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What if the biggest obstacle between you and actually drinking less isn't willpower, habit, or social pressure — but the words you're using to talk to yourself about it?

This episode borrows a little wisdom from the world of NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming) to shine a light on five ordinary, everyday words that are quietly working against your moderation goals.

These aren't obscure or complicated — they're the kind of language that slips into your self-talk without a second thought, because it's just how we've always spoken. And yet, when it comes to changing the way you drink in midlife, these tiny words can have an outsized impact on how your brain processes — and follows through on — change.

Once you know what to listen for, you'll clock them constantly.

2:18 What NLP Has to Do With Changing Your Drinking

3:02 Your Brain is Wired for Survival

4:46 Why Trying Doesn't Work

6:54 Wishing & Hoping Is Not A Plan

8:46 There is No Should

10:44 Swap But For And

13:17 From 'I Can’t' To 'What If I Can?'

15:53 Practice The Reframes And Move On

Best episode to listen to next:
ep#153. Are You Too Old For Mindful Drinking? - https://www.buzzsprout.com/2229527/episodes/18562254

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If you've ever hesitated at the bar or in the supermarket over a 0.5% beer, wondering whether it counts as "really" alcohol-free — this one's for you.

The labelling around low and no drinks can be genuinely confusing, especially when the UK and most of the countries we import from aren't working from the same rulebook. There's actual science behind the answer, and it might put your mind at rest to finally know the truth

1:38 Why 0.5% Drinks Can't Get You Drunk

3:04 Metabolism And Micro Doses Of Alcohol

4:06 Everyday Foods With Trace Alcohol

Dive deeper with:

ep#76. Beyond Bananas! 12 Everyday Foods That Contain Alcohol

On Apple – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/76-beyond-bananas-12-everyday-foods-that-contain-alcohol/id1701338793?i=1000701851950

On Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Qo6ZlOME4QEUTGT4NyzFi?si=75dc9a05eefc4cba

On Overcast – https://overcast.fm/+BDZGuYsLbA

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Have you ever dipped a toe into the world of mindful drinking, decided it wasn't for you, and quietly slipped back to your old habits — only to find yourself here again, months or even a year later?

That's exactly what happened to H. She found this podcast, subscribed, then walked away. A year on, she came back — and this time, something had shifted. Her story isn't unique. It might actually be yours.

This episode explores the part of the mindful drinking journey that nobody really talks about: the waiting room. That in-between place where you're not quite ready to commit, but something keeps pulling you back. The repeated dry Januarys with no real plan for February. The "failed" attempts that weren't really failures at all. And the quiet but growing awareness that alcohol might not be serving you the way it once did.

Mindful drinking isn't a quick fix or a personality transplant. It's a tool — and knowing how and when to pick it up is half the battle.

Whether you're somewhere between sober curious and not-bloody-likely-yet, your journey has already started, whether you're ready to admit it or not.

2:13 H's story

3:46 Not the only one

5:16 Mindful Drinking As a Tool

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Ever picked up a bottle of alcohol-free wine or a non-alcoholic spirit and wondered why it costs as much — or more — than the full-strength version? You're not alone, and the answer is more interesting than you might think.

Alcohol does a lot more heavy lifting in a drink than most people realise, and replacing all of those functions doesn't come cheap.

Find out everything you need to know in this five-minute listen.

Dive deeper with:

108: Costs Pt1: What You’re Really Paying For
On Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/108-costs-pt1-what-youre-really-paying-for/id1701338793?i=1000723671858

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109: Costs Pt2: £62,899 Burnout
On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1YDnvrKmgOEwCeP2b6U5NK?si=f092962e1999409e

& Feel free to email me any topics or questions you’d like me to answer for you on another episode of Drinks 101.

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If you ever find yourself stuck in the planning phase, endlessly researching moderation techniques but never quite knowing which one to actually try, this episode is for you.

From zebra striping to bookending to coasting, the sheer number of approaches to cutting back can feel overwhelming—especially when you're not sure if what worked (or didn't work) for someone else will work for you.

I'm breaking down the most popular active moderation techniques, complete with honest pros and cons for each. But more importantly, I'm giving you five critical questions to ask yourself that will help you identify which approach might actually fit your life, your personality, and your drinking goals.

We'll explore the difference between active and passive moderation, why one failed attempt doesn't mean you're doomed, and how to build sustainable habits instead of white-knuckling your way through rigid rules.

Whether you thrive on structure or need maximum flexibility, there's a moderation technique that can work for you—you just need to know which questions to ask first.

2:22 The Low No Drinker Quiz - The Thinker

3:43 Active & Passive Moderation

5:41 Dry Month Challenges: Pros And Cons

7:11 Zebra Striping Explained

8:53 Bookending Your Night

9:53 Coasting With Mid-Strength Drinks

10:58 Personal Rules And Boundaries

13:45 Mixing And Matching Approaches

14:34 Five Questions To Choose Your Method

17:12 Question 2

18:13 Question 3

19:22 Question 4

21:24 Question 5

ep#114: £800 Million Lost, Over-55s Join In & Why "Drinking Less" Is the Wrong Term

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Worried CBD drinks will get you high or trigger a case of the munchies? I'm clearing up the confusion around cannabidiol—the non-psychoactive ingredient from cannabis that's showing up in supermarket-friendly brands like Trip and GoodRays. From how it actually works in your brain to why it won't cause intoxication, I'll explain what CBD drinks really do and whether they're worth adding to your alcohol-free rotation.

Dive deeper with: ep#47. Psychotropic-Curious with High & Dry Founder Daniel Rowntree

On Apple – https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/47-psychotropic-curious-with-high-dry-founder-daniel/id1701338793?i=1000678626373

On Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Hse5wHNPIFcbeABPRdUz7?si=4c1cfa1a6f02485d

On Overcast – https://overcast.fm/+BDZGsWqbTU

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You've made a clear decision about your drinking trajectory for the night, you’re feeling comfortable and confident about it, yet some people can’t quite seem to accept “No thanks” for an answer.

It’s not about you. This is their issue… but why?

These are the five personality types you'll encounter when you start drinking differently. From the Validator to the Controller, and once you understand what each type actually needs from you, their reactions make a lot more sense. And more importantly, you'll know that you never need to compromise your choices to manage their discomfort.

1:59 Selfish in the Right Way

3:41 The Validator

5:28 The Includer

7:02 The Traditionalist

8:49 The Host

10:10 The Controller

11:32 Make No Mean No

13:02 Compassion Without Compromise

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Think coffee is your only pick-me-up? I'm unpacking nootropics—the brain-boosting compounds showing up in your alcohol-free drinks that enhance everything from memory to concentration. From the caffeine in your morning brew to lesser-known ingredients like L-tyrosine and ginkgo biloba, I'll explain what these cognitive enhancers actually do and why you definitely don't want to drink them before bed.

Go deeper with: ep#69. The Fungi Consultant: Do Functional Mushrooms Work in Low/No Drinks?

On Apple – https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/69-the-fungi-consultant-do-functional-mushrooms-work/id1701338793?i=1000698034459

On Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ZLJayoZfdzS1775yTaUwJ?si=150266b3fd824799

On Overcast – https://overcast.fm/+BDZGumjchM

& Feel free to email me any topics or questions you’d like me to answer for you on another episode of Drinks 101.

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