Episodes

  • 287: Making Friends as an Adult: The Good, the Hard, and the Awkward with Kristen Strong

    287: Making Friends as an Adult: The Good, the Hard, and the Awkward with Kristen Strong
    Feb 14 2026
    In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Kristen Strong (author, mom of 3, and military spouse) for a heartfelt conversation about something so many of us wrestle with… friendship. Whether it’s finding new friends as an adult, navigating the awkwardness of starting over, or simply maintaining meaningful connections in a busy season, Kristen brings so much honesty and encouragement to our chat. We talk about the ups and downs of friendship through different life stages, the unique challenges of modern life (hello, social media), and how vulnerability and intention can lead to deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Kristen also shares some beautiful wisdom from her new book, Desperate Woman Seeks Friends. It’s part memoir, part gentle guide for anyone feeling a little lonely or disconnected. You’ll walk away from this episode feeling less alone and more equipped to take the next small step toward community—whatever that might look like for you right now. Links from this episode: Kristen on Instagram (@kristenstrong) Kristen’s Website Order her new book: “Desperate Woman Seeks Friends: Real Talk about Connection, Rejection, and Trying Again for the Friendships You Need“ Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website Current Sponsor: Thank you to Laundry Sauce for making this episode of Minimal-ish possible! Get 20% off at laundrysauce.com with code MINIMALISH. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    48 mins
  • 286: February Mini-Solo: Things I'm Loving + Simplifying, Life Updates, and Starter-Habits.

    286: February Mini-Solo: Things I'm Loving + Simplifying, Life Updates, and Starter-Habits.
    Feb 6 2026
    In this episode, I'm introducing a new series of shorter solo episodes where I'll get a little more personal, like we're friends on a coffee date. I'm starting this series with a big life update while I share three things I'm loving, something I'm simplifying, and what I'm calling a "minimal-ish learning" that I had over the past month. We kind of go all over the place as we start shallow with some self-care topics and then get a little deeper as I share a big life transition. I hope you enjoy this new series! Linking all the skin care/ hair items I briefly mentioned in case you're interested: Moisturizing face wash Byoma toner Vitamin C Serum Barrier Serum Moisturizing Cream Other links: Planner Desirae on Instagram Thank you to our current sponsors for making this episode possible! -Shop all things home at wayfair.com -Get the best sheets at Boll and Branch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    26 mins
  • 285: Start Decluttering and Keep an Uncluttered Home with Katy Wells

    285: Start Decluttering and Keep an Uncluttered Home with Katy Wells
    Jan 25 2026
    Today on Minimalish, I’m joined by Katy Wells– wife, mom and decluttering expert for a refreshing conversation on starting the new year off on the right foot in our homes. She shares her own journey with decluttering and discusses the mental, emotional, and physical impacts of clutter that quietly weigh us down. Katy also shares practical strategies for simplifying in a busy household or season (and why we need to continue to normalize lived-in spaces, especially with kids). Katy is the host of the Top 50 podcast The Maximized Minimalist and may have seen her featured recently on NBC News, where she helps families clear their floors, minds, and to-do lists so they can feel calm, clear and in control again. If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of decluttering and re-cluttering, I hope you leave this episode with the belief that change is possible. Connect with Katy: Katy’s Website Katy’s Podcast (The Maximized Minimalist) Katy on Instagram (@katyjoywells) Pre-order Katy’s Book: Making Home Your Happy Place: A Real-Life Guide to Decluttering Without the Overwhelm (Releases February 17, 2026) Other Links: Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr
  • 284: Consistency, Morning Routines, and A Word for the Year with Emily Ley (Replay)

    284: Consistency, Morning Routines, and A Word for the Year with Emily Ley (Replay)
    Jan 17 2026
    Today's episode is starting with a mini solo episode and continuing with a conversation that I am honored to re-share with Emily Ley. She wrote a devotional book titled Sure as the Sunrise in 2022, and in today's episode, we focus in on the idea of creating a word for the year along with how to create a grace filled morning routine that will work for whatever your life looks like right now. This conversation was so encouraging and comes at the perfect time of year as we are looking towards the fresh start of the new year, but I hope this episode reminds you that any day can be a fresh start. More Minimal-ish New Year Episodes: Episode 213: 4 Ways to Walk Intentionally into 2024 - Other Ways to Set Goals or Intentions for the Year Episode 212: The Annual Minimal-ish Goal Setting Episode- Reflecting on Your Year and Setting Goals that Align with Your Values Episode 165: One Small, Impactful Change to Start the Year (Changing the New Years Narrative) Links: Emily's Devotional: Sure as the Sunrise ⁠Emily's Website⁠ ⁠Emily on Instagram⁠ ⁠Podcast Website⁠ ⁠Desirae on Instagram⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    41 mins
  • 283: Why Strength Training is Life Changing for Women + How to Fit Fitness into your Busy Life with Sam Lindauer

    283: Why Strength Training is Life Changing for Women + How to Fit Fitness into your Busy Life with Sam Lindauer
    Dec 30 2025
    This week I’m so excited to be joined by Sam Lindauer, a mom, physical therapist, and strength training coach on the Ladder app, for a motivating and encouraging conversation all about strength training— especially for women and moms who want to feel stronger, more energized, and more mentally grounded. Sam reminds us that you don’t need perfect conditions, a gym membership, or a ton of free time to get started. She shares some much needed reminders for busy moms about how showing up consistently and giving your body small, intentional challenges over time can still make a big impact. If you’re craving a more doable and sustainable way to feel stronger in your current season of life or even as you approach creating goals for the new year, Sam’s encouragement and practical tips will meet you right where you are. Links from this episode: Ladder App (30 days free) Sam on Instagram (@strongwithsamantha) Join Sam’s Team on Ladder Ladder Website Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website Previous Minimal-ish Episodes on Fitness in Motherhood Episode 265: Monthly Experiment #1: Healthier Habits Episode 224: Simplifying Fitness and Wellness in Motherhood with Amy Kiefer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    57 mins
  • 282: Intentional Parenting for the Holiday Woes: Sibling fights, Screen time, and Full schedules

    282: Intentional Parenting for the Holiday Woes: Sibling fights, Screen time, and Full schedules
    Dec 4 2025
    This week on Minimalish, I’m welcoming Devon Kuntzman, founder of Transforming Toddlerhood, for a conversation every toddler parent needs, especially during the holiday season. Devon brings so much clarity and compassion to the toddler years, and this episode is full of encouragement and truly helpful strategies you can start using right away. We talk about what’s really going on beneath “big behaviors,” why toddlerhood is such an important developmental season, and how a lot of the work actually starts with us—our emotions, our expectations, and the environment we create. Devon also shares practical tips for everyday challenges, including navigating sibling conflict, managing screen time, prepping for busy seasons (like holidays) so you and your kids can handle transitions with more ease, and setting boundaries with family and friends in a way that protects your values. If you’re craving more peace, confidence, and connection in your home—especially with little ones in the toddler stage (though the tips can span many ages of childhood)— then this episode is for you. Links from this episode: Devon's Website Devon on Instagram (@transformingtoddlerhood) Check out Devon's Book: Transforming Toddlerhood Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website Holiday episodes: Declutter with me (Holiday Edition) A Values Based Holiday Season with Kat Steck Values Based holiday spending with Jen Hygge Holidays with Diane in Denmark Mental Decluttering for the Holidays Getting intentional about Gift Giving Thinking Ahead for Intentional Holiday Traditions Holiday Q&A (dealing with the influx of stuff, Finding time to rest, Traditions, etc) Teaching our kids contentment and gratitude with Rachel Cruze Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins
  • 281: Building lasting Community with Palak Dave

    281: Building lasting Community with Palak Dave
    Nov 17 2025
    This week on Minimalish, I’m joined by author and speaker Palak Dave for an honest and relatable conversation about something so many of us crave in adulthood—true connection and community. Palak shares practical encouragement for building authentic friendships and creating spaces where people feel seen and welcomed. We talk about overcoming the fear of hosting, bringing authenticity into everyday gatherings, and finding joy in the simple, beautiful moments that make up real life. She also shares her insight on how technology impacts our ability to connect, and how we can bring more intention and thoughtfulness into our relationships. If you’ve been longing for deeper connections or want to create community right where you are, this episode will leave you inspired to start small and lead with intention. Links from this episode: Palak’s Website Palak on Instagram (@paldave) Check out Palak’s Book: Beautiful Everydays Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    40 mins
  • 280: Intentional Rhythms and Routines for a Busy Life with KyAnn Molina

    280: Intentional Rhythms and Routines for a Busy Life with KyAnn Molina
    Oct 11 2025
    This week on Minimalish, I’m joined by KyAnn Molina, a wife, homeschooling mom of three little ones 5 and under, and host of the Simple Rhythms for Busy Moms podcast. In our conversation, KyAnn and I talk about the importance of intentional routines in motherhood, especially when you’re juggling work, keeping up with your home, and family life. She shares openly about her own journey with postpartum depression and how it shaped her approach to routines and why mental health and self-care matter so much for moms. We also chat about practical home management systems (like tackling the never ending piles of laundry), how to build rhythms that serve your family’s unique and ever-changing seasons, and the freedom that comes from keeping things simple and flexible. If you’ve been craving more balance and less chaos in your days, then be sure to tune in to this week's episode Links from this episode: KyAnn on Instagram (@kyannandmat) KyAnn’s Podcast: Simple Rhythms for Busy Moms KyAnn’s Free Facebook Community KyAnn’s Website Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website More Episodes on Habits, Routines, & Home Management: Ep. 197: Layering Routines and "Surthriving" with Tyler Moore (aka the Tidy Dad) Ep. 181: Simple Home Management Routines + Habits (without the Perfectionism) with Kelly Briggs Ep. 145: Creating Daily Rhythms for Your Everyday Life with Katy Lewis Ep. 138: Creating a Laundry System That Works with Amy Eilers Sponsors: Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box and a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com/minimalish Calm: Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription at calm.com/minimalish Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    54 mins