Episodes

  • JTG - If Fish can Fly, You Can Learn Empathy

    JTG - If Fish can Fly, You Can Learn Empathy
    May 14 2025
    Welcome back to Just the Guys, where a handful of neurodiverse men get real about growth, relationships, and life post-diagnosis — all without a script, but with a ton of heart.
    In this reflective and candid episode, the guys dive into the evolution of their emotional intelligence and how their journeys have led to stronger relationships, especially with their partners and kids. The catalyst? A missed celebrity interview and a realization: if flying fish exist, maybe change and empathy aren’t so impossible after all.
    We follow Jeremy, Greg, and Dan as they discuss what transformation looks like in real life. Jeremy opens up about becoming a more proactive and thoughtful parent and husband, learning to share the mental load and prioritize emotional presence. Greg brings in stories from marriage and retirement, revealing how putting “relationship before task” has become his new mantra. Dan brings it full circle with powerful insights on values, intentionality, and what love looks like, choosing family over hockey — literally.
    Throughout the conversation, themes of vulnerability, emotional attunement, and the gradual embrace of empathy surface repeatedly. They compare personal growth to planting seeds — change doesn’t happen overnight, but with daily intention and care, real transformation takes root.

    Key takeaways:
    • Empathy isn’t just possible for neurodiverse men — it’s learnable and life-changing.
    • Change starts with being open to a different version of yourself.
    • Small, intentional choices create the foundation for a lasting connection.
    • Relationships thrive not when we’re perfect, but when we show up — emotionally and consistently.

    This episode is equal parts heart, humor, and hope. So, whether you’re neurodivergent yourself or walking alongside someone who is, you’ll leave with a little more faith that growth is not only possible — it’s inevitable, if you’re willing to show up and keep planting seeds.


    🎧 Tune in, lean in, and maybe even catch a flying fish of your own.
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Uniquely Us Can Help You Find Uniquely U!

    Uniquely Us Can Help You Find Uniquely U!
    May 12 2025
    Today, we discuss the newly released book aimed at NeuroDiverse Christian Couples and Coaches! Dr. Stephanie & Barbara discuss Uniquely US: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of NeuroDiverse Marriage. We will talk about the research that went into the book and how clergy, chaplains, coaches, counselors, and clinicians can use this book along with a workbook and videos for ND Christian Couples!
    Where can you order the book?
    https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
    Download the Free Workbook:
    https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/_files/ugd/410eee_5c2856b40d0a4a1bb65a69c38f384161.pdf
    Find the Free Videos:
    https://www.holmesasr.com/copy-of-uniquely-us
    Dan or Stephanie is having classes forming for the fall and spring semesters. Dr. Stephanie usually has a summer course for wives. Find out about group coaching/classes at:
    https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
    https://www.holmesasr.com/mengroups
    Want to work with Barbara Grant?
    https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/copy-of-referrals
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    51 mins
  • Achieving "Naked & Unashamed" in Your NeuroDiverse Marriage

    Achieving "Naked & Unashamed" in Your NeuroDiverse Marriage
    May 5 2025
    What does it mean to be naked and unashamed? Did your mind first go to sex? That is part of it in a literal sense, but being 'naked and ashamed' also means being vulnerable with each other and not afraid. By the time couples find out about their neurodiversity, there are toxic patterns, and friendship is lost because everyone is focused on their own needs and what is missing. I often wonder if couples even like each other anymore or just on the this religious quest for the marriage some pastor or book promised missing the point- at one point Adam & Eve were naked and unashamed- connected to God, their true identity and each other in a vulnerable way before the fall/sin. We believe a couple's quest is to achieve as much as they can in a fallen world, being "naked and unashamed," and to be unafraid in their marriage relationship, moving from a scarcity mindset or fixed mindset to a growth and attachment mindset.
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    1 hr
  • Love on the Spectrum's Dani Bowman, BFA, MBA

    Love on the Spectrum's Dani Bowman, BFA, MBA
    Apr 28 2025
    Continuing our Autism Acceptance Month, today Dr. Stephanie interviews Dani Bowman from Love on the Spectrum. We will talk about her involvement with the show and how she built her company, DaniMation.

    Guest: Dani Bowman,BFA, MBA
    President, DaniMation Entertainment
    Dani Bowman, who is on the autism spectrum, founded her company, DaniMation Entertainment, in 2009. Over the years, she has spearheaded summer animation camps and conducted personalized online 1:1 sessions, diligently educating, elevating, and empowering her students on the autism spectrum. With her guidance, she has successfully helped more than 2,500 students explore the transformation of their passions into viable careers.
    In her educational journey, Dani obtained a BFA in Animation in 2018 and further pursued her ambitions with an MBA in Global Strategy and Leadership in 2020. Beyond her academic achievements, she also became a valued cast member on the Netflix series "Love on the Spectrum." Dani's remarkable story showcases how dedication, talent, and resilience can lead to fulfilling accomplishments regardless of individual challenges.
    Embracing Neurodiversity and Creativity: Dani Bowman's Journey from Animation Aficionado to Social Entrepreneur
    In her keynote speech at the Converge Autism Summit, Dani Bowman, an animator, educator, and entrepreneur, takes us on a remarkable journey that began at age three and led her to become the CEO of DaniMation. From her beginnings as a passionate animator at the age of 14 to her present role as an industry leader in diversity-led employment, Dani shares her experiences, challenges, and triumphs and reflects on her responsibility as a leader to inspire and mentor others on the autism spectrum. She sheds light on the company's commitment to social impact, emphasizing the positive influence that creative expression can have on the lives of neurodiverse individuals, regardless of how they have been affected by their condition.
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    33 mins
  • Hurricanes in My Ears and a Fire in My Nose: My Sensory Life with Kim Clairy

    Hurricanes in My Ears and a Fire in My Nose: My Sensory Life with Kim Clairy
    Apr 21 2025
    For Autism Acceptance and Action Month, we are focusing on the autistic experience. Today, our guests are Kim Clairy, OTR/L, and her husband, William. Kim will be a speaker at the 2025 Converge Autism Summit. Today, Dr. Stephanie talks with Kim about autism and sensory issues and how an occupational therapist can help.

    About our Guest:
    Kim Clairy OTR/L is a Brenau University graduate with a BS/MS in occupational therapy. Kim has been invited to share her expertise on autism with over 100 organizations in 7 countries. She is a frequent contributor to autism-related projects and podcasts and has contributed to numerous publications on autism. Additionally, Kim is a private consultant and self-advocate who broke through barriers as she defied a healthcare system that said, “Your autism is severe; you need to live in a nursing home.” Her difficult experiences forged a passion for educating others on autism. Through hands-on learning, Kim uses personal experiences and professional expertise to educate on many facets of autism across the lifespan.

    Want Kim to come speak at your event?
    https://www.kimclairy.com/
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    56 mins
  • JTG - Planes, Trains and Aspiemobiles

    JTG - Planes, Trains and Aspiemobiles
    Apr 16 2025
    In this episode of 'Just the Guys,' Jeremy and Dan pivot from their original plan due to an unexpected airline mishap, turning the moment into a meaningful exploration of their personal and professional insights on coaching from an autistic perspective. They delve into what makes effective coaching, highlighting the importance of adaptability, openness to change, and focusing on potential rather than limitations. The conversation emphasizes the courage required to question long-held beliefs and behaviors, and the necessity of cultivating self-awareness and emotional growth.
    Rich with relatable analogies from sports and personal experiences, Jeremy and Dan discuss overcoming resistance to change, the power of vulnerability, and the critical distinction between being open to new skills versus changing one's core identity. Whether you're seeking personal growth, better relationships, or practical strategies for life’s complexities, this candid discussion offers valuable wisdom for those navigating neurodiverse relationships and personal development.
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    40 mins
  • Unlearning Negative Behaviors and Learning New Behaviors to Optimize Self & Relationships with David Glick

    Unlearning Negative Behaviors and Learning New Behaviors to Optimize Self & Relationships with David Glick
    Apr 14 2025
    It is Autism Acceptance and Action Month, and we have Dave Glick as our guest neurodivergent coach and clinician.
    Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara ask David a few questions about behaviors.

    We ask:
    • Can you differentiate freeze and fawning?

    • What are your thoughts on pervasive demand avoidance?

    • What behaviors can actually change?

    • Can those on the spectrum learn regulation and relational skills?

    About our Guest & Colleague:
    Dave writes on his website: https://triadpsych.org/therapists/david-glick/
    My specialties are quite extensive and diverse, as I have two degrees, one in Education and the other in Social Work. I was originally trained in behaviorism and usually merge behavior therapies with personality trait theories. This approach, while demanding, usually produces very positive results for my clients.
    My practice is a safe place where people can share and be open. Once trust is established, it becomes a virtual Swiss army knife, in that the therapy is adaptable and useful regardless of the situation. Essentially, I want my clients to be empowered with a new sense of self and confident in their abilities.
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    49 mins
  • Special Education Parent Rights Advocating for Your Autistic Child with Tiffany Yandle

    Special Education Parent Rights Advocating for Your Autistic Child with Tiffany Yandle
    Apr 7 2025
    Join Dr. Stephanie and Tiffany in an interactive discussion that will help you delve deeper into understanding your rights as a parent with a school-age child with disabilities. You will have a solid understanding of the variety of support plans, how to navigate the school teams, and how to ensure your child gets everything they need to succeed in school!

    About our Guest:
    Tiffany Yandle is a non-attorney Special Education Advocate and President of In Bloom Advocacy. She has a 15+ year history of teaching Special Education and school administration in North Carolina public schools. She is passionate about reaching an equitable, personalized education for all students. She specializes in Special Education Laws and regulations, Multi-Tiered Systems of Support, Community Engagement in schools, and Autism Spectrum Disorders.
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    45 mins