Helping from Wholeness: The Difference Between Sacred Service and Wounded Saving

There’s a frequency difference between helping from overflow… and helping from lack.

From the outside, they can look identical.

Both are passionate.

Both are generous.

Both want to make a difference.

But one empowers.

The other creates subtle dependency.

In this episode, Queen Lady Tee breaks down how savior mode can masquerade as purpose — and why nervous system leadership is the missing link in so many healing spaces.

If you’ve ever:

Felt responsible for someone else’s breakthrough

Burned out trying to “fix” people

Tied your worth to being needed

Struggled with boundaries in your service

Felt reactive while claiming to hold space

This episode is your recalibration.

Sacred service does not require self-sacrifice.

It requires embodiment, integration, and regulation.

Because when your nervous system is steady… your leadership becomes clean.

And when your leadership is clean… your impact multiplies.

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“Dreams” — Lamont “True Black” Evans

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Burnout, Boundaries & the Courage to Be Real (with Coach T. Rose) | EPISODE 31

Episode Highlights

Why most healers discover their calling through lived experience

The emotional weight coaches carry behind the scenes

Burnout, compassion fatigue, and forgetting to take your own advice

“Healing isn’t soft — it’s rough, rugged, and necessary”

The real meaning of the Soft Girl Era (not the aesthetic)

Leaving wounded masculinity and reclaiming feminine softness

Mirror work, emotional responsibility, and breaking self-perpetuating cycles

Creating spaces where women can tell the truth without shame

👑 About the Guest: Coach T. Rose

Coach T. Rose is a transformational life coach, author, and the voice behind the podcast The Crown Files. She helps women come back to themselves through mirror work, radical honesty, and emotional accountability — without coddling, bypassing, or fluff.

She is the author of Your Crown, Your Way: The Imperial Workbook, an interactive guide focused on self-love, confidence, and connection.

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🎧 Podcast: The Crown Files with T. Rose

📘 Book: Your Crown, Your Way: The Imperial Workbook (Amazon)

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🌐 Website: bio.site/coachedbyt.rose

🗓️ Free 30-Minute Consultation Available via Her Website

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Soft Girl Era Masterclass (3-Day Experience)

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In this WTF Wednesday episode of The Badass Broadcast, we’re asking a question a lot of folks still don’t know how to answer:

WTF is Reiki anyway?

And more importantly — what can it actually do?

Host Queen Lady Tee shares the raw truth about her own spiritual awakening, the power she underestimated for years, and the real-world results that finally made her believe in her gift.

We’re talking:

What Reiki really is (minus the boring textbook definition)

The history and evolution of Reiki (and why tradition doesn’t mean limitation)

Why “Reiki gatekeeping” is outdated (and silly)

What attunement actually does to your energy system

The different types of Reiki (including the 5 Tee is attuned to!)

Why Kundalini Reiki changed everything

Real-life Reiki healing stories — skeptics included

The spiritual responsibility of owning your weird

Why energy is universal, and why no one can tell you how to use your gifts

Plus, in this week’s Weirdo Chronicles:

Tee shares how her spirit guides introduced her to Reiki-infused meditations, the powerful responses she’s received from them, and how it all confirmed what she already knew deep down — this is her lane.

t to experience Reiki for yourself?

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* 🌬️ Wildfire Reiki Activation – One-on-one energy healing sessions for nervous system repair, emotional release & more

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🧘‍♀️ Listen if you’ve ever…

Felt like helping others meant you couldn’t ask for help yourself

Been afraid that struggling disqualifies you from leading

Burned out while still being the one everyone leans on

Tried to positive-think your way through dysregulation

Needed a reminder that you’re still worthy — even when you’re the one breaking down

🧭 Resources & Links Mentioned:

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Loving Without Fear: Why Guarding Your Heart Isn’t the Flex You Think It Is

In This Episode:

We’re closing out the Soft Girl Medicine series with one final truth bomb:

If you think love means guarding your heart — you might not be ready to receive it.

In this raw and soulful episode, I dive into:

Why “loving hard” is often just a trauma response in disguise

How trying to protect your heart in love is a sign you still need healing

Why self-love is the foundation of open, healthy love

The difference between attachment and connection

And why your solitude might actually be a cage in disguise

Plus: Why I’m still rooting for love, even in my single season — and how my heart stays wide open without fear.

This one’s for the women who’ve been told they’re too much — and the ones who’ve started believing it.

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🎙️ Episode 27: The Good Girl Lie — How It Benefits Everyone But Her

Welcome back to The Badass Broadcast, where we burn through the bullshit and rise into our raw, real, and unstoppable truth.

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking one of the most damaging lies women are raised to believe — that being “the good girl” will somehow protect us, reward us, or guarantee us a happy ending.

Let’s be clear:Good doesn’t mean safe.Good doesn’t mean worthy.And good doesn’t mean fulfilled.

Queen Lady Tee gets all the way real about how this conditioning steals our voice, drains our power, and silences our rage — all while benefiting everyone but us.

🔥 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

Why being "good" is often just silent suffering in a prettier package

The dangerous connection between “good girl” training and internalized shame

How society, jobs, family, and partners benefit from your obedience

The difference between accountability and shame

What happens when the good girl finally snaps — or disappears

A reminder that being empowered doesn’t mean being bad — it means being real

🧘🏽‍♀️ Self-Check Moment:

Who benefits from your silence?Who taught you that love is earned through self-abandonment?And who might you become if you chose yourself — loudly and unapologetically?

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WTF Wednesday just hit different this week.

In this unapologetically raw, real, and radically reflective episode, Queen Lady Tee comes in hot (even through a head cold) with a sick-girl rant turned full-body purge of 2025.

She’s not holding back.

We’re talking:

What it’s really like being a sick single mom of five

Why she’s saying goodbye to toxic Facebook groups and spiritual show-and-tells

What we’re leaving behind in 2025 (hint: it’s a LOT)

And the sacred spaces she’s building instead 🔥

And to top it all off?

She closes with the spoken word piece that had everybody snapping last season —

“Fuck This, That, and Them” — a full-circle firestarter moment to close out a wild-ass year.

If you’ve outgrown the fake, the filtered, and the fluff —

This episode is your permission to burn it down and rise loud, proud, and weird AF in 2026.

Because the world doesn’t deserve all the fucks you’ve been giving.

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🎙️ Listen to “Fuck This, That, and Them” — Season 1 Spoken Word Feature:

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