Many of us grew up learning about sex through a worldly lens, leaving us with feelings of guilt, shame, or discomfort around sexual intimacy. But the truth is: sex is a beautiful, natural expression of connection. It’s a way for couples to be truly vulnerable with one another, like no other relationship allows.

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the powerful truth that you can be both spiritual and sexual, and that the two are deeply intertwined. Couples who embrace their sexual connection often experience a profound spiritual bond, creating intimacy that transcends the physical.

We’re joined by world-renowned marriage coaches and instructors, Greg and Julie Gorman of Married For A Purpose. Many of you may know them as the incredible facilitators from our Intimacy and Adventure Retreats. Together, we explore how to nurture your sexual and spiritual connection, overcome shame, and create the most fulfilling intimacy of your life.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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Your first thought may be "what mistakes could happen after making love?"

What happens after sexual intimacy can be just as important as the intimate moment itself. Yet many couples unknowingly make mistakes that can lead to disconnection, hurt feelings, or missed opportunities for deeper connection.

In this episode, Nick and Amy share the six most common mistakes couples make after being intimate and the reasons why. You’ll learn how to turn those tender post intimacy moments into a time of connection, reassurance, and closeness.

If you want to strengthen your relationship and make every intimate moment count, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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Why dedicate an entire episode to kissing? Because this simple, sweet act is packed with incredible benefits for your relationship and your health!

Did you know that kissing can burn calories, strengthen your immune system, and even boost your mood by reducing depression? Plus, research shows couples who kiss often tend to enjoy stronger, more connected marriages.

In this fun episode, Nick and Amy share fascinating facts you’ve probably never heard before, along with tips for making kissing a more intentional and meaningful part of your relationship.

Tune in, because you’ll never look at a kiss the same way again!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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We were sitting on the couch the other night laughing about how much of our daily life as a married couple could sometimes be straight out of a sitcom.
No one writes this stuff... it just happens in our house.🤣

In this podcast episode we share the funny things that happen in our marriage and with our kids that make us wonder "are we the only ones that do these things?" For example:

Do your kids text you from the room next to you?

Do you take 60 minutes to pick out a movie to watch together?

Does this sound familiar? “Where do you want to go for dinner?”
“I don’t care, you pick.”
“Okay… do you want to go to [Restaurant #1]?”
“Anywhere but there.”
“Alright… how about [Restaurant #2]?”
“No, not that one either.”

These are just a few of the funny things we share. We hope you enjoy this funny episode and also share your experiences for a future episode! Share them at amy@ultimateintimacy.com

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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We often hear about how a lack of intimacy affects men, but what about the women? What happens when he’s the one with little to no sexual desire? Or if a wife is withholding or doesn't want sexual intimacy? Either scenario, the negative impacts are the same.

A man’s healthy sex drive often fuels romance, emotional connection, and the drive to pursue and cherish his wife. But when that is missing, it can leave a woman feeling undesired, disconnected, and confused.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive deep into the emotional toll and relationship challenges women face when intimacy fades on his side of the marriage bed. You won’t want to miss this raw and powerful conversation that’s rarely talked about, but desperately needs to be.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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Let’s be real, marriage comes with a whole lot of love... and a few cringe-worthy things we didn’t sign up for. From open-mouth chewing to chronic nagging to that "Thanks-for-nothing" attitude, sometimes the smallest things can flip the switch from turned on to totally turned off.

In this episode, we share "your" poll answers on the things that really turn you off. These are the silent killers of connection, the subtle sabotage moves you probably don't even realize you're making... but totally are.

The good news? Awareness is everything. Once you recognize these turn-offs, you can flip the script and build deeper intimacy, appreciation, and that irresistible attraction you’ve been craving.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go at any moments notice, and sex for most men is the way they feel loved, and gives them the validation that they are loved. For women, they need to feel loved before they are going to have the desire for sexual intimacy.

For a woman to feel loved, they need to feel valued, listened to, respected, safe and emotionally connected. For men to feel loved, they need to be sexually connected.

It is vital for couples to understand what each other needs to feel loved, and the importance of sexual intimacy in the relationship. In this episode we talk about why women need to feel loved to make love, and how to do that, and why men need to make love to feel loved.

🔁 Healthy Cycle:

Emotional intimacy → physical intimacy → deeper emotional bond → stronger desire → repeat.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every marriage, no matter where you are in your relationship journey.

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell, a divorce attorney, author, and PhD in Marriage & Family Relationships. Yes, you read that right! A divorce attorney who’s passionately working to help couples stay together and thrive.

Tamara shares transformative strategies for resolving conflict in marriage. These steps are clear, easy to apply, and designed to bring lasting peace and deeper connection to your relationship. Whether you’re facing frequent tension or just looking to strengthen an already solid foundation, this episode is full of tools that can change the trajectory of your marriage fast.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

This episode was recorded in 2022 and reposted.

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