• Unmasking the Narcissist: A Deep Dive into a Complex Disorder
    Aug 29 2023

    Welcome, podcast listeners, to a journey into the complex world of narcissistic personality disorder. Join us, Hope Adams and Dre Valentine, as we peel back the layers of this often misunderstood disorder, sharing our personal experiences to shed light on the common symptoms and how they manifest. Brace yourselves to gain insights into the world of narcissists, their inflated sense of self-importance, uncanny ability to manipulate, and the stark contrast between their façades and true personalities.

    We continue our deep dive by addressing the challenging topic of narcissistic abuse. Witness the intricacies of this subject, often camouflaged by the narcissist's skill in exploiting vulnerabilities and constructing facades. We share tales of escape and the odyssey to rediscover oneself post-relationship. While we recognize the role of professional therapy, we also stress that it's not always the sole solution. 

    As the episode unfolds, we explore the impact of narcissistic personality disorder on relationships. Listen as we delve into the cunning tactics narcissists employ to manipulate and control, and the long-term fallout for those unfortunate to be entangled in their web. We also offer strategies for self-protection, arming you with the knowledge to recognize and navigate such interactions. Get ready for a candid conversation peppered with humor and personal anecdotes, as we aim to empower you with the tools to understand and deal with narcissism.

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    29 mins
  • Conquering Anxiety and Panic Attacks: Strategies Beyond Medication
    Aug 22 2023

    Looking to conquer your anxiety and panic attacks without resorting to medication? We've got you covered! Join us, Hope Adams and Dre Valentine, as we share some incredible techniques that are sure to help you manage those debilitating moments of panic. Discover the power of engaging your brain's logical side through puzzles, crosswords, and strategy games, and how something as simple as counting can be a game changer in resetting your brain during a panic attack.

    Anxiety comes in different forms and is experienced differently by everyone. We delve into the various types of anxiety and paint a vivid picture of what a panic attack really looks like. We're also addressing the disconcerting feeling of disconnection from reality that often comes with anxiety. We'll reveal why it's so essential to create routines and environments that help you manage these struggles - and don't worry, this all comes without the mention of medication! The power to communicate about anxiety and its associated struggles is vital, and we're here to start that conversation.

    But wait, there's more! Let's talk about self-care. The importance of maintaining a healthy lifestyle as a strategy to handle stress and anxiety can't be overstated. We explore simple yet effective habits such as regular exercise, a healthy diet, reading, and meditation - and how they can make a world of difference in managing your anxiety. We also throw in some worthy recommendations like the Calm app, and how creative activities outside work and relationships can be therapeutic. Plus, we give you a peek into the writing process and how expressing your thoughts and ideas without the burden of perfection can be liberating. So, tune in and let's navigate this journey together.

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    23 mins
  • Random Google Searches
    Aug 15 2023

    Ever had an anxiety attack and wished you could laugh it off instead? Well, we, Hope Adams and Dre Valentine, are here to tell you that you're not alone. We've discovered the therapeutic value of humor in managing our own anxiety and panic attacks, and we're sharing that with you in this episode of Panicked to Punchline. From the Women's World Cup to dog cooling mats, we'll take you on a hilarious journey through our recent Google searches, and how they've helped us cope. We also discuss how stress affects our physical health and even how a TV show led us to find creative synonyms for 'cowboy'. 

    We've all done some strange Google searches in moments of panic or just plain ol' curiosity. In this episode, we continue the fun by examining a few more of our recent searches. Topics range from Kelly Clarkson tickets in Vegas, Reese's milk chocolate and peanut butter candy-dipped animal crackers, Spanish drinks, and haircuts. Trust us, the results are as amusing as they sound. We wrap up by diving into our fears, anxieties, and the comfort we find in knowing that we're here for each other. So come along, share in our experiences, fears and all, and remember, it's okay to laugh at our anxieties.

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    22 mins
  • Managing Anxiety and Hair Color Catastrophes with Dre
    Aug 8 2023
    Ever had one of those days where everything you touch just goes spectacularly wrong? Our friend Dre can definitely tick that box after a DIY hair dye disaster turned her locks from blonde to a shocking moss green and turquoise combo. Upon discovering the magic of clarifying shampoo, Dre managed to return to her blonde roots, proving that even the worst beauty mishaps can be fixed.

    But it's not all chuckles as we dive into the real and serious issue of living with anxiety and panic attacks. We share Dre's experience of navigating through a panic attack, highlighting the importance of recognizing and managing these overwhelming situations. A seemingly minor event like a botched hair job can snowball into a major crisis when anxiety takes the wheel, and even a harmless Google search can become a source of stress. So join us, as we wrap up this episode with some valuable insights and a triumphant return to blonde for our brave friend Dre.
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    23 mins
  • Season 1,Episode 12:Understanding Our Past: The Influence of Childhood Anxiety on Adult Life
    Aug 1 2023

    Remember those childhood fears that gave you sleepless nights? How about those growing-up years that are packed with anxiety? It's personal, it's raw, and it's us - Hope and Dre unravel their stories of anxiety and the journey toward healing. From shedding light on the influences of our upbringing on our mental well-being, to tracing the roots of our people-pleasing tendencies and fear of abandonment, this episode is an introspective exploration of our past that shaped us. Dre’s exceptional narrative of turning her upbringing on its head while raising her own daughter serves as a beacon of hope – a testament to the fact that it's never too late to break the cycle.

    Unpacking the trauma of our past, we delve into the impacts of childhood experiences on our adult lives. The strive for perfection, the fear of abandonment, and the strain of people-pleasing - we discuss how these issues, deeply rooted in our attempts to fix our family dynamics, have shaped us. But it's not all nostalgia and reflection; we also emphasize the power of self-growth and the profound impact it can have on shaping our future. As we share our stories of healing and growth, we hope to inspire you to unpack your own trauma and embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Indeed, the past shapes us, but it doesn't define us. Your past is not your future.

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    25 mins
  • Season 1, Episode 11:Dealing with Anxiety and Perfectionism in the Dating World
    Jul 26 2023

    Have you ever swiped right, adrenaline pumping, heart pounding, only to put on a mask in order to please your date? We, Hope and Dre, share our personal stories of navigating the dating world while battling with the complex knots of anxiety, perfectionism, and people-pleasing tendencies. 

    We've learned through our journeys that vulnerability can be both beautiful and terrifying, especially when anxiety and perfectionism are part of the equation. Listen in as we share intimate tales from our relationships, the walls we built to guard ourselves, and the courage it took to let someone in. We emphasize the importance of empathy, understanding, and the power of sharing emotional triggers with our partners. 

    With social media and online dating, the landscape of dating has evolved, amplifying the challenges for those dealing with anxiety. Despite the struggles, we still believe in the possibility of love and connection, and we want you to believe in it too. We talk about the unique struggles of dating with anxiety and perfectionism, and the importance of understanding, acceptance, and open communication in a relationship. So, whether you're single, taken, or somewhere in between, join us now for an honest and enlightening conversation.

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    24 mins
  • People-Pleasing and Perfectionism
    Jul 18 2023

    Do you ever find yourself tiptoeing around others, bending over backwards to avoid upsetting anyone? You're not alone! Join Hope and Dre as we unmask the truth about being people-pleasers. We share our personal stories, full of panic and anxiety, of going to great lengths to ensure others are never displeased with us - even when they reassure us they're not. Discover how this tenacious trait can inadvertently be passed down to our children, and how we can break free from the shackles of constant accommodation.

    In a lighter note, we also share our exciting and oftentimes hilarious journey of expanding our social media presence. From Facebook to TikTok, Hope and Dre are everywhere! We discuss the incredible power of technology to connect us with people from across the globe and invite you to connect with us on these platforms. So, get ready for an episode packed with laughter, self-discovery, and critical insights into our own behaviors. Let's navigate this journey together, one candid conversation at a time.

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    22 mins
  • Gym Scaries
    Jul 11 2023

    Have you ever been struck with a bout of the "Gym Scaries"? That particular brand of anxiety that swoops in the moment you step foot inside a gym? Join Hope and Dre as we candidly unpack our own struggles with this all-too-real phenomenon, particularly as the years continue to roll on. We delve into the pressures that come with age, the relentless pursuit of picture-perfect fitness, and the pang of insecurity that can sometimes make a workout feel more like a walk of shame. We've been there, we get it, and we're here to tell you that you're not alone.

    As we navigate the turbulent waters of gym culture, we'll also be shining a spotlight on the unique etiquette and dynamics that come with different gym-goers. From the proud housewives and dedicated service industry folks, to the intimidating bodybuilders and even the high-earning strippers, it's an eclectic mix that can contribute to that creeping gym anxiety. So no matter if you're a gym veteran, a newbie just starting out, or someone who’s just curious about gym culture, tune in. Let's share a laugh, bust a few gym myths, and maybe even find a way to make our next workout a little less scary.

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    22 mins