• 259th Date: We Gonna Get You A Date!
    Aug 18 2025
    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf Hold onto your headphones—this episode is pure chaos in the best way possible! Yusuf and Vanetta are joined again by TikTok Influencer Sha (@KayBee312404). They get hilariously real about the trials and tribulations of dating in 2025: from guarding yourself on social media to deciphering if that “super duper nice-looking dude” is genuinely interested or just flirting with everybody. Expect laugh-out-loud stories, awkward dating moments, and honest takes on why sometimes your Amazon delivery guy is the most faithful man in your life. But it doesn’t stop there...things take a wild turn when the crew decides to set up a real-life dating adventure for Sha! That’s right: they’re calling on listeners to step up, fill out a Google form, and compete for a chance to go on a fully sponsored date with Sha, all while being recorded for posterity (and maximum hilarity). There’s a chaperone, there’s video, there’s humor, and there’s a lot of “what did I just agree to?” energy. If you’ve ever wondered what happens when friendship, love, and podcast antics collide, this episode delivers in spades. Warning: you may laugh, cringe, and immediately want to sign up for Shay’s dating adventure yourself. To compete for a chance to go on a date with Sha, fill out this form: https://forms.gle/RfvSFhBvuJjv6Hq2A Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, Review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rate Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMWW9z1qPmUgTTeOtzqehmA Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/ Vanetta: https://www.instagram.com/vlive_baby/?igsh=cmhjcDl5NjNneDR0# Check out CRUX Media Group @cruxmediagroupspods on IG to check out some other awesome podcasts. Chapters (00:00:00) - "I Put On White Lace Lingerie"(00:00:45) - Relationship Status(00:01:17) - Jimmy Kimmel on His Period(00:03:44) - Johnny Gill on The Great Food Truck Race (Season 18)(00:06:47) - B. Simone on Her Week(00:09:21) - The Dentist Who Rescheduled His Appointment Due to a(00:12:47) - What Is A Love Story's Movie Genre?(00:14:37) - Doc Gets Married(00:17:26) - Do You Want Your Wedding To Be A Courtroom?(00:19:18) - V and Her(00:23:10) - Married People Talk About Infidelity(00:26:33) - On Advice For Marriage(00:29:52) - Shay Factor: Choosing Your Mate vs Falling in Love(00:31:44) - Is Marcus Good Enough For You? vs. Julius(00:35:26) - "A lot of Women Marry For Security"(00:37:47) - How Many Men Would You Have Chopped?(00:42:05) - "A Marriage Is About Serving The Other Person"(00:42:46) - "I Don't Want A watered-down Version Of My Love(00:46:33) - "I Won't Conform To My Man"(00:48:34) - "It's Your Relationship"(00:52:20) - "No Long Text, No Fake Braids"(00:53:37) - Guys Put On Lingerie For Their Women(00:56:59) - "Baby" Is Ridiculous(00:57:50) - How Many Women Have You Loved?(01:01:05) - Are You Open To Meeting The Right Guy?(01:05:35) - I Think We Should Do This... In Dating My Girl Shay(01:08:52) - How To Win The 9th Wonder Scholarship(01:09:30) - Relationship Status Podcast
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • 258th Date: Flying Out To Sit On Wood
    Aug 11 2025

    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf

    Today the team is joined by Sha who bringa very fresh perspective so, buckle up for this wild ride! Our listener’s been chillin’ in a 3-year relationship — got a pet, future talks, the whole vibe — then outta nowhere, his girl hits him with “I feel free,” starts packing like she’s moving out for real, and wants to block him… but claims she ain’t leaving? Say what now?! Our crew dives in, dropping savage truths, calling out the obvious “she’s got somebody else” vibes, and giving zero chill about those disappearing clothes. We keep it 100 — sometimes you gotta tell your boo, “Pack up, bye!” but also throw in some real talk about heartbreak and spotting those sneaky signs. It’s got jokes, it’s got feels, and yeah, a little Cosby Show nostalgia for flavor. Whether you’re here for the laughs or the messy relationship tea, we got you. Hit play and let’s get into it!

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • 257th Date: I Know Exactly What I Want.......And I Ain’t Settling!
    Aug 4 2025
    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf Get ready to laugh, relate, and maybe even say, “Yup, same!” in this episode of Relationship Status with Yousef and Vanetta. Vanetta drops truth bombs about dating (or not dating) in her 40s — spoiler alert: she’s not out here swiping right on just anybody, even if there are “too many motherfuckers interested.” She’s got standards, prayer, and a healthy dose of “nah, that ain’t me” vibes. They also break down the wild world of social media — Snapchat vs. Instagram drama included — because who knew posting memes and ignoring people’s lives could be a full-time job? Plus, Vanetta gets real about how Kevin Samuels’ no-nonsense takes might just be the tough love we all need, even if it stings a little. If you’re single, dating, or just tired of people telling you to “settle down already,” this episode’s for you. Expect real talk, belly laughs, and a fresh perspective on relationships served with a side of sass. Oh, and don’t forget to follow Vanetta on Insta @vlive_baby — because you definitely want to see what she’s really saying when the mics are off. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, Review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rate Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL03ncwfFDp07TZWgwumSXy2S0A-8y2iW4 Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/ Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/ Check out CRUX Media Group @cruxmediagroupspods on IG to check out some other awesome podcasts. Chapters (00:00:00) - Tell Me The Truth(00:00:49) - Yousef Announces His Love Interest(00:01:13) - A New Co-Host on The Ellen(00:01:32) - Meet Single Oprah: What's Your Relationship Status?(00:02:23) - What's A Non-Negotiable In A Relationship? Abuse(00:06:09) - 7 Rules For A Good Relationship(00:07:59) - What's Your Communication Style When You're Upset?(00:10:03) - "My Man, My Man, my Man"(00:11:36) - Chris Brown On His Best Relationship Advice(00:12:19) - What Does Being Seen In A Relationship Mean To You?(00:13:14) - Can a Relationship Survive Without Verbal Remarks?(00:16:46) - How To Love Your Partner (Love Languages Quiz(00:19:02) - What Is It That People Would Be Surprised To Know About(00:22:24) - Tell Me The Truth(00:23:53) - Be loved MORE Than You Love(00:24:05) - Is It Either Or With A Relationship?(00:26:41) - Stay for the Kids or Leave(00:29:36) - Is It Bad if Your Partner Is Best Friends With His Ex-(00:33:45) - "Stop Taking Me For Granted"(00:37:46) - Don't Take Advantage of Your Relationships(00:42:07) - "Don't Take People For Granted"(00:42:59) - What Is Intimacy?(00:44:21) - Marriage 1, Emotional Intimacy(00:47:39) - "I don't know why women do this"(00:48:01) - What Do You Want To Do About An Argument?(00:51:04) - "If I'm Happy, Does He Feel Happy?"(00:54:02) - What I Learned From A Friend's Death(00:58:38) - Joey on Being Too Emotional For Relationships(01:01:39) - How To Heal From A Relationship(01:05:44) - What It's Like To Date After Your Marriage(01:08:50) - V LiveBaby Is Here!!(01:11:22) - Relationship Status: Holding Women Accountable
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 256th Date: Date Your Wife and Forget She Almost Cheated
    Jul 28 2025

    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, & Yusuf

    In this spicy and slightly messy episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf and Fraronda unpack a letter from a listener who’s got way more than just marital drama.....think emotional cheating, overbearing in-laws, and a 19-year-old co-worker who apparently gives out hugs with a little too much eye contact.

    Is emotional cheating still cheating? Did she actually sleep with the dude? And why are her parents living in the house, running the marriage like it’s their own reality show?

    Yusuf's ready to call in Judge Judy, while Fraronda’s all about therapy and deep convos — if the couple can ever get five minutes alone without Mom and Dad chiming in from the other room. The hosts don’t hold back as they debate emotional boundaries, romantic rebounds, and whether "almost cheating" is just cheating with extra steps.

    Throw in some hilarious listener advice (shoutout to Aunt Pat, who’s ready to hand over the house and dip) and you've got a wild ride through the world of love, mistakes, and parents who don’t know when to butt out.

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    Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - "Women Depreciate In Value"
    • (00:01:29) - Relationship Status
    • (00:02:24) - Men Describe Their Relationships Using Sports Terms
    • (00:05:34) - His Wife Is Clutch
    • (00:07:26) - Domestic Violence 1
    • (00:11:16) - Married Men Talk About Women
    • (00:14:46) - "You Laugh At Women Gaining Weight!"
    • (00:15:01) - How To Talk To Your Girlfriend About Her Weight
    • (00:19:38) - In Which I Think He Thought About Cheating
    • (00:20:36) - I Would Eat My Own Body For Your Number
    • (00:25:02) - Megan's Look Before She Married Jonathan Majors
    • (00:26:36) - How To Process A 29 Year Old Wife's Confession
    • (00:31:55) - He Should Have Just Left The Marriage In The Trash
    • (00:34:43) - What's Worse Than Cheating?
    • (00:39:22) - Should Parents Be Involved In My Marriage?
    • (00:41:28) - Relationship Status Podcast
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    43 mins
  • 255th Date: Therapy, Tears, and Netflix Binge
    Jul 21 2025
    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, & Yusuf Grab your tissues, and maybe some popcorn, because this episode of Relationship Status Podcast is a wild ride through the chaos of first loves! Yusuf and Fraronda get real about those awkward, messy, and sometimes downright ridiculous moments that come with young relationships. From prom drama (who forgets to return a $300 dress?!) to unprotected poolside adventures that definitely weren’t planned traps, they unpack all the cringe and confusion with plenty of laughs. Ever felt like you lost yourself in a relationship? Yeah, they’ve been there, abandoning goals, ghosting friends, and adopting weird hobbies just to keep the peace. And don’t worry, Yusuf’s got his classic “man up” takes ready to roast everyone. So buckle up for honest talks, gaslighting confessions, and some brutally funny insights on what your first love really taught you (besides how to dodge heartbreak). Plus, a sneak peek at Patreon swag, shoutouts that might or might not embarrass some folks, and enough sass to keep you hooked. Warning: Listening might cause nostalgia, secondhand embarrassment, and sudden urges to text your ex. Tune in! Don’t forget to follow us on all social platforms @relstatpodcast and join the Relationship Status Advice Group on Facebook! Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, Review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rate Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL03ncwfFDp07TZWgwumSXy2S0A-8y2iW4 Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/ Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/ Check out CRUX Media Group @cruxmediagroupspods on IG to check out some other awesome podcasts. Chapters (00:00:00) - Andy Byron And Kristen Cabot Get Caught Cheating(00:01:51) - Relationship Status(00:02:08) - He Accidentally Sent A Good Night Baby Text To Someone Else(00:05:05) - Relationship Status: My New York Trip(00:08:03) - Married Man Plans to Visit New York for Surgery(00:11:38) - Walk The Brooklyn Bridge In NYC(00:14:07) - Chinatown Food Tour(00:17:00) - "I Can't Ride An Uber For Hours"(00:17:20) - Netflix Drama: 10 Out of 10(00:21:08) - The Real Story Of First Love(00:27:11) - How I Learned From My First Love Experience(00:32:37) - What Shamika Did For Me(00:37:59) - Justin and Keisha's Relationship(00:40:21) - Justin In 'Coming soon': The Drama(00:44:15) - "Don't Get In A Relationship in High School"(00:48:51) - The Real Story Behind Keisha's Story(00:52:23) - He Tried To Trap The Girl(00:55:04) - What Did He Do To Her?(00:57:20) - Keisha On Codependency(01:01:56) - He Said She Should've Been Blocked(01:05:07) - What Did Your First Love Teach You?
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • 254th Date: Karma Moves Faster Than FedEx
    Jul 15 2025

    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Khori, & Yusuf

    This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Gaylord Fockerer (yes, that Gaylord) break down one of the wildest relationship stories to ever hit the group chat. A woman asks for a “break” to fight temptation, gets dumped, walks into a spider web, quits her job, and is SHOCKED when her man moves on. Girl, is it crack?!

    We’re talking:

    • The difference between a break and a breakup (spoiler: one ends in a gas bill).

    • Why comparing yourself to Instagram models is hazardous to your healing.

    • “Rich Zaddy” and the dangers of transactional love.

    • The horizontal hokey pokey and its lasting consequences.

    • Spider Gwen, Charlotte’s Web, and how NOT to quit your job.

    Plus, we crown some of the most savage listener comments, including the now-iconic: “A wet coochie and an empty purse don’t make no sense.”

    And don’t forget: first person to email us where the name Gaylord Focker comes from wins a free t-shirt AND a gas card—because we support good decisions and full tanks.

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    Tune in, laugh hard, and remember: karma moves faster than FedEx.

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    Chapters
    • (00:00:01) - Ben Stiller on The Devil's Tomb
    • (00:01:46) - Faronda Gaylord Focker On Relationship Status
    • (00:04:39) - Allergic To Fruit? By Growing Your Own
    • (00:08:01) - Shop Your Own Wardrobe
    • (00:08:15) - Forgiveness Does Not Mean Access To My Phone
    • (00:11:44) - Forgiveness Is Not Access
    • (00:14:35) - I Found My 38-Year-Old Husband On Tinder
    • (00:16:48) - He Did This
    • (00:19:45) - Married Woman on Her Ex-husband's Cheating
    • (00:22:37) - Is It Okay For You To Set Your Age On Tinder?
    • (00:24:12) - He Already Was Cheating On Her
    • (00:27:23) - I Asked My Man To Break Up With Me
    • (00:31:19) - He Said You Were Sauteed Once
    • (00:34:09) - Relationship Status: When Charlotte Went Blind
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    38 mins
  • 253rd Date: When Your Life is a Domino Effect of Bad Decisions
    Jun 27 2025
    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Khori, & Yusuf Yusuf and Fraronda are back with another episode packed with real talk, deep feels, and just enough laughs to keep you from ugly crying (well, maybe). Inspired by a poem that basically says “we’re all just five bucks away from asking for fries,” they get into how life can flip on a dime — and how mental health, bad days, and tough choices sneak up on everyone. They break down the movie Straw (spoiler: it’s heavy), but don’t worry, they sprinkle in some jokes about being totally done with school drama and daycare nonsense. Then they jump into The Pursuit of Happyness, because who doesn’t love a dad trying to keep his kid safe while living like it’s an episode of Survivor? Bonus points for the heartbreaking lipstick moment that got them all choked up. If you thought this was just a serious vibe, nah — these two keep it real with some hilarious “what I would’ve done” moments (spoiler: probably more yelling and a lot less patience). And heads up — next episode they’re diving into Forever, so buckle up for more feels, laughs, and probably some more weird analogies. So grab your favorite drink (fries optional) and join Yusuf and Fraronda for the kind of chat that makes you think, cry, and laugh all at once. Don’t forget to follow us on all social platforms @relstatpodcast and join the Relationship Status Advice Group on Facebook! Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, Review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rate Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL03ncwfFDp07TZWgwumSXy2S0A-8y2iW4 Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/ Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/ Check out CRUX Media Group @cruxmediagroupspods on IG to check out some other awesome podcasts. Chapters (00:00:00) - DRAMA: We're Back(00:01:47) - Ladies Describe Their Relationships Using Self-Care Terms(00:05:21) - "I gotta Get With The Men..."(00:06:02) - Tyler Perry On The Madea Drama(00:09:58) - Deval Ellis on His Comedian Face(00:10:29) - Spoilers for 'The Dark Knight'(00:13:07) - Tyler Perry's '(00:16:25) - Teacher on 'Sergeant Whatever'(00:20:01) - Child Abuse Case: Colonel Taylor Was Also a Pimp(00:23:54) - She gets in a car accident(00:25:58) - How A Racist Got Out Of Jail(00:29:02) - They Came to Rob the Grocery Store(00:30:34) - Colonel Taylor Blames The Bank Teller For Not Cashing(00:34:28) - Robber Uses a Gun to Pass a Check(00:35:42) - Immobilization of Threatened People(00:38:44) - What Happens When a Strong Black Woman Crumbles?(00:43:04) - Janaya On The Need For Help(00:46:51) - Black Women on Being Independent(00:52:12) - Invisible Systems of Our Country(00:58:39) - Everyone Is Only $5 Away From Saying, Hey, Brother,(01:04:41) - What Part of Forever Made Me Cry?(01:07:32) - Will Smith in 'Took Your Boy Out'(01:10:55) - Relationship Status: When You Should Have Called the Police
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 252nd Date: Can You Admit You NEED Therapy?
    May 26 2025
    Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Khori, & Yusuf Imagine this: Your partner’s best friend starts acting like they’re auditioning for a rom-com... and you’re stuck playing the jealous, confused sidekick. Yeah, it’s THAT kind of episode. On this week’s Relationship Status, we dive headfirst into the wild world of “Who’s crossing the line?” and “How many hugs did I NOT get as a kid?” We break down the unspoken “male best friend goes missing” rule (yep, it’s a thing), and why sometimes the best way to handle your feelings is... therapy. Because, let’s be honest, $80 a week to unpack all your emotional baggage? Sounds cheaper than a breakup! Plus, we get real about love languages, awkward childhood love deficits (hug anyone?), and why showing feelings feels like trying to do cardio when you’d rather nap. Spoiler alert: Everyone needs therapy. Yes, even you. So buckle up for some hilarious truths, awkward confessions, and a whole lot of “OMG, same!” moments. If your relationship ever made you say, “Wait, what just happened?” — this episode is your new best friend. Popcorn recommended. Side-eyes from your partner optional. Tune in for the laughs, stay for the insight. Don’t forget to follow us on all social platforms @relstatpodcast and join the Relationship Status Advice Group on Facebook! Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, Review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rate Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL03ncwfFDp07TZWgwumSXy2S0A-8y2iW4 Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/ Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/ Check out CRUX Media Group @cruxmediagroupspods on IG to check out some other awesome podcasts. Chapters (00:00:00) - Talking to myself About My Texting(00:00:49) - Welcome Back to Relationship Status!(00:02:20) - How To Tell When Someone's Really Changed(00:06:35) - "He Used To Cheat On His Girlfriends"(00:09:44) - "Gossiping" About My Sister's Ex-husband(00:11:37) - How To Talk About Your Past With A Guy(00:14:36) - "That's Where All The Conversation Happens"(00:14:59) - Is It Too Soon To Ask Sex Questions On A Date?(00:19:11) - He Tried To Touch Her Hand(00:22:38) - What I Wish I Knew About That Guy In Walmart(00:26:25) - How Many Times A Week Does He Try To Talk To Women?(00:28:52) - How do you feel about affirmative action?(00:29:08) - He's Already Changed(00:30:53) - Can You Change When You're 40?(00:33:30) - "Are You 100% healed?"(00:37:05) - One Ex-Married Man Says He Should've Stopped Talking(00:41:50) - Married People Need Couples Therapy(00:44:57) - How To Get Out Of A Relationship With Your Past(00:48:20) - Ysef on Relationships(00:51:04) - How To Get Out Of A Relationship(00:54:16) - Binging on Netflix(00:55:33) - Does My Ex Need Therapy?(00:58:20) - "Why Can't I Adjust To My Love?"(01:01:06) - single parent on dating again(01:03:51) - Best Friend Confesses They Love Their Partner(01:07:46) - What Would You Do If Your Best Friend Tried To Talk To(01:10:40) - "I Think I Need Therapy"(01:12:45) - "It's A Defense Mode"(01:14:07) - Relationship Status: What I Learned Today
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    1 hr and 17 mins