In this session, I coached two women who were in very different places but wrestling with the same kind of emotional weight.

One had left an abusive marriage and found herself in a new relationship with someone who shows up for her in all the ways she used to crave.

And yet, the rage is still there. The grief is still there.

The other is still in her marriage with a good man, but the spark is gone.

She’s trying to force herself to feel something that just isn’t there anymore.

What I shared with both of them is this: healing doesn’t come from finally getting what you always wanted.

It comes from doing the work to come home to yourself. That’s the only place your power lives.

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Healing your marriage after an affair is possible, even when your partner doesn't know.

But pretending nothing happened isn't the answer.

The guilt you feel may push you to come clean, but sharing the truth can shatter your partner’s world, leaving you with even more guilt.

Instead, start by getting honest with yourself.

Why did you cheat? What were you running from or seeking?

Once you understand your motivations, invest in your marriage in real ways.

Be intentional, use relationship tools, meet their needs, and reintroduce fun and affection.

It's about creating a relationship you both won’t want to leave. No secrets, no pretending.

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Sometimes our partner can’t see that we’ve changed, and keeps bracing for the backlash that used to come.

One woman shared how her husband still expects to be punished when he goes out with friends, even though she’s no longer upset about it.

Another is doing all the work to reconnect, but still feels no desire for her partner.

And she’s wondering if that’s a sign.

But desire isn’t just emotional—it’s hormonal.

And it doesn’t magically reappear. It needs care. It needs attention. It needs to be fed.

But if the foundation is strong, there are ways to reconnect that go far beyond just “trying harder.”

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.