Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.

Topics

00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast

00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz

03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective

07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It?

11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages

24:13 Stephanie's New Book

25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms

29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage

31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships

32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience

34:34 Advice for Younger Self

41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society

45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It

53:10 Conclusion and Farewell

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag.

00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery

00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview

00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy

01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes

05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships

09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce

13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment

18:18 White Lotus Discussion

21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy

23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy

24:46 Mentors and Their Impact

26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits

27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings

29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues

32:06 The True Nature of Healing

34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy

35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth

39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework

41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups

44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge

48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights

58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.

Topics

00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights

02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies

04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry

06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce

14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction

30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label

30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom

31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment

33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction

35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact

37:07 The Role of Sex Education

39:06 Pornography in Relationships

45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction

46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality

01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation

01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections