Evan returns after a brief hiatus to discuss the intricacies of the divorce process, featuring insights from Haleh Moddasser, CPA and author of 'Great Divorce Silver Linings.' They delve into the realities of late-life divorce, financial independence for women, and how to handle investments post-divorce. The episode also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce, personal growth, and the significance of financial planning. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave review TV shows that highlight divorce themes, reinforcing the episode's emphasis on handling life transitions with grace and insight.

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00:30 Summer Vibes and July 4th Celebrations

02:57 Upcoming Episode Highlights

04:05 TV Show Review: Friends and Neighbors

12:10 TV Show Review: The Four Seasons

18:52 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics

25:54 Interview with Haleh Moddasser: Women and Wealth

27:55 Challenges Women Face in Financial Advisory

28:42 Post-Divorce Financial Mindset

31:09 Creating a Financial Plan During Divorce

33:33 The Importance of Financial Planning

36:28 The Rise of Gray Divorce

39:52 Empowering Women Through Financial Independence

48:01 Generational Differences in Financial Attitudes

54:02 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.

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00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast

00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz

03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective

07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It?

11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages

24:13 Stephanie's New Book

25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms

29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage

31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships

32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience

34:34 Advice for Younger Self

41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society

45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It

53:10 Conclusion and Farewell

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag.

00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery

00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview

00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy

01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes

05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships

09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce

13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment

18:18 White Lotus Discussion

21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy

23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy

24:46 Mentors and Their Impact

26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits

27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings

29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues

32:06 The True Nature of Healing

34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy

35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth

39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework

41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups

44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge

48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights

58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts