Episodes

  • Encore: The Devil You Know: Trading Your Fire for Familiarity

    Encore: The Devil You Know: Trading Your Fire for Familiarity
    Aug 20 2025
    We’ve all been there—stuck in something that feels comfortable, predictable, even safe… but deep down, we know it’s killing our fire. That job you’ve outgrown. That relationship that no longer expands you. That version of yourself that keeps shrinking just to survive.
    This episode is your wake-up call.
    We’re talking about how “the devil you know” convinces you to stay small—how familiarity becomes a trap that silences your soul. And more importantly, how to break the hell out.
    To help us break free from the grip of the familiar, I’m joined by the extraordinary Alyssa Hawn—a Human Design expert and certified Theta Healer who helps people decode their energetic blueprint and release the subconscious patterns that keep them stuck. Alyssa brings deep intuitive insight and transformative tools to help you reconnect with your fire and align with your true path.
    If you’re done trading your power for predictability, this episode will light the match.
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    28 mins
  • Passing the Mic: How We Hold Space for Women’s Truths

    Passing the Mic: How We Hold Space for Women’s Truths
    Aug 12 2025
    For centuries, a woman’s voice has been met with suspicion.
    Her pain questioned.
    Her memory picked apart.
    Her credibility always on trial.
    In this episode, Dr. Pat and I dive deep into the legacy of disbelief that women carry in their bones — and the emotional, spiritual, and societal cost of constantly having to prove our truth. We’re pulling back the curtain on the systems that trained us to mistrust women — and even to mistrust ourselves.
    From historical witch trials to modern-day courtrooms and comment sections, the message has been loud and clear:
    "Your word is not enough."
    But what if it is?
    Together, we explore:
    • Why women’s credibility is still questioned in 2025 — and what that says about the world
    • The spiritual wound of being dismissed or disbelieved
    • How internalized doubt keeps women small, silent, and unsure
    • Why holding space without judgment is one of the most radical things we can do
    • And how using our platforms — from podcasts to kitchen tables — can become acts of truth-telling, witnessing, and collective healing
    Because sometimes, the most powerful thing you can say to another woman is:
    “I believe you.”
    And sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do —
    is pass the mic.

    Watch: https://youtu.be/gdWO3PN9GZw
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    29 mins
  • Rooted: Grounded in Being. Guided by Source

    Rooted: Grounded in Being. Guided by Source
    Aug 6 2025
    This episode is a soul intervention.
    It’s for the woman who’s done everything “right” — followed the rules, played the part, kept it all together — and yet still feels disconnected, unfulfilled, or quietly desperate for something more.
    If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this all there is?” or felt guilt for wanting more — this is your wake-up call.

    In this deeply personal and truth-telling episode, Jamie Shae unpacks what it means to reclaim your power, where that power actually comes from, and how to realign your life from the inside out. She speaks directly to the woman who may not even realize she has the right to change everything.

    You’ll hear raw reflections on self-worth, survival mode, societal conditioning, spiritual misalignment, and what happens when we stop living for others and start listening to the wisdom within.

    This is not just an episode — it’s a turning point.
    You’ll walk away with clarity, fire, and a soul-deep knowing that you can begin again.
    Featuring:
    • Soul-led affirmations to rewire your energy and restore your confidence
    • The truth about why you feel stuck — and how to get unstuck
    • A sneak peek into Jamie’s upcoming course: Rooted.
    This is for the woman who’s done surviving.
    It’s time to come home to yourself.
    It’s time to get Rooted.
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    26 mins
  • The Pain of Not Being Believed: A conversation we can no longer afford to avoid

    The Pain of Not Being Believed: A conversation we can no longer afford to avoid
    Jul 16 2025
    What if the deepest wound wasn’t what happened to her — but the moment no one believed her?
    In this raw and revealing episode, Jamie Shae sits down with transformational powerhouse Dr. Pat Baccili — founder of the Transformation Network — to uncover the invisible epidemic of disbelief women face every day.
    Together, they ask the questions most people are afraid to confront:
    • What is the true emotional and spiritual cost of not being believed?
    • Why is a woman’s truth still up for debate — and who benefits from her doubt?
    • How does disbelief become a second form of violence?
    • What does it do to our bodies, our relationships, our voice?
    • And how do we reclaim our story when the world has already erased it?
    This episode is a reckoning — with culture, with silence, and with ourselves.
    It’s for the woman who were betrayed twice; first by trauma, then by doubt.
    If you’ve ever been dismissed, doubted, or gaslit — this is the medicine.
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    29 mins
  • Who The F* Am I? : The Journey of Unbecoming

    Who The F* Am I? : The Journey of Unbecoming
    Jul 2 2025
    What if everything you were taught about who you are was a lie?
    In this deeply personal solo episode, Jamie Shae rips the mask off survival and takes you on the raw, unfiltered journey of unbecoming — peeling back decades of trauma, silence, and conditioning to reclaim the truth of who she is… and who you are too.
    From childhood moments of terror and defiance, to marrying her trauma in prettier packaging, to a white butterfly that changed everything — Jamie doesn’t hold back. With fire in her voice and scars turned into soul-ink, she unearths what it really takes to stop performing, speak your truth, and spread your wings.
    This isn’t just her story.
    It’s a mirror for every woman who’s ever been told she was too much, too loud, too weird, too ambitious, too emotional, too her.
    If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Who the f* am I?” — this episode is your answer.
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    26 mins
  • Why Men Leap and Women Linger: Unpacking the Confidence Gap

    Why Men Leap and Women Linger: Unpacking the Confidence Gap
    Jun 18 2025
    In this bold and revealing episode, Jamie Shae welcomes interior designer and truth-teller Kami Gray, founder of The Psychologie of Home Design School. Together, they dive deep into what our homes reveal about our beliefs—and how women can stop second-guessing themselves and start designing the lives they’re worthy of.
    From the unspoken rules that keep women playing small to the ways men are socially conditioned to leap without hesitation, this conversation unpacks the confidence gap that keeps women lingering in doubt, fear, and perfectionism.
    Kami shares how claiming beauty, power, and space in your environment can shift your identity at the root level. This isn’t just about wallpaper or throw pillows—it’s about worth, truth, bravery, and building a life that feels as good as it looks.
    If you’ve ever wondered why it feels easier for men to chase their dreams—and what it takes for women to finally go all in—this one’s for you.
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    27 mins
  • Remaining Intact by Strengthening Power Within with guest Jamie Shae

    Remaining Intact by Strengthening Power Within with guest Jamie Shae
    Jun 9 2025
    Many people lose themselves in relationships. They clue into what’s expected and begin to compromise their own priorities and sense of self in order to maintain a bond in which they’ve become attached. Over time, the love offered loses its meaning and value, and the sense of self takes too many hits. Sometimes people decide it’s just better to be alone because at least then we can hold onto ourselves and remain intact. But…that’s not the only option.

    In relationships lie the opportunities to maintain ourself while managing our interpersonal dynamics with others, all without selling our soul. This requires we develop our power within and refrain from trying to get the upper hand by engaging in power-over, or letting ourselves be dominated as in power-under either. The power-within that strengthens our sense of self requires we let go of the need for love, approval and acceptance from others. And, from that place, we keep our hearts open while managing relationships, making what we think and feel matter more than what others want from us or think of us. This is not done by separating ourselves from them. It’s done by keeping our hearts open and determining to be the constant. We decide to be the one responsible for the love we hold for ourselves and for others no matter what they do or decide. This is not always easy.

    I can’t think of a better person to be discussing this with than my guest today. She is a woman who has declared for and made decisions to own her voice and to live a life of authenticity so that she can help others – particularly women - but men too, do the same. Just as when we declare for peace, all war breaks out to be cleared, so too does her declaration for women’s empowerment bring up all that needs to be cleared away within women, including herself. When life tests us, we can become defeated or we can realize these tests are the gateway to a life we love because we gain the skill to remain intact despite them.

    Some questions asked may be:
    1. Where have you struggled to remain intact in relationships?
    2. How do people sell their souls in relationships and play power-under?
    3. Why is it difficult for even accomplished, successful, adults (men and women) to remain intact?
    4. What are the costs of people pleasing?
    5. What are the costs of avoiding relationships altogether or engaging with authenticity?
    6. Where have you been maintaining being the constant in your life and in relationships and how does this feel?
    watch: https://youtu.be/mugEfqxiZ7Y
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    59 mins
  • Healed Women Heal the World: A Mother-Daughter Dialogue on Pain and Power

    Healed Women Heal the World: A Mother-Daughter Dialogue on Pain and Power
    Jun 4 2025
    In this intimate and insightful episode of Something to Say, Jamie Shae sits down with her daughter, Kayla Calhoun D.C. - a gifted chiropractor and natural healer - to explore the deep connection between chronic pain and emotional suppression. Together, they uncover the unspoken truths behind physical pain—how trauma, silence, and unexpressed emotion often live in the body. This mother-daughter dialogue invites us to listen to what our bodies are truly trying to say—and to reclaim healing on every level: physical, emotional, and spiritual.

    Watch https://youtu.be/9APm3zlShY0
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    28 mins