Episode #1003

Feel stuck in your relationship and not sure whether to work on it or walk away? In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith break down the tough questions men face when their marriage or partnership feels off. No fluff—just real talk about what it means to lead in your relationship, how to stop avoiding the hard conversations, and a simple framework to help you decide if it’s time to recommit or move on.

If you've been feeling disconnected, unheard, or unsure whether there's still love left, this one’s for you. The guys talk about how to be the best version of yourself for 30 days, what to actually say when you’re ready to speak up, and what to look for to know if your partner’s still in the fight with you.

Whether you're on the fence or already drifting apart, this episode will help you see the path forward—with clarity and courage.

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Episode #1002

If you've been telling yourself “now’s not the right time,” it might be time to take a closer look at what that’s really costing you. In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith dive into the common trap a lot of men fall into—waiting, hoping, and putting off action in their relationships, health, and personal growth.

This isn’t about hype or motivation. It’s about being honest with yourself, owning where you’re at, and recognizing that hope alone doesn’t create change—leadership does. Doug and Mark share real stories from men they’ve coached, what happens when guys delay action, and how taking even the smallest step can shift everything.

If you’ve been stuck in your head, waiting for a better time, this episode is your call to stop hoping and start doing. No fluff—just real talk, practical insight, and a challenge to lead your life, not wait your way through it.

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Episode #1001

Most guys have good intentions. You want to be supportive. You want to lift her up. But what if the way you respond is actually doing the opposite of what you think?

In this episode, Doug sits down with Brad Holt to talk about something subtle but powerful: invalidation. It’s one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships—especially when it comes to trying to help, fix, or reassure.

From phrases like “You look great” to trying to talk her out of what she’s feeling, you might be accidentally sending the message that you don’t really hear her. And when that happens often enough, she stops opening up.

They break down how this plays out, how to spot it in real time, and what to do when you realize you've already said the wrong thing. This one’s a wake-up call—and it’s all about showing up with more awareness, not perfection.

If you want a stronger connection with your wife, this is where to start.

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Episode #1000

After 1,000 episodes, we’re still getting the same core questions from men: “Why won’t my wife forgive me?”, “Why doesn’t she feel safe?”, and “Why is nothing I do ever enough?” In this episode, we’re cutting the fluff and giving you direct, honest answers.

Doug and Tim reflect on what’s really going on in your relationship—and how to start fixing it without trying harder or doing more of the wrong things. Whether your marriage feels stuck, your wife feels distant, or you're just tired of trying to guess what she needs, this episode is for you.

It’s not about chasing her approval. It’s about learning to lead again—from a place of calm, grounded strength.

Grab a beer (we did), press play, and let’s talk man-to-man about what actually works.

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Just cover shipping. No fluff—just real tools that work.

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Episode #999

Ever feel like you’re just surviving—barely making it through the day, disconnected from your partner, and exhausted from trying to hold it all together? In this episode, Doug sits down with Jason, a husband, father, and business owner who shares the raw truth of how he went from emotional shutdown, chronic pain, and near-divorce to rebuilding connection, purpose, and real partnership.

They talk honestly about what most men won’t admit: the emotional weight we carry, the struggle to show up at home after long days, and how easy it is to slip into resentment. But Jason’s story isn’t just about hitting bottom—it’s about doing the work to rise from it. He walks through the small but powerful shifts he made that helped him reconnect with his wife, become the dad he wanted to be, and find strength in vulnerability.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is this all there is?”—this conversation is for you. No fluff, no hype. Just real talk and a roadmap out of the fog.

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Episode #998

What if that argument about the dishes isn’t really about the dishes?

Most guys fall into the same trap during conflict—we react. We defend ourselves, make excuses, try to explain things, or just shut down completely. I’ve been there, and I used to think being “right” would solve everything. It didn’t. It just made the fights last longer and left us both feeling more disconnected.

In this episode, I’m bringing back a short but powerful conversation that can shift everything. I walk you through how I stopped blowing up arguments in my marriage and started turning those heated moments into connection.

We dive into a simple technique I used when things were at their worst—counting to 10. Sounds basic, right? But that pause gave me just enough space to stop reacting and start listening. From there, I used what we call the Hidden Motives Technique to figure out what my wife was really trying to say underneath the complaints.

In this revisit, I’ll show you how to shift the dynamic, so you're not just avoiding a blowup—you’re actually building more trust and intimacy. When your wife feels seen and heard, everything changes—including how she responds to you.

This isn’t about walking on eggshells. It’s about learning to lead better during conflict. And it works.

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Episode #997

Most men wait until they hit a wall before they do anything about their health. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, I sit down with Jason Kidman — a tech guy turned health optimization coach — to talk about how he went from burnout and chronic pain to feeling better at 44 than he did at 29.

We cover practical stuff: peptides, hormone health, biohacking (yes, without the hype), and how the system most of us rely on — doctors, meds, insurance — often fails to get us feeling better.

If you’re a guy in your late 30s or 40s thinking, “This is just what aging feels like,” this one’s for you. Jason breaks down what’s actually possible when you stop accepting brain fog, low energy, and poor sleep as your new normal.

We also talk about what to do first if you’re just starting out — and how small shifts can help you lead from the front as a husband, father, and business owner.

No fluff. No quick fixes. Just real talk and actionable takeaways to get your health back on track.

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Episode #996

How often do you find yourself being the one everyone else looks up to—but secretly wondering who’s helping you rise?

When you’re the guy with all the answers, where do you go when you need to level up?

In this episode, Tim sits down with Magoo and The Gift—two members of The Powerful Man’s Inner Circle—to break down what actually happens behind the scenes of this invite-only group. These aren’t just guys chasing success. They’re already winning—and still choosing to be pushed, challenged, and held to a higher standard.

You’ll hear what it’s like to be surrounded by men who won’t let you shrink, even when it’s uncomfortable. They talk openly about the pressure, the honesty, the moments of doubt—and how that friction creates serious growth. One-year visions are getting crushed in under five months. Guys are having the best years of their lives, and it’s not by accident.

In this episode, you'll hear how they’re playing the game differently. And why, if you're ready for something more—this might be exactly the push you didn’t know you needed.

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If you're the kind of man who thrives with structure, challenge, and real results (like the guys inside the Inner Circle), then start by getting clarity on where things are breaking down.

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It’s time to stop guessing. Step into the man your wife actually wants to follow.

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