• EPISODE 4: Emilia's Story: Do I abandon my dream job?
    Oct 27 2025

    We all experience inner conflict, but what do we actually get torn about? In this episode, Susan and Caitlin explore the many shapes our inner struggles can take, from the small daily decisions to the lifelong questions of identity, love, and purpose. Drawing on their research, coaching experience, and lived examples, they unpack how the past, present, and future all play a part in our moments of indecision. This is a conversation about the “flavours” of being human the everyday tug-of-war between self and others, fear and desire, duty and freedom and what we can learn when we start noticing the patterns underneath it all.

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    51 mins
  • Episode 3 - What do we get torn about?
    Oct 14 2025

    We all experience moments of inner conflict, from the small, everyday choices to the big, life-defining decisions. In this episode, Susan and Caitlin explore the many shapes that being ‘torn’ can take between duty and desire, past and future, self and others. Drawing on stories from The Torn Project and their own experiences, they uncover what these tensions reveal about who we are, what we value, and how we learn to live with the contradictions that make us human.



    Find more stories, resources and hope on all things inner conflict at our website www.thetornproject.com

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    To reach out directly, email us at susan@thetornproject.com

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    29 mins
  • Episode 2 - Paul's Story: Should I leave my marriage?
    Sep 30 2025

    Paul spent years pushing down his true desires, until one moment of honesty changed everything. In this episode, an actor shares Paul’s story and after each chapter of that story, Susan, Caitlin and James reflect on what his conflict reveals about choice, longing and courage. This is a story about the tension between 'wanting' and 'getting' and the possibilities and risks which open up when we finally pay attention to what we really want.


    Find more stories, resources and hope on all things inner conflict at our website www.thetornproject.com

    Follow us on Instagram @thetornproject

    To reach out directly, email us at susan@thetornproject.com

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Episode 1 - What is the Torn Project and Why?
    Sep 30 2025

    We all know the feeling of being pulled in two directions at once. In this first episode, Susan, Caitlin and James introduce The Torn Project; why it exists; what 'inner conflict' really means; and how listening to real stories and learning from reliable resources can help us find balance. This process marks the start of an ongoing conversation about those messy human moments when our wants, needs and beliefs collide – moments which are actually an essential part of our development as human beings. If you've ever felt torn, ever supported someone who felt torn, or are curious about the topic of inner conflict, then join us as we explore what that means, together.


    Find more stories, resources and hope on all things inner conflict at our website www.thetornproject.com

    Follow us on Instagram @thetornproject

    To reach out directly, email us at susan@thetornproject.com

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    36 mins