer to my end game or pull me away?

    We unpack the hard truth about “furniture” in our lives—habits, expectations, and distractions that feel permanent because we’ve stopped confronting them. You’ll hear a simple decision filter that helps you say no without guilt, plus a candid look at why chasing recognition or empire-building often leaves you busy but misaligned. If you’ve ever wondered why success can feel like a golden cage, we talk about the time‑freedom tradeoff and how purpose realigns your work with your values.

    From there we get practical. We explore the role of mentors, the power of disciplined habits, and why miracles tend to meet people in motion rather than on the couch. Expect direct questions you can apply today: define your end game in plain words, remove one fixture that steals focus, and pick a mentor whose habits you’ll copy for 30 days. The goal isn’t a motivational spike—it’s sustainable direction, the kind that lets you decline good offers to protect your best work.

    If you’re ready to move from average to aligned, from noise to clarity, hit play and take one brave step today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a nudge, and leave a review telling us the one distraction you’re confronting this week. Your next yes starts with a better why.

    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

    Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!


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    Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!

    Hope you enjoyed our broadcast! If you would like to, or know someone who would like to be connected to Mista Yu as a future guest on one of our shows or to have him on your show or you think he's the perfect fit to be your new High Performance Coach, visit our page here: https://theycallmemistayu.wixsite.com/they-call-me-mista-y

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    20 mins
  • You Spend More Time With Yourself Than Anyone Else—Are You Worth The Investment?
    Dec 15 2025

    Hey, Friends and Family.

    Even in the months of the podcast season when things are slow, we got content for you. Our team thought it a great idea to start reviewing previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these episodes (or beautiful Blasts from the Past) were previously broadcasted but we are sharing them with you for a time that you might need it most. Hope you enjoy!

    I don't know if you can see it but it seems like people are struggling with knowing what and who to invest in. We make bad decisions in business, in relationships, in family, and for our own personal growth. Let's pivot together!

    Mr. Yu explores the concept of influence, examining how the voices we allow into our lives shape our decisions, identity, and ultimate destiny. Through the lens of the Cherokee parable of two wolves, he unpacks how our choices about what we feed—negativity or positivity—determine which aspects of ourselves grow stronger.

    • The power of external influences in our lives, from social media "influencers" to friends and family
    • How the Cherokee parable of two wolves illustrates our internal battle between positive and negative qualities
    • Why we often invest the least in ourselves despite spending more time with ourselves than anyone else
    • The difference between treating yourself and truly investing in your potential and purpose
    • Five practical steps to begin investing in yourself: assess your capital, don't waste time, guard your gates, be ready to replant, and identify the thief
    • How comfort becomes the thief that robs us of our potential
    • The importance of saying "no" and avoiding the tyranny of the urgent
    • Why the words we speak have tremendous power to create or destroy possibilities

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    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

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    38 mins
  • Comfort Called, Purpose Sent It To Voicemail
    Dec 11 2025

    Our team thought it was a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!


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    Leave your first name and the city you're reaching out to us from. We'll respond to your message on the next Fan Mail episode and give you the biggest shoutout. Every message you send to me matters.

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    What would people honestly say about you if today were your last? We take that uncomfortable question and turn it into a compass for purpose, unpacking what it means to live as a “living sacrifice” where intent matters more than optics and love costs something real. Drawing from Romans 12, we explore how transformation beats imitation, why joy outlasts happiness, and how motive turns generosity from a seasonal stunt into a daily habit that actually helps people.

    Along the way, we contrast a peacetime mindset with a wartime mindset—the former drifts into comfort and self-preservation, the latter stays alert to the quiet emergencies around us. We talk frankly about privilege, perspective, and the seductive myth that comfort equals control. Then we ground the conversation in stories that sting and inspire, including seventeen-year-old Medal of Honor recipient Jack Lucas on Iwo Jima and a medic’s final moments that redefine courage and compassion. These moments aren’t just history; they’re mirrors for the choices we make when nobody’s clapping.

    This episode is equal parts conviction and coaching. You’ll hear practical ways

    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

    Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!


    Coffee aficionados and Health Conscious listeners, our show has some new sponsors and they’re offering you the best discounts their stores have. Links are below. Start saving now!

    Quantum Squares: https://strongcoffeecompany.com/discount/TCMMY

    The link is in the show notes. Can't wait to hear how much you love Strong Coffee!

    We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message!

    Support the show

    Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!

    Hope you enjoyed our broadcast! If you would like to, or know someone who would like to be connected to Mista Yu as a future guest on one of our shows or to have him on your show or you think he's the perfect fit to be your new High Performance Coach, visit our page here: https://theycallmemistayu.wixsite.com/they-call-me-mista-y

    We can't wait to hear from you!

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    53 mins
  • Bridge Out: Why Modern Religion Fails Us
    Dec 9 2025

    Our team thought it a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

    Have you ever wondered why so many spiritually-minded people avoid organized religion? What if the problem isn't religion itself, but our fundamental misunderstanding of what it's supposed to be?

    In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we dive deep into the topic I've hesitated to discuss – religion versus relationship. I break down the rarely-examined definition of religion (appearing only 5-7 times in the New Testament) and explore why terms like "system," "institutionalized," and "ceremony" leave such a bitter taste in so many mouths.

    We confront the uncomfortable truth that hypocrisy isn't just a church problem – it's a human problem. Whether it's telling our kids not to talk to strangers except on Halloween or claiming we don't eat certain foods while making exceptions, we all live with contradictions. The question becomes: are we willing to acknowledge them?

    Ready to transform your understanding of faith? This episode might just change your tomorrow. Subscribe now and join the conversation about what truly matters in our spiritual journeys.

    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

    Support the show

    Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!

    Hope you enjoyed our broadcast! If you would like to, or know someone who would like to be connected to Mista Yu as a future guest on one of our shows or to have him on your show or you think he's the perfect fit to be your new High Performance Coach, visit our page here: https://theycallmemistayu.wixsite.com/they-call-me-mista-y

    We can't wait to hear from you!

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    48 mins
  • The 5 Most Influential: Rethinking Who We Align With
    Dec 3 2025

    Hey, Friends and Family.

    Even in the months of the podcast season when things are slow, we have content for you. Our team thought it a great idea to start reviewing previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these episodes (or beautiful Blasts from the Past) were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy!

    One To Grow On:

    This is the toughest conversation many of us may have, but it is the one we absolutely must have. Our team thought that based on the current climate, this would be an ideal episode to reload for all of our new listeners and those that have been with us for years. Enjoy!


    The impact of our social circles on our personal growth and development cannot be understated, especially during divisive times like election season. Who we spend time with directly influences our mindset, opportunities, and future trajectory.

    • The five people you spend the most time with shape who you become
    • Like standing near a smoker, negative people affect you even if you don't adopt their habits
    • "Show me your friends and I'll show you your future" is more than just a saying
    • The Crab Bucket syndrome: when people pull you down to stay at their level
    • True friends love you too much to leave you where you are
    • Being a "diehard" fan in sports can translate to harmful blind loyalty in other areas
    • We often attach ourselves to groups without researching what they truly stand for
    • Evaluate relationships based on how they affect your spiritual, physical, mental, emotional and financial health

    Share this episode with someone who needs to evaluate their social circle. Connect with Mista Yu on all the socials and wherever you enjoy your podcasts!


    SEND US A TEXT. Drop Mista Yu a text at: (904) 867-4466 or (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2378778/open_sms).

    Leave your first name and the city you're reaching out to us from. We'll respond to your message on the next Fan Mail episode and give you the biggest shoutout. Every message you send to me matters.

    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

    Support the show

    Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!

    Hope you enjoyed our broadcast! If you would like to, or know someone who would like to be connected to Mista Yu as a future guest on one of our shows or to have him on your show or you think he's the perfect fit to be your new High Performance Coach, visit our page here: https://theycallmemistayu.wixsite.com/they-call-me-mista-y

    We can't wait to hear from you!

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    28 mins
  • Breaking The Pack Rat Habit For Lasting Focus
    Nov 28 2025

    Our team thought it was a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

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    SEND US A TEXT. Drop Mista Yu a text at: (904) 867-4466 or (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2378778/open_sms).

    Leave your first name and the city you're reaching out to us from. We'll respond to your message on the next Fan Mail episode and give you the biggest shoutout. Every message you send to me matters.

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    What if the comfort you’re chasing is the very thing holding you back? We open the vault and pull a listener favorite from the archives to examine the “pack rat” mindset—why we drop what truly matters to grab whatever glitters, and how that reflex drains focus, money, and momentum. Through honest stories, sharp metaphors, and a few hard-won lessons, we explore the pull of shiny objects, the psychology of hoarding, and the subtle slide from healthy goals to quiet idolatry.

    You’ll hear how emotional attachment turns objects into anchors, why quick wins often hide long-term losses, and what it takes to trade impulse for intention. We break down the difference between wide focus and narrow focus using the magnifying glass idea: the same light becomes powerful when concentrated. From there, we map out practical ways to rebuild your “nest” with discipline and clarity—budget guardrails that reflect your values, routines that protect deep work, and small daily rules that keep hype from hijacking your plan.

    Along the way, we challenge the belief that more stuff equals more safety and offer a better lens: live with open hands. When you prioritize stewardship over ownership, generosity over accumulation, and purpose over polish, you uncrowd your life and make room for results that last. If you’ve been stuck in the loop of buying, scrolling, or starting and never finishing, this conversation is your reset button. Hit play, share it with a friend who needs a focus tune-up, and if it resonates, subscribe, leave

    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

    Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!


    Coffee aficionados and Health Conscious listeners, our show has some new sponsors and they’re offering you the best discounts their stores have. Links are below. Start saving now!

    Quantum Squares: https://strongcoffeecompany.com/discount/TCMMY

    The link is in the show notes. Can't wait to hear how much you love Strong Coffee!

    Support the show

    Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!

    Hope you enjoyed our broadcast! If you would like to, or know someone who would like to be connected to Mista Yu as a future guest on one of our shows or to have him on your show or you think he's the perfect fit to be your new High Performance Coach, visit our page here: https://theycallmemistayu.wixsite.com/they-call-me-mista-y

    We can't wait to hear from you!

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    29 mins
  • Stories That Made Me: Personal Journeys Through Adversity
    Nov 26 2025

    Our team thought it a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

    Mista Yu was more transparent than ever on this episode, and he encourages you to share your story. We want to hear what you have gone through and how you overcame it.

    • The bus accident at age 13 when his leg was run over, yet he miraculously kept both legs
    • Understanding that every good story needs conflict for character development
    • The biblical principle that all things work together for good, even in difficult circumstances
    • Finding grace in unlikely places, including a severe car accident years later
    • Learning that destiny isn't just reaching a destination, but who you become on the journey
    • Why can't you rebuke life or blame others for what happens to you
    • The roller coaster analogy for facing fears with faith instead of anxiety
    • Being the protagonist in your own story - nobody else can finish it
    • What is the significance of the little red hydrant?

    If you enjoyed the podcast, please share, subscribe, and leave us a five-star rating on Apple Podcasts.

    Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.

    Support the show

    Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!

    Hope you enjoyed our broadcast! If you would like to, or know someone who would like to be connected to Mista Yu as a future guest on one of our shows or to have him on your show or you think he's the perfect fit to be your new High Performance Coach, visit our page here: https://theycallmemistayu.wixsite.com/they-call-me-mista-y

    We can't wait to hear from you!

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    38 mins