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Rocking It with Chrys and Shellie

Rocking It with Chrys and Shellie

By: Chrys Howard and Shellie Tomlinson
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Summary
 Many times parents can’t “see the trees” because the forest is overwhelming. Can I get an AMEN? Each week, Chrys and Shellie, seasoned moms and grandmas, help listeners see life lessons in the simple events that happen daily. If you could use some Godly parenting wisdom, encouragement and inspiration, along with some fun, real life stories, this podcast is for you! Parenting & Families Relationships Spirituality
Episodes
  • Two Sisters, One Tragedy, and a Ministry of Hope

    Two Sisters, One Tragedy, and a Ministry of Hope
    Nov 12 2026
    Nearly 35 years ago, two young sisters experienced a tragedy that changed their lives forever. Their mother was murdered, and their father was sent to prison for her death. Chrys knew these girls personally. They grew up in her church youth group, where she had the privilege of being one of their youth leaders. She watched them navigate unimaginable loss, the challenges of adolescence, and the difficult journey of finding their way. In Part One of this powerful conversation, we talk about childhood memories, grief, the bond between sisters, and the importance of having people who continue to show up and love you, even through the hardest seasons. For every parent, grandparent, youth leader, or friend who has ever wondered whether their love and presence really make a difference, this conversation is a beautiful reminder that they do. Rocking It with Chrys and Shellie is now streaming on EKKL. Get every new episode ad-free, and get 20% off with code ROCKINGIT: ⁠⁠https://ekkl.com/⁠⁠ Sometimes the greatest gift we can give someone who is hurting is simply refusing to stop loving them. Join us for Part One of this remarkable story of heartbreak, faith, and hope. In this episode, we talk about: Navigating unimaginable loss as children Growing up with grief and unanswered questions How two sisters processed the same tragedy differently The importance of a loving church family Why showing up for children during difficult seasons matters Finding your way when life doesn't go as planned A question to consider: Is there a young person in your life who needs you to keep showing up, loving them, and believing in them—even when the road gets difficult? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    38 mins
  • No We’re Too Old for This!

    No We’re Too Old for This!
    Nov 5 2026
    At some point, we realize we’re too old to keep worrying about everything we used to worry about. In this episode, Chrys and Shellie share a lighthearted, honest list of things they’re learning to let go of—from worrying about what everybody thinks to trying to keep a perfectly clean house. They talk about imperfect pictures, people-pleasing, keeping up with trends, proving they’re right, fixing everyone’s problems, and feeling guilty about resting. They also discuss using the “good” dishes, asking questions instead of pretending to understand, setting healthy boundaries, and why some things—like fruit flies—are simply unacceptable at any age. This conversation is full of laughter, personal stories, and encouragement to stop carrying unnecessary pressure and enjoy the freedom that comes with growing older and wiser. Rocking It is now streaming on EKKL. Get every new episode ad-free, and get 20% off with code ROCKINGIT: ⁠⁠⁠https://ekkl.com/⁠ In this episode, we discuss: ● Worrying about what other people think and remembering that most people aren’t watching us as closely as we imagine. ● Letting go of the expectation that our homes must be perfectly clean before people come over. ● Accepting that not every picture will be flattering—and learning to laugh, delete, and move on. ● Saying yes out of fear of disappointing someone. ● Keeping up with every new trend and waiting for the things we already own to come back around. ● Choosing not to enter every conversation or prove that we’re right. ● Releasing the impossible responsibility of fixing everybody’s problems. ● Learning to rest without feeling guilty. ● Using the “good” dishes and clothes instead of saving everything for someday. ● Not worrying about looking silly—or simply choosing not to do things that make us feel silly. ● Asking questions instead of pretending to know what someone is talking about. ● Loving people without giving everyone unlimited access to our lives. ● Why we are absolutely too old for fruit flies. A thought to carry with you: Growing older can mean letting go of unnecessary pressure, choosing peace over appearances, and giving ourselves permission to live with more freedom, honesty, and laughter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    33 mins
  • The Believer’s Birthmarks: Believing, Loving, and Obeying

    The Believer’s Birthmarks: Believing, Loving, and Obeying
    Oct 29 2026
    What does it look like to belong to God? According to 1 John, there are marks that begin to show up in His children—and they touch our minds, our hearts, and our choices. In this episode of Rocking It with Chrys and Shellie—the grandmas you didn’t know you needed, we open 1 John 5 to explore what Shellie calls “the believer’s birthmarks”: biblical believing, overflowing love, and eager obedience. With a simple illustration about a chair, we talk about the difference between agreeing that Jesus is trustworthy and actually entrusting ourselves to Him. We also explore how our beliefs shape what we love, how love influences our choices, and how those choices become visible in everyday life. And because visible people can sometimes get on our last nerve, we get honest about what it means to love God by loving His children! This conversation offers a practical spiritual checkup rooted in God’s Word. These birthmarks aren’t a checklist for earning God’s love or a demand for perfection. They describe the growing evidence of a life that belongs to Him. In this episode, we discuss: ● The three birthmarks: believing, loving, and obeying. ● Moving from knowing facts about Jesus to trusting Him. ● Jesus as the promised Prophet, Priest, and King. ● Examining our beliefs, relationships, and choices when we feel spiritually distant. ● Loving people when it’s difficult. ● Finding assurance in John’s words: “so that you may know that you have eternal life.” Questions to carry into your week: What am I believing? Who am I loving? Where am I obeying? Scriptures discussed: 1 John 5, especially verses 1 and 13; Matthew 22:37; James 2:19. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    30 mins
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