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The Woman Behind It All | Spirituality, Relationship Advice, Boundaries, Gene Keys, Human Design

The Woman Behind It All | Spirituality, Relationship Advice, Boundaries, Gene Keys, Human Design

By: Kaija Dawn | Certified Spiritual Life & Relationship Coach Human Design & Gene Keys Guide
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The Go-To Podcast for Spiritual Women Creating Conscious, Soul-Aligned Relationships

** Top 10% Global-Ranked Podcast **

Are you tired of feeling like you're going crazy for trusting your gut about your relationship? Done walking on eggshells and compromising your truth while your partner resists any real depth or growth?

If you're questioning whether your standards for emotional intimacy and true partnership are "too much," this podcast is your permission slip to stop questioning your sanity and start creating the conscious relationship you deserve.

I'm Kaija - a spiritual relationship coach who transformed 13 years of toxic patterns into sacred partnership through shadow work, nervous system healing, and radical responsibility.

Here, we dive deep into creating relationships that feel like energetic oneness, conscious communication that deepens intimacy, and learning to trust your body's wisdom about who can truly meet your consciousness level.

This isn't surface-level relationship advice - this is spiritual relationship mastery for women who know conscious love is their birthright and refuse to settle for less.

Ready to come home to yourself and create the soul-aligned partnership you've always known was possible?

Let's dive in.

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Episodes
  • 053 | Why You Keep Triggering Each Other (Even When You're Being "Nice") - Relationship Physics Series pt 2

    053 | Why You Keep Triggering Each Other (Even When You're Being "Nice") - Relationship Physics Series pt 2
    Nov 3 2025
    What if I told you that your nervous system is constantly broadcasting like a radio station, and your partner's body is tuning into that frequency and responding to it before you even speak? In this episode, I'm diving deep into the invisible force that's shaping every interaction in your relationship - the law of energetic transmission. This is about how your cells and nervous system are listening and responding 24/7, picking up on energy that's happening beneath your conscious awareness. You'll hear my raw story about how my Gene Key 12 Shadow of Vanity almost sabotaged my relationship with Christian in the early days - how I was terrified of losing my independence and actually told him his grounding energy felt "too much" for my hypervigilant nervous system. I'm also sharing how understanding Christian's Gene Key 60 (Shadow of Limitation) completely shifted how I respond when he brings up obstacles, instead of making him the problem. If you've ever wondered why the same conversation can go completely sideways one day and beautifully the next, this episode reveals the energetic mechanics happening underneath that have nothing to do with your words. 🔥 What We're Covering: How your nervous system processes 11 million bits of information per second (while your brain only catches 5%)Why dysregulation creates more dysregulation and how to interrupt the cycleThe real reason you can feel someone's bad day before they tell youHow my Open Sacral responded to Christian's pure Generator energy (and why I almost pushed him away)Gene Key 12: Moving from the Shadow of Vanity to the Gift of DiscriminationGene Key 60: Understanding the Shadow of Limitation and Gift of Realism in relationshipsWhy triggers are actually sacred information your body is giving youHow to take responsibility for your energetic transmission without taking on your partner's emotions The truth is... Your body is constantly broadcasting and receiving energy that creates the emotional climate of your relationship. You can say the exact same words in two different conversations and get completely different responses based on your energetic state. Once you understand this invisible language, you stop wondering why conversations go sideways and start taking conscious responsibility for the frequency you're transmitting. Xx, KD 💡 Ready to Transform From the Inside Out? If you're ready to understand the deeper energetic dynamics shaping your relationship, The Gene Keys Book Club is where we dive into the shadow patterns and gifts that are unconsciously running your connections. 🎯 Free Resource Alert! Download your Body Wisdom Guide! It's perfect for regulating your nervous system and creating conscious pauses before difficult conversations. Gene Keys Resources: The Gene Keys BookIndividual Gene Key Audio Transmissions: $2 eachComplete 64 Gene Key Audio Library: $100 Love this episode? Screenshot and tag me @iamkaijadawn! Next Week: Episode 3 - The Law of Energetic Evocation: How to consciously create the responses you want instead of accidentally triggering what you don't. . . . Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.
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    26 mins
  • 052 | From Business Burnout to Conscious Creation: How Human Design Saved Lauren Farrow's Life & Business

    052 | From Business Burnout to Conscious Creation: How Human Design Saved Lauren Farrow's Life & Business
    Oct 30 2025

    What if the burnout you're experiencing isn't a sign that something's wrong with you, but proof that you're trying to force yourself into an energetic design that was never meant for you?!

    In this episode, I'm sitting down with my new friend Lauren Farrow, an Emotional Projector who went from collapsing on the London Underground after grueling TV production days to building a thriving business that honors her energetic design.

    You'll hear Lauren's raw story of how she discovered Human Design through her sister's gift on her 30th birthday, and the exact moment she realized she'd been labeling herself as "indecisive" and "non-committal" when she was actually just honoring her emotional authority.

    Lauren also breaks down the massive 2027 shift we're all moving through - from the Cross of Planning to the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix - and why this explains the collective discomfort and uncertainty we're all feeling right now.

    If you've been pushing yourself to be consistent in ways that drain you or questioning why you can't seem to commit like everyone else, this conversation will give you permission to define success on your own energetic terms.

    🔥 What We're Covering:
    • How Lauren went from TV production burnout to conscious creation entrepreneur using Human Design
    • Why Projectors burn out when they try to match Generator/Manifesting Generator energy
    • The difference between commitment and consistency (and why you get to define both)
    • How an undefined Heart Center and Spleen Center created constant need to prove herself
    • Working with emotional authority as a Self-Projected Projector in business and relationships
    • The 2027 collective shift from tribal planning to individualized expression
    • Gene Key 29: Moving from half-heartedness to true commitment and devotion
    • How to align your business strategy with your energetic design instead of copying others
    The truth is...

    Most of us are trying to succeed using strategies designed for different energy types. When you understand your unique energetic blueprint, you stop forcing yourself into systems that deplete you and start creating from a place of sustainable alignment. Your "inconsistency" might actually be your intuitive wisdom guiding you away from what's not meant for you.

    Connect with Lauren on IG @whatsthesoultruth

    She's currently recording an audio series about the 2027 shift and offers one-to-one consultancies for aligning your business with your Human Design!

    ⚡ Want to Dive Deeper Into Your Human Design?

    Understanding your energy type and authority changes everything about how you approach work, relationships, and decision-making. Join me for HD Happy Hour where we dive deep into your chart and how to work with your design instead of against it.

    Love this episode? Screenshot this and tag both @iamkaijadawn and @whatsthesoultruth!

    Xx, KD

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    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.
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    36 mins
  • 051 | The Invisible Force That Makes or Breaks Love That You've Never Even Heard Of- Until Now!

    051 | The Invisible Force That Makes or Breaks Love That You've Never Even Heard Of- Until Now!
    Oct 27 2025
    Would you believe me if I told you that relationships actually operate by the same laws as physics? Like, there are invisible forces constantly at play that either create magnetic attraction or complete energetic flatness, and most of us are totally unconscious of what we're broadcasting and receiving. In this episode, I'm revealing the invisible mechanics that are either igniting passion or slowly draining the life out of your connection - and why you can feel so energetically mismatched even when you love each other deeply. This isn't about learning better communication techniques or trying to force love into one simple box. This is about understanding the three distinct energetic channels that are running in your relationship 24/7, and how to consciously work with these invisible forces instead of being unconscious victims of them. You'll hear about my 13-year relationship where we felt like complete roommates despite loving each other, and the specific moment I realized we were energetically mismatched on multiple levels - both stuck in the same frequency with zero polarity. I'm also sharing how understanding these three channels completely transformed my relationship with Christian, and why this invisible language your relationship is always speaking changes everything once you can see it. If you've been feeling disconnected but can't name exactly what's wrong, this episode will help you diagnose exactly which energetic channel needs your attention first. 🔥 What We're Covering: The Law of Energetic Dimensions - why your relationship operates on three completely different frequencies at onceThe three energetic channels (emotional, sexual, spiritual) and how they create connection or disconnectionMasculine and feminine energetic expressions within each channel (and why these aren't gender-specific)How to diagnose energetic mismatches instead of just saying "we need better communication"Why you can love someone deeply but feel zero sexual charge (and what to do about it)The specific signs that you're both embodying the same energy instead of creating polarityHow to consciously switch between energetic expressions to create magnetic attractionWhy spiritually aware women often feel like they're outgrowing their relationships (and the real solution) The truth is... Most relationship advice treats connection like it's one thing. But your body is constantly picking up on these invisible mechanics - emotional flow versus holding, sexual surrender versus claiming, spiritual devotion versus consciousness. When all three channels are dancing together in polarity, you create this incredible energetic current that feels like magic. When they're mismatched, you get that disconnect feeling even when you can't name why. Xx, KD 💞Grab your free 3-Channel Relationship Assessment! It helps you diagnose exactly which energetic channel needs your attention first and gives you specific steps to create more conscious polarity. Love this episode? Screenshot this, share it to your stories and tag me on IG! Hit subscribe so you never miss an episode. ✨ . . . Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.
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    28 mins
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