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If your guy is in his 20s and figuring himself out and you're feeling anxious about it... you're not crazy. Here's why and what you can do about it.

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Unwavering: A year to end the drama in your relationships

I'm hosting a workshop on Dec 19th to set your intentions for 2026! Free for Patrons and Unwavering members. Or get it here for $25.

In this episode I share a personal story with my husband's porn usage, what to do if your partner's usage bothers you, how I see porn now, what makes it worse, and how to get him to want to stop.

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Hey! In this episode I shared my story with breakup urges in my relationship with my now-husband and partner for 14 years. Boy do I know the panic of the thought "BREAK UP!"

I also shared how I stopped experiencing these altogether, and how you can work with me in 2026.

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Hot take: relationship anxiety is the fear of being "stuck" or powerless. There's no shame in falling into the trap of thinking we'll be victims to the circumstances in our lives— but once you see it... you don't have to choose it. You can choose to stay empowered no matter what your decision is. Listen in.

Links:
Spark Reset: Feel something again for a man you already love
Yin Language
Patreon - next call Saturday Nov 15!
Stay tuned for 2026!

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Join me for Tension of Opposites starting July 10th HERE

End the war within yourself with Stefi Preiss

In this episode, I bring one of my dearest friends and mentors, Stefi Preiss, to discuss a practice that helped me step out of relationship anxiety and commit to my partner (now husband and daddy to my baby!) with my whole heart. We discuss what a polarity looks like, how it can create healing in ourselves, our families, and ultimately — the world (especially in this heatedly escalating political environment).

We'll be co-teaching this practice in our upcoming 6-week series for women, Tension of Opposites, starting July 10th.

Discounts are available to Both Feet In students and Patrons

Hi podcast listener!

I'm back with a fresh episode after having a baby boy.

This episode includes my birth story (which went tremendously well), as well as some changes I'm making moving forward, including to the title of this podcast.

Work with me 1:1: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/work1-1

Join me on Patreon (special discounts + a monthly support call where you can ask me anything and source the community for help): patreon.com/anxiouslovecoach

Tension of Opposites - my next 6 week series for wishy-washy women ready to claim sovereignty in their lives and know themselves more fully - July 10 - https://anxiouslovecoachschool.teachable.com/p/tension-of-opposites