Are you a single woman praying God will bring the right person? Or a mom watching your son or daughter date someone and thinking, "Please, Lord, don't let them marry that person"?

This episode is for BOTH of you.

In this powerful conversation, Rhonda Stoppe draws from 44 years of marriage, raising four married children, and mentoring countless couples to share the hard-won wisdom every single woman—and every worried mama—needs to hear about choosing a spouse.

For Singles: You've heard all the advice about "waiting on God" and "trusting His timing." But what does choosing wisely actually look like? How do you know if the guy you're dating is the man you should marry? And what red flags are you ignoring because you're tired of being alone?

For Moms: Your daughter is head-over-heels for a guy who gives you pause. Or your son is dating someone you're not sure about. How do you guide without controlling? When should you speak up? And how do you pray effectively when you see warning signs they don't?

In this episode, Rhonda tackles:

• The difference between godly attraction and settling out of loneliness
• Red flags that predict marital disaster (chemistry can't overcome these)
• Green flags that actually matter (hint: it's not how romantic he is)
• Why "equally yoked" means more than just both being Christians
• The questions that MUST be asked before engagement—about faith, finances, family, and the future
• What missionary dating is—and why it never works
• How moms can guide their adult children without pushing them away
• When to speak up about concerns—and how to do it with grace
• What to do when your child won't listen to your warnings

Whether you're praying for your own future spouse or interceding for your child's relationship, this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom, practical discernment, and the courage to have hard conversations.

Because the choice made at the altar shapes everything that follows. Choose wisely, friend—or help the ones you love choose wisely. Eternity hangs in the balance.

CALL TO ACTION

📖 Want to go deeper?

• Grab Rhonda's book Real Life Romance for more biblical wisdom on marriage
• Check out Moms of the Bible for encouragement in your motherhood journey

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Your marriage matters. Your child's marriage matters. Let's choose wisely—together.

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Ever feel like reading the Bible is something you "should" do rather than something you genuinely want to do? You're not alone! In this engaging episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe welcomes Keith Ferrin—author, speaker, and "Your Bible Coach"—for an inspiring conversation about transforming your Bible reading from duty to delight.

Keith shares his powerful personal journey of the exact moment (April 18, 1993!) when everything changed for him, taking him from feeling obligated to read Scripture to becoming passionate about God's Word. Discover the simple mindset shift that positions you to actually ENJOY the Bible, practical tools to understand and remember what you read, and the biggest mistake people make when approaching Scripture.

Whether you're a longtime Bible student who's lost your spark or someone just starting to explore God's Word, this conversation is packed with wisdom, humor, and actionable insights. Keith breaks down why reading the Bible relationally—not just informationally—changes everything, and shares his "simplest way to study any Bible passage" (it fits on one page!).

Get ready to laugh, learn, and rediscover that the Bible isn't just true and relevant—it's awesome! No matter your age or stage of life, this episode will inspire you to open your Bible with fresh eyes and a hungry heart.

Resources mentioned: Keith's books, courses, and the BibleLife Community™

Bio:

Keith Ferrin is an author, speaker, and word-for-word biblical storyteller. He is also "Your Bible Coach" on YouTube. He founded his ministry in 1996 and travels around the U.S. and internationally, speaking at conferences, churches, retreats, and universities. He utilizes humor, practical workshops, and word-for-word presentations of whole books of the Bible (we're not kidding!) to help people fall in love with God's Word and its Author.

After earning his undergraduate degree in Psychology, he spent six years as a youth and worship pastor at a church plant in Tacoma, WA. He earned his M.Ed. in Guidance & Counseling and spent a couple years counseling at a public elementary school. Since then, Keith has been speaking, writing and creating videos and resources full-time.

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Best of 2025 Episode: The Power of Imperfect Motherhood: Mandy Arioto on Raising Kids with Authenticity and Grace

In this deeply inspiring conversation, Rhonda Stoppe sits down with Mandy Arioto, CEO of Mom.Co (formerly MOPS), to discuss the profound spiritual calling of motherhood and why moms are some of the most underrated influencers on the planet.

Mandy shares her unexpected journey from turning down a job offer to packing a U-Haul eight days later after a divine wake-up call, reminding us that God's plans often don't make sense in the moment but become crystal clear in hindsight. From managing a ministry reaching over 10 million moms annually to launching the new podcast "The Mandy Show," Mandy brings wisdom, humor, and refreshing honesty to the conversation.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why 93% of moms strive for perfection—and why our kids don't need perfect moms, they need real ones
• How to stop raising your children for what people think of you (this perspective will set you free!)
• The fascinating truth about why marketers call moms "the most powerful evangelists on the planet"
• How to find redemption when you feel like you've failed as a mom
• Why the mundane tasks of motherhood are actually profound acts of eternal significance
• How God uses our trials not just to shape us, but to validate our testimony to those watching

Mandy vulnerably shares her own parenting failures—from catching three kids throwing up in her hands to telling her son "you deserve it" when he got sick from smoking pot—and how modeling authentic apologies shapes our children far more than projecting perfection.

Whether you're in the trenches of toddlerhood, navigating the teen years, or preparing for the empty nest, this conversation will remind you that your influence as a mom matters far more than you realize. Your everyday faithfulness is writing a legacy that will outlast any career achievement or social media following.

Resources mentioned:

• Mom.Co groups and communities
• MomCon 2025 (September 24-26, Orlando, Florida)
• New YouVersion devotional on Motherhood in the Bible
• "The Mandy Show" podcast (launching September 2025)
• Mandy's books: Have More Fun, Starry Eyed, Wild Hope, and Breathing Room

Connect with Mandy at MandyArioto.co and find a Mom.Co community near you at TheMom.Co.

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She had everything. A perfect marriage. A perfect body. Daily walks with God in paradise. Zero conflict, zero shame, zero struggle. So why did Eve reach for the one thing God said "no" to?

In this raw and convicting episode, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks the devastating moment when the perfect woman made the not-so-perfect choice—and every mom since has been fighting the same battle. Because here's the uncomfortable truth: Satan's strategy with Eve is the exact same strategy he's using on you today.

Rhonda reveals the five fatal steps that led to Eve's fall: she trusted herself, investigated the forbidden, questioned God's goodness, compromised truth, and isolated herself from protection. Sound familiar? Whether you're scrolling Instagram wondering why your life doesn't measure up, questioning whether God really has your best interests at heart, or thinking "just a little bit more" will finally make you happy—you're walking Eve's dangerous path.

But this episode isn't just about Eve's failure. It's about Parenting 101 straight from God Himself. Discover how God approached Adam and Eve after their sin (hint: He didn't bark "Go to your room!") and learn how to shepherd your child's heart toward genuine repentance instead of just regret-because-they-got-caught.

Rhonda vulnerably shares the story of a young man whose "harmless" root beer theft at age 5 became a life of crime by adulthood, and challenges moms to recognize their children's "bent" before sinful patterns become second nature. From lying to meanness to emotional manipulation, the habits you ignore today will define who your children become tomorrow.

Plus: Why that mean woman at church didn't just become mean yesterday (and what you need to teach your daughters about hormones, blame, and marriage). The J.D. Rockefeller quote that explains why "just a little bit more" never satisfies. And the daily practice that will keep you from falling for Satan's half-truths when life gets hard.

Godliness with contentment is great gain. Everything else is just chasing wind.

Watch this and other videos of Rhonda teaching on each chapter of her new book: Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful (Pre-Order Now - Releases: March 10, 2026).

Join the conversation at NoRegretsWoman.com—and please, don't isolate yourself!

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Title: "Fearless Faith: What Mary's Story Teaches Us About Facing Rejection"

Description: Ever wondered how a teenage girl found the courage to say yes to God's impossible plan? In this powerful episode, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks Mary's remarkable story of fearless faith when the angel Gabriel appeared with life-changing news.

Discover how Mary navigated the terrifying possibility of rejection—from her fiancé Joseph, her parents, and her entire community. Rhonda shares the beautiful moment when Mary's cousin Elizabeth confirmed God's miraculous work, and explores why obedience to God doesn't always mean an easy path.

Through personal stories (including a hilarious wedding dress shopping tale) and biblical wisdom, Rhonda addresses the reality of rejection we all face as mothers and women. She tackles false prosperity gospel teachings head-on, reminding us that following Christ requires taking up our cross—even when it feels impossibly heavy.

If you're recovering from betrayal, abandonment, or the deep wounds of rejection, this episode offers hope. Learn how to trust God's plan even when you can't see the outcome, and discover that Jesus understands your sorrow intimately. Your tears don't go unnoticed—He gathers every single one.

Perfect for moms navigating difficult seasons, seeking courage for the unknown, or simply needing a reminder that fearless faith is possible even in our brokenness.

Read more about Mary's Fearless Faith in Rhonda's new book: Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful

Watch on Rhonda's YouTube Channel ALL of Rhonda's teaching videos on each chapter of the book on the Moms of the Bible PlaylistL Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman YouTube Channel

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In this powerful finale to our "Moms of the Bible" series, author Rhonda Stoppe tackles one of motherhood's greatest paradoxes: pouring your heart into raising children who will one day live without you—often without others ever knowing your name.

Drawing from the unnamed mothers in Scripture, including David's mom and the mothers of Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, Rhonda reveals how the most influential cultural changers often come from quiet, faithful homes where moms prioritized biblical truth over public recognition.

Discover why helicopter parenting might be robbing your children of the very courage they need to face their giants, and learn how to raise kids who can fail and recover under your watchful eye before they face the world alone. Rhonda challenges moms to reject apathy, embrace urgency, and understand that your ministry isn't about earning applause—it's about equipping the next generation to stand strong when everyone else bows to cultural pressure.

Whether you're a fearless mom, a flawed mom, or a faithful mom still finding your way, this episode will ignite fresh passion for your God-ordained calling in this generation. Your name may never make headlines, but your influence will echo through eternity.

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Join the conversation at @RhondaStoppe and share in the comments how you're raising world-changers in your own home!

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The New Loneliness: Finding Connection in an Isolated World

In this heartfelt conversation, Rhonda Stoppe welcomes her dear friend and mentor, award-winning author Cindi McMenamin, to discuss her timely new book "The New Loneliness: Nurturing Meaningful Connections When You Feel Isolated."

Whether you're a pastor's wife feeling the unique isolation of ministry, someone navigating a failed friendship, or simply wondering why you feel so alone in our hyper-connected world, this episode offers profound hope and practical wisdom.

Cindi and Rhonda explore:

• The loneliness epidemic and how post-COVID habits have isolated us without our realizing it
• Why technology makes us feel more connected but leaves us lonelier than ever
• How to heal from betrayed or failed friendships with biblical grace
• Walking through health scares, diagnoses, and unanswered prayers while trusting God
• The power of Titus 2 relationships and finding "your people"
• Practical steps to sense God's presence when you feel He's far away
• Why choosing faces over screens can transform your relationships

With vulnerability and authenticity, Cindi shares her own journey through a cancer scare, friendship struggles, and seasons of profound loneliness—revealing how God draws us closer in our most isolated moments. This conversation will minister to your heart whether you're in a difficult season right now or want to help someone who is.

Perfect for: Women in ministry, those feeling isolated, anyone recovering from broken relationships, or those seeking to build meaningful community in a distracted world.

Resources mentioned: "The New Loneliness" book and devotional by Cindi McMenamin, available on Amazon and wherever books are sold. Connect with Cindi at StrengthForTheSoul.com.

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Finding Your Way Back to Christ

Have you ever felt distant from God after a season of closeness? In this powerful episode, Rhonda shares seven practical steps to reignite your intimate relationship with Jesus. Drawing from the Apostle Peter's journey—from his bold declarations to his devastating denial and ultimate restoration—Rhonda reminds us that even our failures can humble us and prepare us for greater service.

Discover how to:

• Seek God intentionally through daily prayer
• Read Scripture with fresh eyes, focusing on God's character
• Write and meditate on the Psalms
• Learn the names of God and what they reveal about Him
• Draw inspiration from biographies of faithful believers
• Ask God for help without hesitation
• Press on without giving up

Whether you're coming back from a season of wandering or simply longing to deepen your walk with Christ, this episode offers hope and practical guidance. Rhonda vulnerably shares her own struggles with falling short and reminds us that God's grace meets us in our humility.

As Peter discovered after his restoration, our greatest ministry often flows from the seasons where we've been broken and rebuilt by God's love.

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