In this powerful conversation, Dae Hayes is joined by special guest Elan Page, a mom who is navigating the world of homeschooling with grace, grit, and God’s guidance. This episode is for the mom wondering, “Can I homeschool my child and still chase my dreams?” or “How do I prioritize self-care while being present in my parenting?”

Elan gets real about the financial and emotional realities of homeschooling, and how to make education a collaborative decision between parents. You'll hear about the importance of community, honoring each child’s God-given gifts, and the reminder that motherhood doesn’t mean the end of your individuality—it’s often the beginning of discovering it.

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💡 Key Takeaways:

• Homeschooling is a calling and a choice, and it works best when both parents are in partnership.

• Your identity matters—exploring your passions is not selfish, it’s sacred.

• Every child is an assignment from God, with their own unique learning path.

• Self-care is spiritual—you can’t pour from an empty vessel.

• Community matters. You don’t have to homeschool (or mother) alone.

In this heartfelt episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares a deeply personal reflection inspired by the worship song "Canvas and Clay"—a powerful reminder that nothing in our motherhood journey is wasted. Whether you're navigating sleepless nights, identity shifts, or mental exhaustion, this conversation reminds you that God is still shaping you.

Through the imagery of pottery, Dae explores the beauty of being formed on the Potter’s wheel, even when the process feels messy or incomplete. Just like clay, we are crushed, reformed, and refined. But through it all, God’s hands never leave us.

💛 You’ll be reminded that:

• God uses every season—even the hard ones—for His glory and your good.

• Your identity as a mom is not the end of your story, it’s part of your becoming.

• Surrendering control makes space for God’s creative work in you.

• Spiritual consistency is cultivated in the crushing, not the comfort.

Whether you’re deep in the trenches or just trying to catch your breath, this episode offers biblical encouragement for weary hearts and hope for moms who feel like unfinished work.

What to Expect:

In this conversation, Host Jarkeshia McGahee, a resilient widow, mother, and woman of faith discusses the intersection of mental health and faith. JAM emphasizes the importance of checking in on oneself and others. She shares personal experiences of navigating grief, loss, and the unpredictability of life, while highlighting how God’s purpose prevails despite our plans. The discussion encourages vulnerability, community support, and the significance of surrendering to God’s plan for our lives.

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Highlights:

• Life often doesn't go as planned, but God has a purpose for us.

• Grief and loss can be navigated with faith and community support.

• It's important to ask for help and be vulnerable with others.

• Finding your voice is essential for fulfilling your purpose.

• Self-inventory is necessary for personal growth and mental health.

• Sharing your testimony can inspire and help others.

Chapters

02:16 When Life Doesn't Go According to Plan

06:21 God's Plans show His Glory

08:40 Are You Really Prepared to Receive Your Own Plans?

10:08 Trials are Used to Create Testimonies

11:30 Real Feelings in Grief & What to Do With Them

15:39 Reverse CHOP Tips

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What to Expect:

In this conversation, the speakers discuss the challenges and joys of motherhood, particularly in the context of loss and trauma. They emphasize the importance of community, faith, and personal growth while navigating the complexities of parenting. The discussion also highlights the significance of storytelling and writing as tools for healing and empowerment among mothers.

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Summary

In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares her journey as a mother and entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of mental health alongside motherhood. She discusses her experiences with obedience, the sovereignty of God, and the challenges of navigating expectations in her faith journey. Dae reflects on the significance of trusting God's plan, even in the face of rejection and unmet expectations, and encourages listeners to deepen their relationship with God through these experiences.

What to Expect:

• God uses everything that we bring to him at the altar.
• Trusting God's plan is as important as trusting His power.
• Rejection can be a form of reward in God's eyes.
• God wants all the glory in our achievements.
• Navigating motherhood and entrepreneurship can be challenging.
• Deepening your relationship with God is a continuous journey.

Highlights

01:14 Launching the Create Bless Repeat Summit

03:53 Understanding God's Sovereignty and Obedience

09:12 Navigating Spiritual Warfare and Expectations

13:23 Trusting God's Plan Over Personal Ambition

15:41 Finding Meaning in Rejection and Suffering

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What to Expect:

In this heartfelt conversation, Nia Greenwood shares her journey of motherhood, faith, and personal growth. She discusses the challenges of maintaining individuality while raising children, the importance of obedience and surrender in her faith journey, and how she navigates grief after losing her mother. Nia emphasizes the significance of support and faith transfer among mothers, encouraging listeners to embrace their journeys with grace and resilience.

Highlights

02:47 Pump or Dump: Balancing Individuality and Motherhood

06:13 The Journey of Obedience and Surrender

12:07 Navigating Control and Perfectionism in Motherhood

16:00 Pacing Your Ambition

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What to Expect:

In this episode of the Mind Your Own Motherhood podcast, Dae takes a journey with hindsight and insight through her notes app. She discusses the importance of embracing change, being bold in faith, and the significance of community support.

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