• Speaking Truth at Your Father's Funeral
    Feb 12 2026

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    When Austin was asked to deliver a eulogy for his father, he faced a profound challenge: how to honor his dad while remaining true to his faith, given he’d never heard his father confess Christ. In this episode Joël and his guest, Austin, explore the delicate balance between love, honesty, and faith.

    #father #jesus #speakthetruthinlove

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    26 mins
  • When Your Calling Feels Like a Burden
    Feb 5 2026

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    Ever feel like you have to say something, but you’re terrified of messing it up? We’re diving deep into what happens when your gift for truth-telling feels more like a burden. Join us as we unpack how to share what you see without causing harm.

    Learn to navigate that inner conflict when speaking out feels risky but staying silent feels disobedient. It’s a tough spot, but you’re not alone!

    Got a calling that feels heavy? Hit subscribe and let’s explore this journey together!

    #Calling #SpeakingTruth #ChristianLife #SpiritualGifts #MinistryLife

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    22 mins
  • How to Write a Book
    Jan 29 2026

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    Ever dreamed of writing a book but felt stuck staring at a blank page?

    Melanie and Joël break down how to actually get started and finish that manuscript!

    We’re chatting about overcoming mental health struggles, finding your voice, and turning your story into a book that can help others. You don’t want to miss these practical tips!

    Have a story to tell? Let’s make it happen! Sign up for coaching at joelmalm.com/coaching and let’s get your book written

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    26 mins
  • Caring for People Who Don't Want Care (But Need It)
    Jan 22 2026

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    How do you care for people who don't want care-- even though they really need it?

    In this episode, Joël, Rick, and their guest Randy discuss strategies for engaging people who resist pastoral care. Learn how to build trust and offer support to those who may not see their need for it. This episode offers practical advice for fostering connection and well-being in ministry roles.

    #pastoralcare #missionarycare #ministry #foryou #enneagram2 #enneagram3w2


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    23 mins
  • Become an Authority People Listen To
    Jan 15 2026

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    Discover how to establish authority as a leader, communicator, and writer. Joël talks with Kim, a writer and foster mom who is seeking to encourage others to embrace foster care and give them encouragement on the journey. Learn to transform personal stories into impactful Christian living content, connect with your audience, and become a voice people listen to.

    If you want to learn more about Kim, visit: https://kimpatton.com

    In This Episode:

    00:00 Storytelling vs. Making a Point

    01:43 Establishing Authority as a Foster Mom

    05:38 Practitioner vs. Academic Authority

    08:02 Structuring Chapters for Impact

    12:35 Defining Audience and Clarity

    15:24 Clarity for Storytellers

    19:12 Leveraging AI and Speaking for Impact

    22:50 Building a Foundation and Future Steps

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    26 mins
  • 3 Keys to Leading in New Seasons
    Jan 8 2026

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    Joel and a church planter in South America discuss the challenges and rewards of new leadership roles, focusing on balancing authority with humility and identifying necessary skills for future growth. Misael Lucano shares insights from planting a church in Asuncion, Paraguay, and navigating the complexities of leadership transitions.

    In This Episode:

    00:00 New Season of Leadership

    02:06 Leadership Evolution: Rural to City

    05:44 Strengths, Weaknesses, and Delegation

    11:54 Embracing Vulnerability in Leadership

    19:01 Seeking the Right People and Avoiding ‘Sheep Stealing’

    25:12 Trusting Experience and Holy Spirit

    Key Takeaways:

    - Lead with an accurate perception of reality, acknowledging strengths and weaknesses.

    - Focus on your unique contributions; delegate tasks that others can excel at.

    - Embrace seasons of leadership, understanding when to be the plumber and when to lead.

    - Build the foundation of a new venture by intentionally leaving gaps for gifted individuals to fill.

    - Trust your experience and the Holy Spirit’s guidance as you grow into leadership.

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    28 mins
  • A Hike in the Clouds with Joël
    Oct 24 2025

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    In this episode, Joël talks about the two stages of faith: the first half focused on receiving blessings and the second half on deeper trust. He shares insights from his new book, “Hiking the Clouds,” exploring spiritual growth beyond initial awakenings. Learn how to mature in your faith journey.

    In this episode, he talks about:

    • The difference between the first and second halves of faith.
    • How to move beyond a transactional relationship with God.
    • The importance of surrender and humility in spiritual maturity.
    • Developing a quiet confidence that transcends certainty.

    00:00 Introduction to Hiking the Clouds
    01:22 First Half of Faith: Jacob’s Story
    03:40 Second Half of Faith: Deeper Surrender
    06:16 Maturity Through Stages of Faith
    08:18 Quiet Confidence and Perpetual Ascent

    Ready to deepen your spiritual walk? Purchase “Hiking the Clouds” today and continue your journey of mature faith!

    #FaithJourney #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianFaith #MatureFaith

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    10 mins
  • Wait... Divorce Isn't a Sin?
    Oct 16 2025

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    Joël and Rick discuss the complex topic of divorce and remarriage within a Christian context, examining scripture and the meaning of “hardness of heart.” They challenge traditional views, offering perspectives on God’s grace and the journey of spiritual growth through relationships. This conversation navigates the messiness of life with biblical insights. (They even talk about how God is divorced.)

    In This Episode:

    00:00 Is Divorce a Sin?

    02:00 Matthew 19 and Hard Hearts

    05:30 Remarriage and Sexual Immorality

    07:37 Internalizing the Law and Marriage’s Value

    09:22 God, Divorce, and Redemption

    12:26 Perpetual Sin and Complexities

    15:24 Marriage Advice and Unequal Yokes

    18:07 Grace, Forgiveness, and Maturity


    #divorce #marriageadvice #biblicaltruth

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    21 mins