Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunking common myths. The episode also features discussions on the financial and emotional tolls of divorce and includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It.'

Topics

00:31 Reflecting on the End of Summer

01:31 Exploring Modern Romance with Bela Ghandi

02:33 Diving into Divorce Trends

08:02 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships

11:12 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce and Beyond

21:55 Interview with Bela Ghandi Journey and Insights

30:18 Blending Love and Compatibility

30:48 Generational Perspectives on Love

31:37 Unexpected Career Paths

32:19 The Role of Chemistry in Relationships

32:48 Modern Dating Challenges

34:20 The Paradox of Choice in Online Dating

35:51 Dating During and After Divorce

39:44 Debunking Dating Myths

44:53 Psychological Insights into Dating

53:14 The Impact of Politics on Relationships

54:27 Final Thoughts and Advice

Evan interviews Kristin Kenney, CEO and founder of High Gear Advisors. Kristin shares her expertise in career negotiations, crisis resolution, and relationship management, focusing on helping high achievers who resist traditional coaching. The episode covers navigating the divorce process, with Evan and producer Dave discussing their personal experiences. Kristin offers insights on maintaining healthy relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of neuroplasticity in personal development. The episode also touches on global divorce rates, the challenges of celebrity marriages, and the value of preparation and organization in the divorce process.

Topics

00:39 Guest Introduction: Kristin Kenney

01:47 Summer and Divorce: Personal Experiences

04:15 Celebrity Divorce Insights: David Justice and Halle Berry

08:11 Global Divorce Rates: A Deep Dive

11:15 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

19:57 In-Depth with Kristin Kenney: Career Negotiations and Crisis Management

27:35 Building a New Roadmap for Success

28:15 The Art of Detachment in Negotiations

33:05 Patterns of Self-Sabotage

40:33 Defining True Success

42:28 Navigating Relationships with Different Worldviews

47:56 Quick Fixes for Relationship Improvement

51:28 They Said It: Insights from Authors

57:47 Conclusion and Contact Information

Evan returns after a brief hiatus to discuss the intricacies of the divorce process, featuring insights from Haleh Moddasser, CPA and author of 'Great Divorce Silver Linings.' They delve into the realities of late-life divorce, financial independence for women, and how to handle investments post-divorce. The episode also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce, personal growth, and the significance of financial planning. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave review TV shows that highlight divorce themes, reinforcing the episode's emphasis on handling life transitions with grace and insight.

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00:30 Summer Vibes and July 4th Celebrations

02:57 Upcoming Episode Highlights

04:05 TV Show Review: Friends and Neighbors

12:10 TV Show Review: The Four Seasons

18:52 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics

25:54 Interview with Haleh Moddasser: Women and Wealth

27:55 Challenges Women Face in Financial Advisory

28:42 Post-Divorce Financial Mindset

31:09 Creating a Financial Plan During Divorce

33:33 The Importance of Financial Planning

36:28 The Rise of Gray Divorce

39:52 Empowering Women Through Financial Independence

48:01 Generational Differences in Financial Attitudes

54:02 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.

Topics

00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast

00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz

03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective

07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It?

11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages

24:13 Stephanie's New Book

25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms

29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage

31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships

32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience

34:34 Advice for Younger Self

41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society

45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It

53:10 Conclusion and Farewell

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag.

00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery

00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview

00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy

01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes

05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships

09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce

13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment

18:18 White Lotus Discussion

21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy

23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy

24:46 Mentors and Their Impact

26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits

27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings

29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues

32:06 The True Nature of Healing

34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy

35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth

39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework

41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups

44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge

48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights

58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.

Topics

00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights

02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies

04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry

06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce

14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction

30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label

30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom

31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment

33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction

35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact

37:07 The Role of Sex Education

39:06 Pornography in Relationships

45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction

46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality

01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation

01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity divorces, and explores topics like the resurgence of vinyl records and the impact of one's career on relationships. Throughout the episode, engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It' add variety and depth to the conversation, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in love, relationships, and personal development.

Topics

00:14 Podcast Introduction and Season Overview

00:26 Discussing Divorce and Relationships

02:40 Celebrity Divorce News

06:24 TV Show Trailer Review

09:08 Impact of Careers on Relationships

13:26 Overrated or Underrated Segment

22:55 Interview with Laurie Gerber

39:01 Understanding Compatibility in Dating

39:56 Efficiently Ending a Relationship

41:27 The Six Key Compatibility Factors

45:37 Importance of Family and Political Views

50:12 Common Dating Mistakes After 50

59:46 The Role of Social Media in Dating

01:02:30 Quotes and Reflections on Love

01:10:42 Conclusion and Resources

Evan sits down with Alison Lefkowitz, professor at the New Jersey Institute of Technology and author of 'Strange Bedfellows: Marriage in the Age of Women's Liberation, Politics, and Culture in Modern America'. They discuss the historical and modern challenges of marriage laws, the shifts in gender roles, and how technology is reshaping relationships. The episode also features segments on notable cultural perspectives on relationships, as well as a fun 'Overrated or Underrated' segment covering topics from depositions to fanny packs.

Topics

00:00 Introduction to Marriage Laws and Social Safety Nets

00:58 Episode Introduction and Guest Announcement

01:10 Discussion on Marriage Law and Social Change

01:48 Weather Talk and Personal Updates

02:43 Docket Item: Divorcing Over Taylor Swift

05:07 Docket Item: Living with Post-Divorce Anger

08:58 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics

17:44 The Fanny Pack Debate

20:48 Introducing Alison Lefkovitz

22:22 The Evolution of Marriage Laws

24:01 Technology's Impact on Modern Marriages

25:23 Masculinity, Femininity, and Legal Rulings

36:30 Pop Culture and Marriage

38:49 The Future of Marriage

44:13 They Said It: Fun Segment

50:23 Conclusion and Farewell