Many of us face obstacles to playfulness around sexuality and sexual experience. Today, we discuss ways to foster light hearts on a sometimes serious subject.

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From the Bible

Song of Songs - the whole book!

A cheerful heart is good medicine,
but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22

Resources

• Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Episode 25: Sex Is Funny - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Faithful Counseling by Better Help - online therapy
• Does He Make You Laugh? - Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com)
• 3 Benefits to Playing a Bedroom Game - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
• Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie | The Forgiven Wife

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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.

J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.

Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives.

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Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian marital aid and sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode.

From the Bible

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

Resources

• Episode 32: Advice for Our Newlywed Selves
• Episode 43: Dealing with Sexual Baggage
• The Bad Plan of Bartering for Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Embrace a Sexual Growth Mindset - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 25 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Faithful Counseling (online therapy with a fellow believer through Better Help)
• Episode 153: Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm
• Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns
• Orgasm Webinar - ONLY $10!

Donate to the ministry HERE.

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."

We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction going or revive it if it's been lost.

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From the Bible

My beloved is radiant and ruddy,
distinguished among ten thousand.
Song of Songs 5:10

But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.
2 Peter 3:18

Resources

• What If You Don't Find Your Husband Attractive - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• How to Boost Romantic Chemistry in Your Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Episode 70: Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)
• I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson (kevinathompson.com)

Donate to the Ministry HERE.

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.