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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for children to discuss difficult topics. She discusses the need for parents to listen actively and engage in conversations about issues like social media safety and human trafficking from an early age. By establishing a foundation of trust and open communication, parents can help their children navigate sensitive subjects more effectively.

takeaways

• Provide a safe space for conversations.
• Listen to what your kids care about.
• Your reaction matters when they share difficult things.
• Create opportunities for communication in comfortable ways.
• Start conversations about tough topics early and often.
• Engage in discussions about social media safety.
• Talk about consent and trustworthy individuals.
• Be available for your children when they want to talk.
• Don't make scary topics scarier than they are.
• Establish a foundation of trust for open dialogue.

Sound Bites

• "We need to provide a safe space."
• "Start those conversations so early."
• "It's not a one and done conversation."

Chapters

00:00
Creating a Safe Space for Conversations

09:27
The Importance of Early Conversations

12:55
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this episode, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders delve into the concept of 'sharenting'—the act of parents sharing information and images of their children online. They discuss the implications of this practice, including the risks of digital footprints, identity theft, and digital kidnapping. The conversation emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, obtaining consent, and being mindful of the potential repercussions of sharing personal information about children on social media. The hosts encourage parents to reflect on their sharing habits and consider the long-term effects on their children's privacy and safety.

takeaways

• Sharenting refers to sharing your kids online.
• Many parents are unaware of the risks associated with sharenting.
• Children do not have a say in what is shared about them.
• Digital footprints can lead to identity theft.
• Digital kidnapping is a real concern.
• 92% of children have an online presence by age two.
• Parents often share too much personal information.
• Setting boundaries around sharing is crucial.
• Consent from children should be prioritized.
• Social media should not be treated as a private journal.

Sound Bites

• "Kids don't understand the internet."
• "Children are full people, not objects."
• "I'd rather be paranoid than sorry."

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Sharenting

02:44
Understanding the Risks of Sharenting

05:12
The Impact of Digital Footprint on Children

08:12
Digital Kidnapping and Its Implications

11:11
Privacy Concerns in Sharing Children's Information

13:51
Setting Boundaries for Sharing

16:45
The Role of Intentions in Sharing

19:59
Navigating Consent and Family Dynamics

22:53
Final Thoughts on Responsible Sharing

35:08
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

https://setmefreeproject.net

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders delve into the complexities of addiction, exploring not only traditional substance abuse but also behavioral addictions like food and technology. They discuss the societal perceptions of alcoholism, the importance of recognizing signs of addiction, and the critical role of support systems in recovery. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in discussions about addiction, highlighting personal stories and the journey towards healing.

takeaways

• Addiction can manifest in various forms, not just substances.
• Alcoholism is often normalized in society, making it harder to recognize as a problem.
• Daily habits can lead to addiction, even without a genetic predisposition.
• Support systems are crucial for those struggling with addiction.
• Self-awareness is key in recognizing personal addictions.
• It's important to seek help and talk to trusted individuals about addiction.
• Compassion is necessary when discussing addiction with others.
• Everyone has their own struggles, and what may not affect one person can deeply impact another.
• Recovery is a complete life change that requires support and understanding.
• There is no shame in asking for help regarding addiction.

Sound Bites

• "I've never been addicted to anything."
• "It's a complete life change."
• "There's no shame in asking for help."

Chapters

00:00
Understanding Addiction Beyond Substances

03:10
Personal Experiences with Alcoholism

06:19
Defining Addiction: Signs and Symptoms

09:27
Seeking Help and Support for Addictions

12:13
Navigating Addictions We Can't Avoid

15:08
The Social Dynamics of Addiction

17:59
Empathy and Understanding in Addiction Conversations

20:56
Real-Life Stories and Peer Pressure in Recovery

26:32
The Challenge of Sobriety

27:50
Life Changes and Support in Recovery

29:10
Understanding Addiction and Accountability

30:45
The Impact of Addiction on Relationships

34:01
The Role of Enablers in Addiction

36:24
Gratitude and Reflection on Sobriety

38:59
Self-Awareness and Seeking Help

43:05
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

https://setmefreeproject.net

https://www.stephanieolson.com/

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders delve into the pressing issue of the sexualization of children in today's society. They explore various aspects, including the impact of dance competitions, the concept of victim blaming, the importance of dress codes, and the role of social media in shaping youth culture. The discussion emphasizes the need for age-appropriate conversations about sexuality, the influence of clothing choices on perception, and the pressure of societal expectations. Ultimately, they advocate for positive role models and the importance of self-acceptance in combating the negative effects of sexualization.

takeaways

• The sexualization of children is a growing concern in society.
• Innocence is lost at a younger age due to societal pressures.
• Parents must consider the implications of their children's clothing choices.
• Victim blaming is a harmful mindset that needs to be addressed.
• Dress codes can play a role in shaping youth behavior and perception.
• Open conversations about sexuality should start early and be age-appropriate.
• Social media significantly influences how youth perceive themselves and others.
• The pressure to conform to societal standards can lead to negative self-image.
• Teaching children about their intrinsic value is crucial.
• Positive role models can help counteract the effects of sexualization.

Sound Bites

• "What is mom thinking?"
• "Victim blaming is not okay."
• "It's about power and control."

Chapters

00:00
The Sexualization of Children: An Overview

07:20
Victim Blaming and Its Implications

13:25
Dress Codes and Professionalism in Youth Settings

20:33
Navigating Conversations About Sex with Youth

27:29
Finding Balance: Age-Appropriate Discussions and Dress

29:16
The Importance of Research in Job Interviews

31:33
Appropriateness in Dress for Interviews

33:56
Teaching Youth About Self-Respect and Intelligence

36:04
The Impact of Fashion on Self-Image

40:07
The Shift in Social Norms and Dress Codes

41:29
The Changing Landscape of Youth Independence

42:54
Modeling Positive Behavior for Youth

46:02
The Societal Obsession with Youth and Beauty

48:57
The Connection Between Sexualization and Violence

50:44
Letting Children Be Children

52:23
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

https://setmefreeproject.net

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders discuss the complexities of nonprofit organizations, focusing on how to evaluate their effectiveness, the importance of transparency in funding, and the misconceptions surrounding nonprofit salaries and profits. They emphasize the need for nonprofits to diversify their income sources and the challenges they face in a fluctuating economic environment. The discussion encourages listeners to ask questions and engage with nonprofits to better understand their operations and impact.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Nonprofit Conversations

01:21
Evaluating Nonprofit Effectiveness

06:54
Understanding Nonprofit Funding and Administration

12:21
The Misconceptions of Nonprofit Salaries

18:22
The Importance of Diversifying Nonprofit Income

23:36
Challenges Faced by Nonprofits

28:24
The Future of Nonprofits and Community Support

30:50
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this powerful follow-up episode, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders dive into the messy intersection of privacy, parenting, and social media. From family vlogging to the addictive nature of online platforms, they unpack the long-term consequences of what we choose to share—especially when it involves our children.

The conversation explores generational differences in how we use social media, the challenges of true consent from minors, and the haunting permanence of digital content—highlighted by Nyla Ray’s post-OnlyFans experience. They also discuss the Coldplay CEO scandal as a cautionary tale on integrity in the digital age.

Whether you're a parent, educator, or social media user, this episode challenges you to think critically about your digital footprint and how we can prioritize integrity over likes.

Topics Covered:

• Family vlogging and child privacy
• Digital consent and generational norms
• The permanence of online content
• Social media addiction and dopamine hits
• Integrity, accountability, and policy
• Real-life examples from Nyla Ray and Coldplay’s CEO
• Creating informed and ethical social media habits

Takeaway:
What we post matters—maybe more than we think. And when it comes to kids, consent, and content, the best rule may be: if in doubt, leave it out.

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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The conversation examines the implications of a viral incident involving a CEO and a public display of affection at a Coldplay concert, sparking discussions on privacy, social media ethics, public apologies, and the human impact of viral content. The hosts reflect on the consequences of public actions, the nature of accountability, and the role of humor in navigating uncomfortable situations, ultimately emphasizing the importance of empathy in the age of social media.

takeaways

• The incident highlights the blurred lines between public and private life in the age of social media.
• Public apologies often come after being caught, raising questions about sincerity.
• Social media can amplify personal mistakes, affecting not just individuals but their families and companies.
• Humor can be a natural response to awkward situations, but it can also be insensitive.
• The consequences of actions can extend beyond the individual to their professional life.
• Privacy is increasingly difficult to maintain in a world where everyone has a camera.
• Viral content can dehumanize individuals, reducing them to entertainment.
• Empathy is crucial when discussing the lives of those affected by viral incidents.
• The conversation about social media ethics is complex and multifaceted.
• Understanding the human element behind viral stories is essential for meaningful dialogue.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to the Viral Incident

03:13
The Impact of Social Media on Privacy

06:15
Public Apologies and Accountability

07:56
The Ethics of Sharing Personal Moments

11:06
The Role of Humor in Awkward Situations

13:42
Navigating Professional Consequences

16:52
The Dangers of Dehumanization on Social Media

19:52
The Responsibility of Posting About Others

22:55
The Intersection of Personal and Professional Life

26:04
Conclusion and Reflection on Social Media Use

30:15
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

https://setmefreeproject.net

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders discuss the competitive nature of the nonprofit sector, particularly in the realm of human trafficking prevention. They explore the challenges of collaboration versus competition, the importance of trauma-informed care, and the need for nonprofits to specialize in their areas of expertise. The discussion highlights the emotional toll of competition and emphasizes the importance of collaboration in creating a greater impact in the community.

takeaways

• Nonprofits often face unexpected competition rather than collaboration.
• The nonprofit sector can be as cutthroat as the corporate world.
• Collaboration is essential for effective service delivery.
• Trauma-informed care is crucial in nonprofit work.
• Not all organizations are equally effective or trained.
• The hero mindset can hinder effective service delivery.
• Organizations should focus on their strengths and collaborate with others.
• Learning from each other is vital for growth in the nonprofit sector.
• Specialization allows nonprofits to excel in their missions.
• The emotional toll of competition can detract from the mission.

Sound Bites

• "It's about who gets the glory."
• "Not all organizations are equal."
• "We need to stop being competitive."

Chapters

00:00
The Competitive Landscape of Nonprofits

02:59
Collaboration vs. Competition in Nonprofit Work

06:13
The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care

09:06
Assessing Nonprofit Effectiveness

11:52
The Need for Specialization in Nonprofit Work

14:50
Learning and Growing Together

18:38
The Role of Collaboration in Addressing Human Trafficking

21:40
Closing Thoughts on Nonprofit Dynamics

30:39
R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

https://setmefreeproject.net

https://www.stephanieolson.com/