Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.

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00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast

00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz

03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective

07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It?

11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics

24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages

24:13 Stephanie's New Book

25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms

29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage

31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships

32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience

34:34 Advice for Younger Self

41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society

45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It

53:10 Conclusion and Farewell