Episodes

  • Ep 293 - Escaping the Comparison Trap: How Social Media Affects Self-Worth

    Ep 293 - Escaping the Comparison Trap: How Social Media Affects Self-Worth
    Aug 19 2025

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    In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts discuss the 'comparison trap' and how social media can distort self-worth. They explain how platforms highlight only the best moments of people's lives, leading to unfair comparisons and feelings of inadequacy. The episode explores the psychological and emotional impacts of these comparisons, including increased rates of depression and anxiety. Practical strategies to escape the comparison trap are shared, such as curating your social media feed intentionally, practicing daily gratitude, limiting screen time, focusing on your own gifts and abilities, and replacing comparison with celebration. The hosts also provide a biblical perspective on finding worth beyond social media validation and emphasize the positive potential of social media when used purposefully. 00:00 Introduction to the Comparison Trap 00:53 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Worth 05:12 Psychological Insights into Comparison 08:18 Biblical Perspective on Self-Worth 10:28 Practical Strategies to Escape the Comparison Trap 15:44 Conclusion and Positive Use of Social Media

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    18 mins
  • Ep 192 - Balancing Truth and Love: The Art of Healthy Honesty

    Ep 192 - Balancing Truth and Love: The Art of Healthy Honesty
    Aug 14 2025

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    In this episode of Mr. And Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts explore the delicate balance between truth and love, discussing the nuances of healthy honesty, radical honesty, and avoidance. They provide insights into the psychology behind why people gravitate towards either extreme and offer practical advice for speaking truths in a manner that maintains emotional safety and relationship integrity. Key strategies discussed include understanding your goal, checking the timing, using a compliment sandwich, focusing on your experience rather than character, and being prepared to listen. Additionally, they draw on biblical principles to highlight the importance of gentle and loving communication. 00:00 Introduction to Honesty in Relationships 00:38 Defining Types of Honesty 01:10 Balancing Truth and Love 02:02 Practical Examples of Honesty 05:01 Understanding Extremes in Honesty 08:14 Psychology of Too Much Honesty 10:34 Framework for Speaking Truth in Love 13:32 Biblical Insights on Honesty 15:06 Conclusion and Practical Tips

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

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    16 mins
  • Ep 291 - Unlocking the Power of Vulnerability in Relationships

    Ep 291 - Unlocking the Power of Vulnerability in Relationships
    Aug 12 2025

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    In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts explore the concept of vulnerability as a crucial and often frightening relationship skill. They delve into what true vulnerability looks like, its significance for emotional connection, and how past wounds can obstruct our ability to be vulnerable. Listeners will gain practical advice on practicing safe vulnerability, starting with self-awareness, sharing slowly, naming feelings accurately, creating empathetic spaces, and managing emotional reactions. The episode concludes with a practical challenge to practice a small act of vulnerability in a key relationship. 00:00 Introduction to Vulnerability 00:58 Defining Vulnerability 01:29 Examples of Vulnerability 02:22 The Fear of Vulnerability 02:56 Overcoming Past Wounds 07:21 Building Safe Vulnerability 10:28 Practical Tips for Vulnerability 12:08 Conclusion and Challenge

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    14 mins
  • Ep 290 - Commitment Over Chemistry: Debunking the Myth of Compatibility in Marriage

    Ep 290 - Commitment Over Chemistry: Debunking the Myth of Compatibility in Marriage
    Aug 5 2025

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    In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs Therapy podcast, the hosts discuss the myth of compatibility in marriage, emphasizing the importance of commitment over initial chemistry. They argue that compatibility and chemistry should not be the foundation of a lasting marriage, but rather commitment, shared values, and a covenant centered around Christ. They explore how culture has idolized the idea of a 'perfect match' and debunk misconceptions about destiny vs. free will in choosing a partner. The episode offers practical advice for rekindling intimacy and maintaining a strong marriage through intentional actions, loving choices, and healthy conflict resolution, even amidst life's adversities and changes. 00:00 Introduction: The Myth of Compatibility 00:40 Chemistry vs. Commitment 03:04 The Illusion of the Perfect Match 05:07 The Reality of Marriage Challenges 07:38 Building a Strong Foundation 09:46 Love as a Choice, Not a Feeling 12:05 Embracing Tension and Growth 14:48 Rekindling Intimacy 16:06 Practical Steps to Reconnect 16:41 Conclusion: Focus on Commitment and Christ

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    18 mins
  • Ep 289 - The Art of Effective Apologies: Rebuilding Trust in Relationships

    Ep 289 - The Art of Effective Apologies: Rebuilding Trust in Relationships
    Aug 1 2025

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    In this episode, we delve into why some apologies fail and how to truly repair trust in relationships when 'I'm sorry' isn't enough. We explore the necessity of emotional validation and changed behavior to rebuild trust. Key points include understanding why a rushed or empathy-lacking apology falls flat, the importance of ownership and validation, and the significance of demonstrating change. Practical tips are provided for both giving and receiving effective apologies, highlighting three crucial elements: ownership, validation, and change. Additionally, we discuss actions to take when an apology from your partner is missing or insufficient. 00:00 Introduction: The Problem with Apologies 00:48 Why Basic Apologies Fail 05:52 The Three Elements of Real Repair 12:31 When You Need an Apology 14:08 Conclusion: Rebuilding Trust Over Time

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    16 mins
  • Ep 288 - Healing vs. Avoidance: Understanding Healthy Boundaries

    Ep 288 - Healing vs. Avoidance: Understanding Healthy Boundaries
    Jul 29 2025

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    In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the often confusing distinction between true healing and mere avoidance, especially following a traumatic experience. They discuss how trauma can make it difficult to distinguish between setting healthy boundaries and erecting 'trauma walls.' Key differences between healthy boundaries and avoidance behaviors are outlined, and the importance of self-reflection, clear communication, and emotional presence is emphasized. Reflection questions and actionable steps, including seeking therapy, are provided to help listeners move from avoidance to genuine healing and establish boundaries that foster both protection and connection. 00:00 Introduction to Healing vs. Avoidance 01:19 Understanding the Blurred Lines 02:13 Healthy Boundaries vs. Trauma Walls 08:35 Reflection Questions for Self-Assessment 13:41 Steps to Move from Avoidance to Healing 17:16 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    18 mins
  • Ep 287 -- The question that could be destroying your relationships "Why?"

    Ep 287 -- The question that could be destroying your relationships "Why?"
    Jul 22 2025

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    In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the problematic nature of judgmental 'why' questions in relationships. They discuss how such questions, even when asked with genuine curiosity, can come across as accusatory and trigger defensive reactions. The episode explores the significance of tone, timing, and past traumas in how people respond to 'why' questions. The hosts provide actionable advice on reframing these questions to promote understanding and emotional safety, offering alternative ways to communicate that build connection rather than conflict. The insights shared are applicable to various relationships, including marriage, parenting, and self-talk. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:11 The Impact of Judgmental 'Why' Questions 05:13 Key Factors: Tone, Timing, and Trauma Echoes 07:10 Alternatives to 'Why' Questions 11:40 Building New Communication Habits 14:51 Recap and Final Thoughts

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    17 mins
  • Ep 286 - Transforming Anxiety into Excitement: Understanding and Managing Your Physiological Responses

    Ep 286 - Transforming Anxiety into Excitement: Understanding and Managing Your Physiological Responses
    Jul 17 2025

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    In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the phenomenon of experiencing a racing, jittery feeling and interpreting it as either excitement or anxiety. They discuss the physiological responses driven by the sympathetic nervous system and provide a self-check tool to help listeners distinguish between excitement and fear. The episode covers the role of perspective and inputs in shaping these feelings and offers techniques to reframe negative thoughts, including the concept of neuroplastic shift. The hosts conclude with a five-question self-check tool to help listeners rework their anxiety into excitement. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:07 Understanding the Racing Jittery Feeling 00:50 The Science Behind the Physiological Surge 01:36 Interpreting Excitement vs. Anxiety 03:19 The Role of Perspective and Inputs 05:11 Side-by-Side Comparison: Excitement vs. Anxiety 07:33 Reframing Anxiety into Excitement 10:17 Five Question Self-Check Tool 12:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    13 mins